Archive for December, 2009

I’m Tired of saying things like…

Monday, December 28th, 2009

I’m tired of saying things
I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired
I hate feeling like I hate feeling
I get annoyed at getting annoyed
I’m over being over it
I get frustrated every time I get frustrated
Ive had enough of having enough
Why do I allow my negativity to feed my negativity….
I never get sick or tired or annoyed or hateful or negative or get over choosing happiness.
why does it seem easier to feed our negative side than it does our positive side?
worry begets worry
joy begets joy
they are not the same but they are companions.

Merry Xmas

Friday, December 25th, 2009

I wish you all a very merry Xmas!
and now I must stop myself from talking about how tough this year has been as I will leave that to my New Years post – but it has been tough hasnt it. Much changed over the year good and bad, some of us have lost loved ones and some have gained some!
My Xmas wish is that we embrace the past and give thanks for what we have right now! In this moment be grateful for the good in our lives, the love we have and love we are able to give. Be thankful and in being thankful feel the joy that that brings and therefore be joyful and spread it around!!
XMAS CHEER TO YOU ALL!

anniversary

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Yep today Andrea and I have been married for 22 years!!!!
Struth!
Some one asked me what was the secret or the key to 22 years of what would seem a successful marriage….my answer is:
1. communication – speak and listen…be honest in your communication….it is unconditional meaning it must need be open, honest and complete
2. unconditional love – no matter what, the basis of the relationship is just that – an unconditional love – thereby the commitment being to each other and working through what ever problems arise. Being married is about freedom not about boundaries but about freedom to love. That is a journey which is most rewarding and spectacular.
3. the absolute desire to grow and better oneself as an individual and as a married couple
The above points set the responsibility upon us, the challenge is to be completly open and honest. Lastly I would add be greatful and be rejoiceful for it is a wonderful thing to be in love after 22 years!
I am.