Paul's Corner

Paul's Potent Potables?

Hey Paul.

How about "Brewery Paul's" for the name? I think that is quite catchier than your other ideas (not to say that your ideas were catchy at all, of course!)

Good luck on the new job. Never downplay any kind of new experience. Even I, in a very perplexing time of my life (if you remember my previous posts) know that the job I do now, even if I decide to leave it sooner than later, is providing me with such valuable experience and many contacts. And in a small way, I'm actually kind of excited that it's not what I want to settle into, because this makes me think "if not this, then what's next?" but in a GOOD way! Yes, I'm much more upbeat today than I was in my earlier posts, which is strange considering the nightmarish day I had! Everything that could have gone wrong did!

I am extremely close to my mom as well. I feel lucky, as she (and my father as well) was amazingly supportive during my toughest times, and still is during these trying times. And my siblings aren't as close to her as I am, and like you Paul, I'm not sure why. I remember hearing something once about parents loving all their children equally but providing the different levels of emotional support necessary to each child's needs, and some are needier than others. I am the needy one. Therefore I lean on her heavily. My siblings have had an easier time dealing with life, and they don't need her as much, therefore it seems like they aren't as close. Perhaps that is it.

Yeah, I definitely think "Brewery Paul's" is the way to go!

For those in America, have a great Thanksgiving!

Hi Paul

Mercurio's Brewery Cafe is the best one i think. As a Canadian, any place that sells beer is great to me, no matter what the name! ever thought of starting a franchise? :)

cheers, Leah

Leah, way ahead of you on the franchise. I have spoken to some of my potential partners and I reckon it's a go, but crawl first, then walk and then franchise!

Jody, worse day ever and feeling good eh? Thats because no matter what was thrown your way you dealt with it!! Good onya! As a kid I was the one that gave Mum the emotional support she needed and was not getting from any one else. Sometimes I reckon god put me there to help Mum through it. I dont think we have ever seen each other as anything but on equal footing - played the Mum/Kid roles etc but there was always that other bit of being there. Breweery Paul's is on the list.

Innussiq, I reckon I will have to do a "Paul's Potent Potable Pale Ale" and I'll send you one when I do!

Greetings, Paul. Sorry your Mum doesn’t live closer to you. But I’m very happy for you (and her) that you have such a wonderful relationship. Aside from the fact that she brings you so much joy, your relationship gives me hope that my boys will always want me to be a part of their lives.

I am sending you positive vibes on those auditions. And I’m sure one of these things will break for you soon. In the meantime, I ache for you as I do for my husband. You have to let it go when you leave the audition, but that’s easier said than done, especially when you’ve gone for long stretches waiting by the phone.

We’re going through our savings while we stare at the phone. Allan has taken to talking to himself when the computer screws up. I fight the irresistible urge to yell “Bite Me!” when people honk their horns at me because I refuse to brake the speed limit. Fortunately, I was able to turn that urge into an occasion for laughter today. Still, these are stressful times. I’ve been looking through the classifieds and I started to revise my resume last night. Next week, I’ll start looking for a regular job. I have a good work record and strong abilities; but the economy is faltering and I’m competing with people half my age. Ahhh, more lessons! As you engage in your “real” work, I wish you all the best.

For what it’s worth, I think your name should be on your restaurant. “Paul’s Place” is my favorite, so far. Short. Name identity. Implies familiarity and comfort. Easy to remember. Falls trippingly from the lips.

Have a great visit with your sister. I’ve spent lots of time on the phone lately with my “bestest buddy” brother and my “prodigal” brother. Feels like I can’t get enough time with these guys. As with so many other people in my life, I feel like I can’t soak it all in fast enough.

Paul, I am thankful for you and for this site. Blessings to you and your family and Happy Thanksgiving to all!!!

Diane

P.S. Oooh, I like the beer title, but maybe take out "Potable" to read "Paul's Potent Pale Ale." That way, you can still pronounce it after the second mug!!!

Mercurio's Strictly Beeroom?

Paul, I'll take it. Diane, you are funny! and Jozielee that is a great suggestion! I have decided I watch too much Jeopardy.
On parents: my Mom is still with us and I love her, but I have to take her in small doses. She never was very loving and there are times when she likes to remind me that I don't keep my kids as spotlessly clean as she kept hers. I never quite say that I'm thinking "I'd rather let my kids have fun playing then sitting on the couch looking like 'little dolls', or that I have more important things to do then scrub shoes and shoelaces with clorox and a toothbrush." My dad is passed and I will never stop feeling the empitness. I have lots of friends and my family is pretty close so I don't have it bad.
Paul, I hope your job hunt will be fruitful!

Paul, I'm just amazed by how many different venues you are exploring simultaneously and hope that which ever ones will come through that you will be happy and fulfilled in each of them. I'm just thinking "Good for you for not getting stuck and being open to all these different paths." Definitely drawing a blank on the name thing, but you have so many good ideas anyway. And on selling notebooks, mine is giving me its first signs that it is wearing out .... wouldn't mind if it stuck around until May or so. And do you brew Hefeweizen type beer? Seems to be my preferred beer, at least from the local breweries back home and the local one here which only made it in the summer--suffereing from acute withdrawal symptoms :-)-- will have to go for the Pale Ale for now. Okay, now I need to go to the store and decide on what non-traditional veggies I will make for Thanksgiving for a group of fuzzy veggie eaters.

Happy Thanksgiving & giving thanks to all.
Evelyn

Upps, forgot one question: how did the audition go?

for what it's worth, i cast my vote for mercurio's brewery - solid, simple - rolls easy off the tongue (cafe, yeah if it's a bar/restaurant)

diane - think you're right about the p's after a few beers...(but then again....might be kind of fun trying to order the second one!)

later.............

Audition went great! Walked out thinking "hey I might get this one" but then that is what I normally think. Just got to wait and see if I smelled right for the part - reality is they will see 20 guys that can do it - but none as special as me :)

I love hefeweizen - never forget getting off a plane in Hamburg after travelling for 30 hours. Arrived at 5.30 am got picked up and went stright to a beer hall and had hefeweizen, white sausage and pretzels for breakfast. YUMMY then went and had a nap and at 7.30am I was live on TV morning chat show - was I relaxed or what?!!

Paul's Place has been a favorite with my Wife and I for a long time. It is informal and relaxed - 'Where you going?...."Paul's Place" ....cool

Paul's Place is too simple a name for such a complex guy. Me being me I must say I like Mercurio's Strictly Beeroom. I'm a whimsicle kind of girl. Of course if I had a bar I think I'd name it "Suds" "Where you going?" "Suds"
almost sounds as if your not really answering but telling the person to piss off. My whacky sense of humor.
Happy Thanksgiving to all of you listers who will be eating themselves senseless today. I hope you all have more to be thankful for then you can count.

Kind of glad you couldn't see the face I made, Hefeweizen, Weisswurst and Pretzeln for breakfast???? that would totally ruin my day and upset my stomach, except for the Pretzeln--those I like to eat as soon as I get off the plane arriving in Germany--but then I'm a VERY fussy breakfast eater (actually more a non-eater...) and as a Southern German what can I say about the Northerners, except, "Damn Fischköppe (=Fishheads, that's what the Southerners call North Germans), stealing the Hefeweizen, the Weisswurst and the Pretzeln..." all traditionally Southern German foods, and on top of that they pronounce German in a really weird way (okay, the same goes for Southern Germans, even I have to admit that :-)) Okay, enough humoring of my countrymen.

Congratulations on a good audition!!! Must be tough to feel good about what you did there and knowing that there are 20 others who are just as qualified (or perhaps not :)) and keeping a grip on your emotions and expectations realistic so as not to get trampled on/disappointed. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you (until they cramp ... :-) And by the way, I like "Paul's Place" it is simple, to the point, and leaves enough room to make it whatever you want it to be.

And now I'm going to write for a while about the things I'm thankful for, and there are many.

Innussiq, I think I'm going to make your Banana Cream Pie tomorrow and invite some friends over Friday or Saturday.

I'm hoping positive things for you with the audition.
My nose surgery went well. I go back to work tomorrow with a great new sense of self.
A couple of comments. Paul on the job. Just view it as one of life's little burps. You know it you did at least tell us how to buy "through" you your sales would increase. I need a new laptop. It like I tell new cosmetology students. They hait learning pincurls and some older hair setting methods. So I told them to pretend they were working in Hollywood on a set. And the period ot he film was 1940. They had to set hair for all the female characters. No wigs...What would they do? Some things just help you in the long run. Your looks alone will probably sell a ton of computers. Sales people always do well if they look good. I have a friend I graduated from college with and he's in Computer software development and sales now. Hiw own company. however, in his initial post graduation days, his sales were always incredible...why? He was nice, great voice, great looks...a total charmer. Now when he looks for people that's what he looks for in women and men. Call it bigoted ...but his company makes a ton of money. I'm sure you'll hear something positive on an audition soon.
I like Pauls place. If you need help with accounting..I'd be happy to put together a business plan for you and your partners. Seems thats what I'm going to have to do in order to make enough money to live. I'm going back to school to get my masters.
The hair thing although my passion, is definitely a starving artist thing.
I did finish my screenplay. Hopefully it'll be out there for grabs soon.
Everyone have safe an happy holidays or personal time off. Enjoy your family and friends.
Tim

I still vote for my original idea, Brewery Paul's. "Paul's Place" seems popular, but my only problem with it is that it's SO simple, it could be ANYONE's place or hangout anywhere in the world. No that Brewery Paul's is that much more distinctive, it's just a little extra catchy.

Glad the audition went great. Actually, I'd like your opinion about an audition I had last year. I've been in a few indie films, MANY more auditions, of course. The most hurtful one, I think, was the one when I went in, the director held up my headshot and said "this is her, you are her!" before I even had a chance to read. In other words, he cast me in a way, without me even auditioning, and even TOLD me that. But then I auditioned, I got the "thank you very much", and never heard from him again. Wasn't it not the best move on his part to declare me perfect for the role before I even read? I mean really, THAT rejection was much more hurtful than the others, because it made me feel like I was terrible, and not just not right for the part. Like I had the part and lost it as soon as I opened my mouth, you know what I mean? Then, like I said in an earlier post on another thread, I realize that he was a human being too, and obviously had some imperfections as well, as it was kind of unprofessional on his part to set me up for a huge fall like that. Opinions, Paul and anyone?

Happily, I got one "movie" dream fulfilled before my 30th birthday, the week before in fact. After several appearances in some films that I just NEVER ended up seeing anywhere, I got to see myself on the "big screen", my biggest dream, when an indie I was in over a year earlier (another one I never thought I would end up seeing!) premiered in Boston two months ago, one week shy of my birthday. What a hoot seeing myself up there on the screen! Made up for that horrible audition not long before, that's for sure!

Brewery Paul's, Brewery Paul's, Brewery Paul's, Brewery Paul's....

Hey Paul!

A note on Code 1114--I don't believe it ever aired. If I recall correctly, it involved some kind of violence on an airplane? After 9/11, that was taboo. I imagine it may still air eventually.

For brewery names, I think "Mercurio's" would be nice. My hubby jokingly recommended "Strictly Beerroom" before I saw jozielee's comment. Got a good chuckle out of that.

Back to the kitchen with me--time to baste the turkey!

Greetings, Paul! Saying my prayers and doing my give- this-actor-a-break dance to bring that next job your way.

I trust everyone else had a delicious Thanksgiving Day.
Unfortunately, l didn't have any special recipes to share. With a small, busy family, with different dietary needs, I don't fix many big meals. So when Thanksgiving comes along, I become organizationally-impaired. Each year for the past several, I have forgotten to serve some dish or other. Yesterday was no different. And it was the cranberries, for cryin' out loud. Can you believe that? Well, at least I'm consistent. Among our guests was a family from England who don't know from Thanksgiving, so my shame was easily converted into self-deprecating humor.

Innussiq, I am really looking forward to trying your pie recipe. Hannukah starts tonight (Oey, Gevalt!) and we're going to hide homemade coupons for homemade goodies, such as pies. I think I'll leave your recipe in a very conspicuous place. As for Paul's restaurant, I think "Suds" is a clever name. I like your sense of humor also, maybe because it's as twisted as mine :)!

Evelyn, thanks for your humorous poke at Northern Germans. My father's grandparents came from Germany and I remember my great-grandmother as a very stern, stubborn, woman. Think Cloris Leachman in "Young Frankenstein." She taught me how to bake and sew, but I don't remember ever seeing her smile. Plus, she was a pisser toward my mom. Ah well, maybe they're all sitting around in the hereafter enjoying a Hefeweizen and chuckling about their own mistakes while they watch me make my own.

Tim, good for you on going back to school. I vacillate between wanting the quick-fix of a job to pay some bills and wanting to spend my time building some sort of career. Best of luck to you on the masters degree!!!

Jody, auditioners can be gifted and visionary or they can be arrogant, biased, unaware, inexperienced, and limited thinkers. It's tough not to get your hopes up and your auditioner was wrong to do encourage that; but it's likely to happen again, so be prepared. You may well have lost the part when you opened your mouth; but that doesn't necessarily mean you lost the part because of your talent. Maybe it was the pitch of your voice, or the cadence of your speech, or some other quality that didn't match the exact image in his head. The best you can do is give your best in each audition. If you get comments from your audition, incorporate those you find useful and throw the rest away. Then move on. Try not to let those insecurities (which we all have) set up shop in your head and run endless-loop tapes about your perceived failures. I didn't understand this early on when I was auditioning. I've gotten a better beat on it through my post-acting work and by observing my husband's career. Performing is a tough business. Hang in there!

Hey, bluedog, whatddya say we get the gang together and all meet at Paul's Place/Brewery Paul's/Mecurios' Brewery Cafe someday to find out how much humor we can get out of tripping over our plosives after a couple of Paul's brews? I'm putting money in the piggy bank right now!

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Gotta tell ya, I'm leaning toward the Strictly Beerroom, myself. I love a great play on words. Sure, there are those out there who would be clueless as to the actual meaning, but for those of us in on the joke, Bravo!

Diane, I agree, someday, somehow, we do all have to meet. The grand opening of Paul's brew hall, perhaps?

Here's to a nice long weekend.

I'm all for a trip to OZ!

Innussiq can I ask the obviously "dumb" question--okay, scratch dumb, since I tell my students that there are no dumb questions when they ask me "Can I ask a dumb question?, I might as well apply that to myself--I made the Banana Cream Pie today and it is currently chilling in my fridge, but where exactly do the sliced bananas go and do you have to bake the entire pie again after you baked the pie crust, cooled it etc. and then filled it somehow with bananas and the cream custard? It didn't say so in the recipe you posted and since I've never seen or had a Banana Cream Pie, I wasn't sure. I ended up not baking it again, and first put the banana slices on the pie crust and then the custard on top. It looks and smells pretty good, will hopefully have some of it tomorrow, but then again it depends on my friends and if we can find a time to hang out, that seems to be the more difficult part of this whole cross-cultural get together: mix the German weekend coffee klatsch with American Pie, a belated Thanksgiving and the German First Advent Christmas Holiday celebration, and if Ari comes I guess well have to throw a Chanukka element in there as well, getting the idea?

I'm all in favor of that trip to OZ, have been wanting to do so for about 15 years and still not quite gotten there--as a matter of fact no where near it :-(.

Diane, maybe some day I'll humor the South Germans as well, since neither my parents is from that area, I can always play it both ways, if I feel like it :) (very convenient!) I hope you don't think that not smiling is a German national characteristic but it is kind of sad that it is one of your main memories of your great-grandmother. And as a survival strategy for your next big holiday, why not make it a pot-luck style where everyone brings one/two pre-assigned food category? This is what my "American family" and I always do and it works out quite well, everyone making something special and no-one ends up being stressed out for having to cook the entire meal.

And Cat does this mean that you and your husband have finally managed to live in/move to the same location? I sure hope so for both of you.

Diane: Thanks for the comments. Yes, I am aware of the reasons for not getting cast. I just think it was wrong of that director to TELL me I was "her" before he even heard the pitch of my voice, cadence of speech, carriage of my face, etc. That was when I realized that these casting people are NOT gods, but have as many flaws as the rest of us!

Do I dare say, although I strongly stand by my "Brewery Paul's" idea, I must admit "Strictly Beerroom" is becoming more and more attractive to me, the more I think about it.

Hi. I hope I'm doing this right. I would like to
comment on the idea of judging myself. When I was little all I ever did was conform to other people's expectations of me. My self worth totally depended on how other people saw me. I made a career out of impression management. Very slowly I became aware I was depressed and felt sort of like a delinquint Pinocchio. A wooden puppet attached by strings to whatever I was chasing after for significance. When , finally, I stopped looking to other people for validation, it was like I was set free. I think the more I accepted myself,, warts and all, the less judgemental I became towards myself and others. That sort of empowered me to forgive. My changing scared my family and people I was associated with. . Most dysfunctional behavior is motivated by fear. That's why I loved the character Scott in your movie Strictly Ballroom. He never stopped caring for the world he just wasn't going to allow them to make a wooden puppet out of him.

Anyway I really loved the movie! I hope you make more! I think what I'm trying to say is that I try not to judge anymore. I'm not God. Let Him do it.

Evelyn and all, I am so sorry I missed the rest of the directions.. here they are.

1. To assemble, spread about 1/2 cup of the custard on the bottom of the crust. Arrange about a third of the banana slices, crowding them close together over the custard. Next, spread 1 cup of the custard over the bananas. Arrange another third of the banana slices close together over the custard. Top with 1 cup custard and the remaining banana slices. Top with the remaining custard, covering the bananas completely to prevent them from turning brown.

2. Cover with plastic wrap and chill for at least 4 hours.

3. To serve, top with the whipped cream and shaved chocolate. Sprinkle with confectioners sugar.

argggggh!!! turkey'd out.......that is until next year - it's my favorite holiday

tim - liked your teaching method - bet you're a hit with the students

diane - thanks for the invite - got a piggy bank, now need to find some pennies

it's late - (texas time)--brain not working...off to bed

catch you all later

Welcome Susan and thank you for your comments. When one changes others become hurt or scared by those changes mainly because it shows them up for being unable to make the changes they may know that they need and thus they blame the hurt they feel onto those that were brave enough to make the changes they neede to make.

I know this for a fact. I changed when I most needed to and a friend that needed to couldnt, I was blamed for the failure not only in our relationship but also in thier life - it has taken me many years to be able to release the hurt I took on and to forgive the person - by which I mean let them go from my life.

Too many people are motivated by the fear not to change and therefore simmer in thier anger and inadequecy. To change is to free ones self of fear, often that means leaving people behind but usually those that feed on the fear of non change.

It doesnt make it any easier though to move on to unchartered territory.... so congrats to Tim for moving in to new territory and to you Susan for having the guts to keep on growing.

All I have to say is: no cutesy names. No freaking "TGIFriday's" kind of names. If you can somehow mix the notion of food and sex into the name, all the better. Maybe drop the personal-reference altogether, no Paul or Mercurio at all, just a descriptor, maybe even something that twinges on your personal beliefs instead like "Zen On Tap" or "Cosmic Brew" or something. Obviously not those cuz they're just silly, all day long. I don't think a whole lot of aussie blokes are gonna be getting off of work at the construction site, kick off the hardhat and say "I'm gonna go have a beer at Zen On Tap and then take some chick home and bang her" but you get my point.
Happy Hanukkah everyone!
Is it me, or is Hanukkah gonna start in June next year? Awful early, Nov 29th and all......

Thanks Innussiq for the "update" on the pie recipe. It really is a delicious pie!!!

Hi again,
Wow.
What a remarkable site this is. I too just came here because of a movie. It's so down to earth and yet fascinating. May I add something?

I don't believe it's what happens to us in life that determines our fate....as much as how we learn to cope with what happens to us. I too had a family member who took his life. A dear friend dragged me to this place in Atlanta, Georgia that has counseling specifically for family members of individuals who take their life. There was a lot this lady said I tuned out, but one thing was really helpful that night. She said to always think of yourself as a survivor instead of a victum. She said it's vitally important how you process any trauma in your mind. Thinking of yourself as a victum means you have no power. Thinking of yourself as a survivor empowers you get through it. Of course you never get over it, but you can survive and have a meaningful life..and a life worth living again. She was right. The other thing you have to do is have a support system...whether family or friends.

Anyway, I hope someone finds this helpful..

Susan

Hi all

Susan- what an incredible account. i cant say that i can relate to your situation, but i sure know what it's like when one word or one phrase sticks with you and opens your eyes.
in the book "Tuesdays With Morrie" a quote that stayed with me was: "Not until you realize you are going to die, can you truly live" it totally makes me appreciate life more.
welcome to the board, im a newbie myself- i love reading what all of you think. take care, happy December!

cheers, Leah

Thankyou for your comments Suasan and for joining in:)

Dear Uncle Peaches - Sarah - personally I love the name Zen for a beer - because I can have a big sign hanging over the bar claiming "ZEN - Now on Tap" ...that tickles my fancy.

There was/is a bar in Santa Monica -Los Angeles called "My Fathers Office". The bar was very relaxed and a real after being at the office kind of kick back and have a quiet beer. Most of all I loved the quality of the name and how the idea of going to My Fathers Office makes me feel. That is why I like the feeling surrounding "Paul's Place" Mind you the more I say it the more I like it "Zen On Tap". Perhaps another name is "Mum's Beer Cafe" or "The Good Sons Brewery" or "A Good Place To Get Pissed" or even "Drink, Eat and Get Laid" okay okay I'm stopping now.... or what about..........

Hi Paul,

I like the idea of a Beer hangout. Paul's Corner sounds like a good name. There is a place in Orange County California called Cook's Corner. I personally have not been there but heard its packed on the weekends and lost of fun. Ten years back I would pass the place on my way to college, and when I went hicking on weekends to Holly Jim Canyon (Riverside and Orange County boarders from Orange County).

Its been a while for me to be here, but I need to head back to my work. Take care and good luck in your endeavors....lucky you.

Ted

Hi Paul,

I like the idea of a Beer hangout. Paul's Corner sounds like a good name. There is a place in Orange County California called Cook's Corner. I personally have not been there but heard its packed on the weekends and lost of fun. Ten years back I would pass the place on my way to college, and when I went hicking on weekends to Holly Jim Canyon (Riverside and Orange County boarders from Orange County).

Its been a while for me to be here, but I need to head back to my work. Take care and good luck in your endeavors....lucky you.

Ted

Hi Paul,

I like the idea of a Beer hangout. Paul's Corner sounds like a good name. There is a place in Orange County California called Cook's Corner. I personally have not been there but heard its packed on the weekends and lost of fun. Ten years back I would pass the place on my way to college, and when I went hicking on weekends to Holly Jim Canyon (Riverside and Orange County boarders from Orange County).

Its been a while for me to be here, but I need to head back to my work. Take care and good luck in your endeavors....lucky you.

Ted

Innussiq,
Sorry to report I botched your pie recipe. I had lots of fun making it but the cream part was to thick. I don't have any experience making cream pies. My family eagerly anticipated my creation but instead fo being too disappointed they gave me some tips on how to make it better for Christmas. I usually have to make something a few times to get it right.
I'll have you all know I, for the first time, have gotten quite a jump on my Christmas shopping. My pistachios arrived a few weeks ago and thanks to E-bay I've been able to aquire a few meaningful gifts. They also gave the employees at Busch Stadium a two day sale where all St. Louis Cardinal stuff is 50% off. Quite a deal and at good prices. I purchased many fine products for friends and loved ones.
I like the name "A Good Place to Get Pissed" the best. Very funny and honest. If I heard of a bar with a name like that I would definately want to go there. Hope everyone had a good holiday.
Sallie

*****I SURVIVED!!!*****

Greetings All,
Just back from good ole Tennessee (and Alabama) where we visited my husband's folks. And I have just one thing to say..."ZOLOFT is a wonderment!" My mom-in-law was down right PLEASANT and enjoyable this trip due to her new meds! Woo-hoo! And this from Nature Girl, I know...shocked me too.

Paul...if you build it, We will Come! Nothing but the promise of several eves hanging out with friends in a GOOD beer joint could prompt me on the what is it, 18 hour plane trip?

Paul, your sister, bright lass that she is, just left upstate NY 'cause it's TOO FREAKING FRIGID! I got up at 5am and the digital thermometer read 1 degree. Yep, ONE degree above zero. My husband called to tell me it had surpassed 4 by 8:00am--woohoo! Send those kids outside to sled! It'll be practically balmy at 11 degrees by noon!

Now, the question is, just how far "upstate" is she? (Me, who lived 20 minutes from the Canadian border all my childhood and whose pediatrician was IN Canada, always got a bit pissy--still do I guess--over people thinking Albany was "upstate" ;-) And this coming from me, whose Kindergardener can name more states on the map than I. Doh!

UP-Sarah...heeheehee, BAD girl! (No biscuit!) ;-)

Ciao and Love, and I could use an ale and it's only 10:30am!

Dhiana

Firstly, welcome to Susan and Leah!

Susan, what you said about being a survivor and not a victim reminded me of one of my students a few years back who was completely suicidal and for some reason she latched on to me as one of the few people she still trusted and would talk to. While I was often terrified by what felt like an overwhelming responsibility "what if I say the wrong thing that will push her over the edge?" etc. esp. on those days when she wasn't in class, leaving me to wonder if she was still alive, [I wish they would make this part of the teacher training, how to deal with such psychological, emotional problems, rather than me having to rely on my gut feeling] it also turned into a really amazing experience to see her pull through from absolute desperation to becoming a survivor and about a year ago, when I saw her last, she exuded joy and peace in a way I've never seen her before and I've known her for several years now. She's a survivor and it was her decision to make to become one!

Paul, what you said about letting people go out of your life, when you needed to change, made me chuckle a bit, not sure why, but I had to let a friend of mine go, because I can't allow him to treat me badly and let him take his anger about his ex-wife out on me, which is what he is doing or trying to do, and for whatever reason, he doesn't get it that that is not okay. He's now giving me the "Oh, but we've been friends for sooo long" spiel and doesn't want to leave my life. I'm not sure why I find this part amusing, but it sure beats being angry and putting up with crap. By the way, somehow you yourself sound happier in your posts these days...

How's your visit with your sister going?

Sallie, my husband said the thicknes is a matter of practise and a bit tought to get used to. Don't worry too much about it not turning out.. i'd hate to se what would happen if I tried to make it. Did you try a little taste anyway? I could eat the filling right out of the mixing bowl, I often try by my husband is pretty good at deflecting.
Paul how about, Foams by Us, or Get Foamy, or Great Heads Drink Alike...boo! I love a bad pun!!!
:-)

Hi,

I hope everyone is having a nice evening. Seems like it. Evelyn, thank you for your comment. The student you mentioned recovered in part because someone like you was willing to take on all her ugliness (if you will)....people don't make decisions in a vacume. What a neat lady you are!

Susan

Wow, so much has happened! Sorry I've not been here, but it's been hectic, or more so than usual!

Innussiq, that pie sounds scrumptious, and if I cooked, you'd bet I would eat it all by myself in one days time.

Texas, hope you're doing allright down there in Tennessee. Love to your mother, and good wishes always. The spirit is stronger than the body.

Tim, I'm glad your nose surgery went well.

Paul, thanksgiving in Australia? hmmmm. . that's more than a tad odd, don't you think? Anyway I'm all for Paul's Place. I think simple is best and leaves your options wide open for what you want the place to be inside. Sounds inviting, comfortable, like a second home where the drinks just happen to be great, and the company even better.

I for one had a WONDerful Thanksgiving! I got to see my niece, and to be there for her 2 year birthday party, not even to mention seeing my sister huge and overflowing with the little boy who will be arriving sometime in March I believe!

thanx for everyone who was thinking of V and praying for her recovery. She's doing much better, and thanx you through me.

chels.

p:
mom's are good. i'm off tomorrow to spend the month with mine because she starts her hep c treatments. wish i were going under better circumstances, but, it will be great to get a whole month with her. can't remember the last time that was. highschool maybe?

my vote is for paul's place. casual, easy to remember. though, i do have to say i was liking the zen references. if only you could bottle zen and sell it. micro-zen. you're not intoxicated, you're enlightened???

have fun with sis. i bet the gals will be happy to see their aunt.

chels: good to hear veronica is doing better.

picture this: me and my pooch on the open road, cd player competing against the volume of my singing johnny cash, willie nelson, hank williams – good on any road trip, but especially one to music city. pup is all smelly and laying shag carpet over the backseat upholstery, occasionally looking up with the sweetest eyes in the known dog world, panting and smiling at her mama as if to say, “do you mind, you’re not that good of a singer.” I got diet coke, red bull, wasabi peas and pirate’s booty on the seat next to me and unpaid nyc parking tix on the floorboard. grateful that the heater works and that my AAA account is current, I cruise through 5 states, both national and emotional, on my journey. I try not to stop at dairy queen, but, I mean, it is the best road trip food ever. besides, can you beat a hunger buster, vegetarian or not, and a blizzard??? I don’t frickin’ think so.

happy holidays all. i hope to check in while in nashville, but, if not, i'll catch ya on the flipside of '03. no resolutions, only resolute.

cheers.

Hi, Susan. Glad to hear from you and thanks for your perspective on loss of a loved one. I have a brother who's in self-destruct mode right now and I'm very frustrated that I (and my other brothers) can't find the magic word to turn him around.

Welcome, Leah. Thanks for the quote from "Tuesdays With Morrie." Good book. The trick is to remember that we're all going to die, though we don't know when. So we have to live in each moment.

Chelsey, I'm so glad to hear that V is doing better. She has my continued prayers for a speedy recovery.

Dhiana, all I can say is I'm glad I do live in the frigid north. Beautiful place to visit, though.

Happy Trails to you, Texas. We're planning a cross-country treck and I'm really looking forward to sharing this kind of experience with my boys. Gotta hit at least one Waffle House and maybe an A & W. Are those still around?

Um, yes. What I meant to say is that I'm glad I DO NOT live in the frigid north. (If that's the only blunder I make today, I'll be really happy.)

"Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Diane, sorry to hear your brother is in self-destruct mode, but while I totally understand your desire to find the magic words to turn him around, he needs to find that himself. I don't think anyone can do that for him, but you can be there for him and surround him with love and whatever else he needs to hold on.

Chels, I'm glad Veronica is doing better and will continue to think of both of you.

And Texas, I hope the treatments will go well for your Mum and I'm glad that you can be there with her. This must mean a lot to her, and most likely also to you.

And Dhiana, at least you have the snow to make the cold weather fun. Here it's pretty much just fricking cold, but no snow to play in. Okay, as of this morning a dusting of snow to play tricks on your mind ...

Best wishes to everyone!

Diane,

I am sorry about your brother. If you ever want me to share what I learned from that specialist in Atlanta just e-mail me. I realize most people are repelled by the subject, but I always found it to be helpful and therapeutic to talk about it....for a short while.

Susan

Dear Paul, 3.12.2002
I'm a screenplay author here in Germany, and because I cannot speak english fluently I have to write briefly and to focuse on the essentials. I want to offer you a main part in a dance musical, although it might be unusual if a author does so. Please read the message and think over. It could be the chance for you, I guest, for the comeback which you deserve.
It is a main role in a gay-lesbian singspiel ballet, which requires just the age, the charme and the skills you´ve got now. There is John, a british (or australian) bal-let master of about 40 years, who becomes a couple dance instructor by some reasons. The story relates to the basic constellations in “Strictly ballroom” and “Pygmalion” and is settled to Berlin. It is a love story between John and Peter, his student, and a story of gay and lesbian competition dance couples fithing for equal rights in the area of dance sport.
May be you know that there are terrific single-sex couples, dancing at the highest level of competition (just were to see in Sydney at the Gaygames) but who are des-tined to remain unknown due to discrimination in predominantly heterosexual competition. They frequently show more charm and harmony, since there is no gender dominance. Although the nature of the stuff seems to require a gay dancer-actor, I ask you because of your extraordinairy abilities of expression in dancing and acting which makes you nearly singular among dancing actors and acting dancers around the world. And you could help enormeously to make a lot of people more tolerant to gay and lesbian couple dancing.
For the love story is similar to the story of Higgins and Eliza, the part of John would be your very part now. He is much more adult than the other figures, he is arrogant (in order to hide the lost of his high position as a ballet master) but no fairy, and when he becomes less resistent to his love for Peter and more resistent to the threatenings of heterosexual dance sport managers, his charme and bril-liant dancing comes out.
The whole atmosphere of the movie will be sparkling, the music is well choosed (latin, standard, chanson, older and present) and some performances would re-member the days of Fred Astaire and Gene Kelly. I've been able to interest several excellent German dancers, choreographs, singers and actors for the project, but I´m also trying resolutely to cast quite international.
You told some years ago that you don´t want to dance any more. You are suffering now by being ignored as an getting older actor. Ignore both and realise, that my offer is no typecasting. Unfortunately I´ve got no producer yet, but there is an interest of Beyond Films to have a look at the project, if a producer and a part of the budget is found, in order to give more money perhaps. I think they´ve seen the potential of the stuff. It would be much more easier to find a producer, if you would take the part, I guest.
Please answer me. I can send the plot and a list of dancing numbers to you.
Best wishes Reinhard Linde

Hey Dhiana:

It's as bad as living in Western Massachusetts, and having the entire universe thinking Massachusetts = Boston. I grew up a full three hours west of Boston, and it still bugs me when I tell out of staters I'm from Massachusetts and all I get in return is "oh, I LOVE Boston!"

Almost forgot to wish you and Andrea a Happy 15th Anniversary, Paul. And best wishes for many, many more happy years!!!

Diane

okay, you like the zen digs. some more ideas:

Buddha's Brew (works with "Zen: Now On Tap")
-you could have a big fat smiling buddha by the door and everyone could rub it for good luck, makes the place stick out in people's heads

Dharma Street Brewery

and one more just to be silly, a play on the australian thing---
The Stoutback

heh heh heh.........

"The Stoutback" . . . Sarah (Uncle Peaches), it's pure perfection!! If someone hasn't used it, someone should.

I am loving these names for the pub!
Afraid the only ones that spring to my mind would get you sued,lol, Just Brew It, and Do the Brew!
I sypathize on the cooler temps, it was about -2 degrees F here in South Dakota yesterday morning.
Brisk for sure.

G'day to all.
1st time to this site and I have to say...WOW. It was not was i expected at all...in fact i'm totally amazed at how i cant stop reading all that has been written. I have not read everyone's comments, but only because its early hours of the morning and my eyes are failing me, much to my dissappointment. As i'm not totally up to date with all everyone is going through and i'm not very good at the written word or expressing myself, I just wanted to say this...what everyone writes is wonderful...after reading for just a hour or so, it sometimes felt as if i knew the person who has writen their thoughts....as if everyone and myself are friends even. (not sure if that makes sense,considering i have never written on here and no one knows anything about me) I only wish i could express my thoughts as you all do. I look forward to reading more. This site is for sure a keeper.

Stay Safe
Trudi @--}---

p.s i know what i have written has not much to do with anything....but i just wanted to say Hi and you all put a smile on my face. ( i feel a little silly as i can never write down what i'm thinking very well..sorry guys):)

Trudi
You did great to me. Paul has offered an extremely unique situation for his fans here. Not often does a celebrity invite you into their life to share ideas and just talk.
Now that my surgery is all over and behind me I'm starting my new year resolution early...Not to talk about my weight anymore. I'm starting teh "Body for Life" program. It's a great program and a few of my friends have done it and ended up looking fantastic. So my 43 1/2 year old fat ass is going to get in shape. For me, my kids, my dance recital with my sons and for my health. Gotta be around for awhile.
My screen play has been given to and old EVP with the Disney Company who's going to forward it with his stamp of approval....But I'm not holding my breath. Hope everyone has a great holiday coming up. If you're into celebrating anything...if not..just enjoy the time.
Best wishes.
Tim

Hey, Trudi. Welcome! I agree with Tim. You expressed yourself very well. Paul's site is so special, in part, because everyone can write it as they see it, so long as they're respectful. Keep on writing (not just reading) and you won't feel so silly.

Good for you, Tim. Best wishes on the fitness program. I need to get going on that, too. And best of luck on the screenplay. With your revved up energy, I think you can make anything happen!

Tim: My former boss and his wife both did the "Body for Life" program and I am serious when I say it completely transformed their bodies! I'm not kidding; especially his wife. She was a little overweight but more than that she looked really out of shape. After a few months, she had a toned, tight figure. It was amazing!

Hello all! Welcome to our new friends, you have found the best site on the web. Sorry I haven't been around guys but I'm killer busy. Extra hours at work and shopping to do. Tim, you go boyee! Uncle Peaches I think you got a great one there with "Dharma Street". Paul,a great anniversary to you and your wife.
Gotta run.
peace and understanding to all in that Zen way!

Okay, one more, but I must admit this one is from an episode of "King of the Hill" I just saw tonight:

"That Was Zen, This Is Tao"

How perfect, eh?
And plus, I don't think you could get copyright sued for it. All the better!

Welcome Trudy! I too remember when I first stumbled onto this site a few months ago how much I felt like I knew everyone just from reading and that it feels like being friends. This really is amazing and something I don't take for granted (and in many ways this site has become rather addictive :-) but I suppose not a bad "addiction" to have). And thank you Paul for being this friend to everyone on this site, for being this open about yourself, for sharing your thoughts and life with us.

Diane, I hope you have a good source of information on Andrea and Paul's anniversary (how did you know?) Hoping that Diane is right, Happy Anniversary to you both, Andrea and Paul and continue to make each other happy!

Evelyn, I believe Paul mentioned his anniversary on an early post. Unless I've mixed up my numbers, I think I've got it right.

Hope all is well with everyone!

This weekend, while sitting around with friends, the following came up in a discussion. I'm not sure if we have brought this topic up here before, tho. For those of us who are [clearing throat] older, if you had the chance to go back "and do it all over again" with the knowledge you have now, would you go back to your high school days, your 20s or your 30s or would you be content to stay where you are? Personally, I wouldn't be caught dead back in high school--hated it then, probably would hate it now. In my 20s I was still struggling to "find myself," to become established, to have some money. My 30s were definintely a lot of fun. There were some relationships I'd rethink a second time, but other than that... All in all, I'm quite content being 43. Any thoughts?

I would go back to my second year in college and pay more attention to my schooling and less to my athletic pursuits. I would also be more careful with my money. It's only now I've started to think about retirement, and I'm thinking I'm a little late.

Wow, now this is the wish that's been on the tip of my tongue forever but I never really quite uttered it. If I could know then everything I know now (including memories, etc), which is the key, then yes, I would go back to being about 5 or 6 years old and start new. I'd already know everything I would need to learn in school, right? So that would be a buttload easier and I'd be an AP-Honors student from Elementary school on. I'd still be a big ol' dork for the same reasons (or most of the reasons, anyways), but it wouldn't hurt me because I'd be too busy knowing what meaningless crap it was and pursuing my dreams, instead of just reading constantly and retreating to my little dream world. My parents would still have gotten divorced when I was two, and they would both still divorce their second marriages when I was 9, but once again, it wouldn't matter cuz I'd be ready for it. I wouldn't change any of the things that have physically or geographically gotten me to where I am now, but I'd deal with them a hell of a lot better. I could have a much better chance at accomplishing my dreams with an extra 17 years to work on them (I'm 22 now, so that's right, right?) The only thing that would suck is not being able to smoke, and boy, do I love to smoke.

Paul,
How about "Strictly Beer" as a name for your new venture.
Despite all else you have done throughout your career, it appears to be undeniable that the good folks of the world most closely associate your name with "Strictly" (as I have seen you refer to it).
It would be justice if you could capitalise on it in some way, don't you think?
Go on Paul, give it a go.
Good luck mate. You deserve it.

Kay Lynne...totally not fair question! ("not fair" as in I am totally unprepared to answer it!)

I'd do my twenties over. It'd take away all the ick that I've done to my body and maybe I wouldn't see quite as many lines on my 36yr old face? I miss my youthful skin and energy. Mostly, I agree on the money issue...Oh, the agony of living life as a "adult" with no money to spend on the experiences I thought I would be doing at this point. I wouldn't have bought those 14 paintings at a "Starving Artist" sale and MAILED them to my parents from NYS to Florida as a house-warming gift when they moved to the house of their dreams. I wouldn't have bought that $150 jacket for whatshisname...that guy I was seeing and wanted to impress with all my 23yr old Grown Upness. Jesus. What a waste.

It'd be interesting to see where I would have landed on a different road taken...Manhatten? I shiver at that thought now. Vermont? Can't get any more quaint and country than my current residence. (although you can keep the damned mice...I had to re-wash the silverware that was clean--or so I thought--and in the drawer in front of Saturday's dinner company due to the mouse leavings. Gross!) Scotland? Probably. I was in the Firth of Forth (no, I don't have a lisp) when I was 19, touring with an orchestra, and besides almost killing myself jogging on those hills, I could have died there--or Wales--and been happy.

The possibilities are fun to think about, but look at the memories they bring up...those too, and learning the lessons from them, are pretty awe inspiring as well.

Well, best be off to work. Then lunch with a friend...put my good counselling skills to use...he's 62 and watching his second marraige dissolve. His wife is a good friend of mine...they're both good friends, but she and I are quite close. Splah. I'll do my best.

Toodles, and Paul...you were a super-hero in an airport dream I had last night, then you were a chef in a restaurant, but you only spoke some obscure (to me) language, so you couldn't understand the order the waitress was giving you. You got all irate and were waiving your hands about and just yelling louder and louder. It was really odd! That'll teach me to sleep in the 4yr old's bed. (he'd been in ours the night before and had an "accident" so my husband and I were destined to be uncomfortable, each in a little-boy bed. I'm 5'7", so that's not so bad, but poor Bill, all 6'1" of him, crammed up against the wall...I woke him up--nice of me, at 5:30am when I left for work--so he could at LEAST get into bed with the smaller kid. Oy.)

See ya'll,
Dhiana

Hello Paul and everyone,
I finally took some time off from work and thought I would check and see what has been posted lately...nice to have pto now ;).
I have to agree "Paul's Place" sounds the best. How about just "Mercurios"...Do you have a nickname from family and freinds? The "one name thing" works for people like Madonna, Cher....
Anyways, I have to get my sons' room ready to paint- seems like I am working more when I take time off... :)......
So, I hope all is well for everyone and good luck with your auditions and/or computer sales :)!

P.S. I just joke about the computer. I respect that you provide for your family and not "sacrifice" them for your own goals. So good luck.

thanx for all your thoughts everyone. my mom doesn't believe in beating the odds or good luck, but she does believe in prayer and miracles (6 in one hand half a dozen in the other i say), and it looks like her beliefs are paying off...in spades (heh). her treatments are going ridiculously well. you wouldn't even know she was undergoing anything. pretty cool, right?

do overs, huh? great thread topic. would i go back knowing what i know now...hell yeah, and i'd buy amazon, yahoo and aol to boot. maybe even invest in enron (wink). i always say it's better to regret something you have done than something you haven't, so that other stuff...nah, i wouldn't change it.

Paul's Brew Ha Ha???

ciao for now.

Hi Paul,

Paul's Brew Ha Ha. Very cute Texas. Actully Paul, doesn't the phsical location of the bar have a tremedous effect on the name that you choose? I can't imagine "Zen on Tap" next to a football field. You get the picture. Just a thought. I really like Paul's Place or Mercurio's, short and simple. Whatch think?

Hope you're doing well in your new adventure...

Margie

Well, what would I do different, knowing what I know now. Probably would have stayed in school and got my degree in accounting. But then I wouldn't have my son, even tho I had been married almost 8 years when he came along. Taken better care of myself knowing I was going to live this long. Remember, growing up under the threat of Nuclear Devastation of the world, I was sure I wouldn't live to see 30 much less 52. Yep, I'm an antique. Not quite a fossil but heading in that direction.
Tim: Good luck on your new resolution for 2003. My brother recommended the program to me and my husband after our crisis with dad. He followed it and looks pretty good for 50. Dad has not lost the weight they thought he should so the Dr.'s have revised his diet but his breathing is better and his blood sugar has leveled off, and blood oxygen is much improved.
Paul: I've been reading and pondering the name of your brew pub. I really thought Strictly Beerroom would be great but would probably get you in trouble with you-know-who, so guess I will vote for "Mercurio's" but regardless of the name I wish you the best at getting it off the ground.
To all of us who are scrambling here at Christmas, what is your feeling on the commercialization of the season. We had folks here that had their lights and decorations up a week before Thanksgiving. Of course working in retail sales for 20 some odd years, I hated this time of the year. It got earlier every year and the hassel of it all just did me in. I've definitely had more fun this year. Went shopping with my son and DIL while they were here, no pressure. My family will be pretty scattered this year. The younger brother is going to CA to spend Christmas with youngest son in the Marines. Sister hasn't decided if she will go home or not. I delivered Christmas gifts at thanksgiving to Mom,Dad and Brother who lives at home. We are expected to have the wettest and coldest winter since the early 80's. So I'm expecting snow on Christmas.
Well, guess I had better get back to the tax thing. Still have 5 returns to finish before Jan. 1 and we haven't even started on them. The boss is going to be gone 12/21 Thru 12/28. Thank goodness for extensions.
Hugs all around,
Peace and Love to all.
Sherrlyn

Dear Paul, My condolance to you and your family on the loss of your mother. Having faced a similar loss I can only imagine what trying times these must be for you during the Holidays. I wish I had some words of wisdom but wisdom can't be given just learned. I'm still learning myself. Advice I have none but best wishes for you and your family in the coming year. You did ask for thoughts on name for your brewery. I agree Pauls Place does role off the tongue and sounds more family friendly.Mercurio's sounds one of a kind. I would however would stop at a place called the Mum's Beer Cafe. To me it sounds like good food,good beer, good family atmosphere. I only hope that it'll have some good dark stout. Something darker than coffee and thick as mudd, but not in the same taste factor. It's hard to find a good dark stout in the states. The home brews are too few and far inbetween. Hope your pub opens soon. Here is a thought that i have stuck on my refrig door. ATTIDUDE: The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company.... a church... a home. The remarkabkle thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day, we cannot change our past.. we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one thing we have, and that is our attitude.. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you ..we are in charge of our Attitudes. Okay enough of that,time to have a cold one. Cheers, chin up, best wishes. Suz

Today is 12.11.02 and I've read your messages from 8.19.02 to present. I was most impressed that you would take the time to interact with your fans in this way. Hats off to you.

The posting that I feel most moved to comment on is the one from 11.5 "I'm not Spunky anymore."

At this very moment I'm watching the final dance scene from "Strictly Ballroom and I find it so beautiful on so many different levels that I confess, I've rewound the film a few times. It is, in my opinion, not only beautiful dancing, but beautiful acting. Please don't give up on films and, if only for health reasons, don't give up on maintaining a healthy weight.

No, we probably won't ever regain the tight bodies of our youth without some insane effort (I love dark beer!). We're getting older, but it's obvious that you want to be in better shape and it's also clear that it would have a big impact on your acting career. Such is life. (I recommend that you read "You'll Never Eat in This Town Again" by Julia Phillips)

I must also add that we all know youth is beautiful and sexy and it attracts movie goers as well as wives, but I believe that Hollywood, as well as independent film makers, will soon be producing work for mature actors and audiences. Even so, get your booty in shape! You're still young and you will be old far longer than you are young if we're lucky.

So screw Hollywood. Get in shape for yourself, your girls and your wife, who loved you enough to give you three children. I'm sure she loves you no matter what you look like, but wouldn't you like to give her your best?

I confess I'm writing this as I savor a Beck's Dark and I too have an ongoing struggle with my weight. From my experience, exercise is the key: aerobic as well as weight training.

I've tried the Body for Life program a couple of times; I'm going to do it again (you can win money and it's a good motivator). Maybe you should check it out. You have the support of a family so it will be easier to stick to the program and it's a healthy approach to weight loss.

I'm sorry this has been so long. I don't require a response or expect one, but I'll check your board again. Tell us more about your pub idea and what sort of beers you want to brew. I'm a homebrewwer too.

Best,
Whitney

Susan Dawson: I don't think, unless I'm completely off track, that Paul's mom died. She just left. She doesn't live near him, although I don't know where she does in fact live. Australia, New Zealand, Europe, US?
Paul...I heard something interesting today, that Baz is opening Strictly Ballroom on Broadway (NYC)...I'm definitely going to see it, but I gotta tell you, it just will not be the same without you and whomever your cast mate was. Which by the way do you ever stay in contact with any of your co-workers...I know when I switch jobs I rarely stay in touch with anyone. The girl you danced with in the end was really quite beautiful and I loved the whole artistry of the ending. You danced from within to the snapping of fingers and sliding/gliding out on the floor. Very AWESOME.
Maybe you could do broadway????? I know that's probably your worst nightmare, typecasting etc... but you are "the" Scott Hastings. Please don't take that negatively. Vivien Leigh will forever be remembered as Scarlett O'Hara. She lives on.
A side bar, my middle son in Tap is doing incredible. His instructor told me tonight, that he has surpassed the girls in his class and he appears to be a natural. He doesn't walk around our house anymore, he taps. It's great.
Hope everyone is doing well.
Tim

G'day Paul.
I would just like to wish you and your family a wonderful Christmas.
I dearly hope that some good work comes up for you, whatever it may be.
Hope the computer sales works out. I guess it's a handy thing to always fall back on, and we all need to pay the bills, don't we.
Paul, there are some things that I just can't understand.
One of them is why you have not been inundated by offers of work from within the entertainment industry. You seem to be a natural.
I met you a couple of years ago and the one impression that really stuck with me was that you had a fantastic persona.
Yes, the word "personality" (as often used to describe those in showbiz), fits you perfectly.
You have a wonderful personality. You are a very fortunate man to have such a marvellous gift.
You did strike me as an "ordinary bloke", but a very special kind of one. Any Aussies reading this will know what I mean.
Merry Xmas and a peaceful, happy and prosperous new year to you.

PS I still like "Strictly Beer". I think all the local would too. Good luck mate.

Tim:

I thought Baz was putting Moulin Rouge on B'way. Maybe I wasn't paying attention to Entertainment Tonight properly.

kay lynne: i read in variety that moulin rouge is going to b'way. strictly ballroom is first, though.

cheers.

Thanks Tim. I miss read the post. Please let me take a moment to dislodge the foot for my mouth.I should have read more of the old posts before posting my own. I am new here. Glad to hear the Mecurio Clan is alive and well. My apology to Paul and family for any new rumors I might have started.

In finally reading the old post, I've found the topics interesting and insightful. The idea's for your pubs name are great. I also like Stoutback. Strickly Beer Room is hilarious. Thanks to everyone for sharing this sight. May everyone have happy and safe holidays. To Paul and Family good luck to all of you on your endeavors in coming New Year.

Suz

Paul,
Glad to hear that you enjoyed your time with your Mother. I hope you & your sister are catching up with each other as well. I'm no marketing expert but as long as a place has great food, great beer/drinks & a great atmosphere--created by both the employees & the patrons--then it's all good. I wish you the best with this and your new job! BTW, 'Dark Planet' is literally on the SciFi channel as I type this post. I set my VCR timer before heading to work today (1pm New York time). I'll watch it over the weekend.

Tim, texas, Kay Lynne:
Would be sweet if Paul became involved with the 'Strictly Ballroom' broadway project. I have tickets to this Sunday's afternoon performance of Baz's Broadway-version of "La Boheme". It opened to rave reviews this past Sunday night. I hope that the normal 1/2 drive into Midtown Manhattan won't become a 1-2 hour nightmare with a pending NYC Subway/Mass Transit strike on Sunday. (ahhhh) As for Moulin Rouge, I read it may open in Sin City before NYC.

Everyone, take care!!! Wishing you all the best this holiday!

Margarita

Margarita, hope you will let us know about "La Boheme". Our children have promised to get us tickets for it this summer for part of our 50th wedding anniversary celebration when we visit NY. (We live in Florida.)

Baz is the toast of Broadway today, and thank goodness, "Strictly Ballroom" is mentioned many times in all the articles written about him and Catherine Martin.

Paul, dear, when you mentioned that you tried to contact Baz and he did not acknowledge any of your calls, I really lost respect for him as a human being. He may have a brain, but he has no heart.

Yes, Baz is busy, and his next project may be a huge film, "Alexander the Great", starring that favorite of his, the untalented and babyfaced Leonardo Di Caprio..oy veh!!! In my opinion it was not the iceberg that sunk the TITANIC but his performance!

I am producing and directing a big variety show, to be ready in March for our mega theatre in our retirement community. 40 seniors are in the cast, and they sing, dance, and emote so beautifully...I call the show "Follies 2003: Love Is In The Air" Some acts: my chorus opens the show with part of "Love Is In The Air", then a gorgeous 70 year old sings "Perhaps, Perhaps" Perhaps", and then breaks into the
the Spanish lyrics,"quesas, quesas, quesas." Later, a 75 year old dances solo to "Happy Feet"...these acts are bound to be show stoppers, and it's all due to the magic of you, Paul, and Tara in "Strictly Ballroom."

Mel Gibson is due to start filming another "Mad Max" type of film in Sydney next year. I hope your agent gets on the ball and gets you some auditions!

Good luck,

Love, Grandma

Hello again. It's been awhile, It's that time of years...busy, busy, busy. I've also been doing a lot of research for my book, pretty down-hearted about my findings, though somehow liberated by the knowledge.

Anyhow, I still vote for "Strictly Beer". I don't know if anyone caught my suggestion about the name under "I'm not a young spunk anymore!" postings. It was the third post in! I suggested the name then. Ok, we all fall prey to our childish habits once in a while... "I said it first!" *Laugh*

Take care all. I wish you all a very Happy Holiday season. God (or Goddess) Bless you!

Personally, I think it's a travesty that Baz is gonna suck a little more freaking money from Strictly and Moulin by regurgitating them on the stage. I think after what having a few months and a soundstage did for Strictly (in terms of making it come alive as no play ever can, with the limitations of stage room, one-chance-only lines, prop/background difficulties, etc) it would absolutely kill it to put it back onstage. And I've always thought they'd have to shred Moulin Rouge to get it to work onstage; I can just see all the POS scenes they're gonna stick in so they can change around the scenery. God, what a f*cker! That just pisses me off, sorry. It's really disheartening for all of us with a brain in our heads and some shred of decency to have to watch good people get screwed and positive things get the last drop of sincerity squeezed from them. May he contract ghonnaherpesyphillitus of the mouth for ever uttering the words "where do i sign?" Asshole.

No, that's not fair, I don't know him and can't judge his descisions until I understand them.

No, screw that, my $6.75 per movie pays his rent, he can go to hell. Especially until he QUITS GIVING RETARDO DICAPRIO WORK! Romeo and Juliet would have worked so much better without him. Hell, Corey Feldman could have played it better.

Michelle (NS),
Yes, as I now see, you did indeed say it first ("Strictly Beer" - 3rd post in after "I'm not a young spunk anymore).
I will not apologise, as I thought of it all on my own,as I had not read your comment.
It's a rather brilliant name, don't you think?!!!

Paul,
Pay attention! I think this one may have the greatest consensus.

Regards to all.

ADF Australia

Hi ADF, no worries mate! *L*

Great minds think alike and all that. No apologies asked for or needed!

Paul you might as well capitalize as much as you can from it. Baz certainly has and is. It's built in publicity.

Sarah, wow, I guess you feel strongly about this. I haven't read yet that he is putting it on stage. I personally thing Strictly would do well on stage, if say, Paul was in charge some how. *wink*

Take care.

Michelle

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