Paul's Corner

Paul...I have been having some of these same feelings on the world events - primarily hoping that reason would prevail on all sides. I watched as much as I could stomach last night on Saddam and his sons butchery toward their own people. And maybe this is a crusade to save the Iraqi people. We can but hope and pray.

Linda

Morning all, & Hello Paul - how R you?!

I agree w/P here...peace begins inside of each person.
and as Ghandi put it: "Be the change you want to see in the world."

Hi to Inn, Whit, G.Mil, G. Elliot, Diane, Michelle, Linda, Tim, Janie, bluedog, Texas, Cat, MaryEllen, Sara, Perla, and anyone else I am not remembering here..Hope today is a nice one...we've got to get out and make the best of life in spite of things right now, i think...
Holding peaceful, warm, loving thoughts for all...

Love,
Katalina

I don't understand any of this, but it seems with government violent overthrow is all that ever works. I suppose you can't say to an evil despot, we don't like you so you must step down now. It has never worked before. It is horrible. It reminds me of anti-abortionists who think it's ok to kill the clinic staff. It's just wrong all around.

I post on another message board that has nothing to do with war, yet that is what's being debated at the moment. It has gotten bitterly personal and ugly. There is such division among Americans at this time in our history, which of course is but a mirror of our relationship with the rest of the world. This war is a small component of the much bigger problem.
I don't think we'll ever get past this shit until we figure out how to achieve peace without killing each other. Every time I think humanity has become slightly more enlightened we do something that proves we are no further along that path than we were a thousand years ago. We just have bigger weapons that can be used with more "precision". What the fuck does that mean? Less "collateral damage". I am just so sick of it all.
Sorry to go on, but this is really starting to wear me down. People are getting off from watching the destruction on TV. I'm waiting for corporate sponsorship of war. "Live coverage of the latest Tomahawk missile launches, brought to you by Coca Cola!"

Thanks for letting me get that out of my system! I love you guys.
Namaste,
Michelle/Chicago

Michelle
You are so right. I'm right behind you and the sad part it...some of those very companies that produce missiles and other weapons are invested in by Coca Cola and Eli Lilly. Now isn't that a twist. If Lilly a drug company that promotes health also promotes death. HMMMMMMM.
We are no different than the English that came to America. They didn't like Native Americans so they rounded them up and shot them and placed them somewhere else so the "white man" could live here. Fair? Then God forbid those southern heat waves so they went fishing for some people to work in those hot fields while the lilly people sat on the front porch drinking mint julips trying to stay cool. HMMMMMM. Then we go over to other countries and if we don't like their way of doing business we make it our business. HMMMM. I'm not saying we have no reason at all to be concerned with Suddam. I'm simply saying that over the years and years of mankinds existance especially in the last few hundred years our pattern is the same. We kill off those we don't like to make them like us. Are we going for a Stepford America? That's the beauty of the world. The differences. We just need inner peace and inner beauty to allow everyone to get along and share. I heard today or yesterday that after they shoot em up and bang em up they're going to send millions of dollars over there for aid to help them rebuild? Well what the fuck about me? I've lived in this goddamn country my whole life and tried to get help last week and was turned down? Do I need them to bomb my house first? I have a second interview on Monday. If I get the job, there go those tax dollars flying out of my checks again. And straight over to Iraq to help rebuild.

Why doesn't this make sense to common men and women? I want to be able to travel safely. I told my wife that she and I will be going to Australia when Pauls show premieres. She's excited Paul. I told her about all the therapy I get here. She didn't believe you actually talk to us until I scrolled to one of your responses.
She's going to work at a Hospital in Atlanta so between the two of us we'll be cashing in pretty well. So at least we can travel. Australia, London, Italy, Hawaii...
My drugs are taking affect. Only problem is I stay really sleepy, so Monday when I visit my regular Psych, we're going to have to talk about that.
Peace does start inwardly and spread so let's do our best to be "like buttah" (Aunt Mil..you know Babs right??? : ) )
Oh well.good night everyone...You guys in Ozhave a great afternoon and evening.

Tim

surreal - today seemed normal enough, got some much needed rain, wildflowers are in bloom, sun came out...turned the telly on! dust, fires, tanks, shit load of retired generals giving their take on the war, and TODAY, we began our body count!

thanks m'curio for starting this thread...and as usual, it's on the mark!

later all....

Good evening Millie!

Hi Katalina. Beautiful quote from Ghandi. Forgive me for not responding to your thoughtful email yet. I'm trying to find the title to a book I want to recommend and I confess I spent the better part of the day and night, out in the country around a campfire with happy, Worthy Dog.

Inn, I thought of the abortion clinics too. It's a veritable snafu! God help us to help ourselves. How can one death justify another? It's so complex. Or is it?

Michelle, your commercial prediction can't be far off. That would be a dreadful thing. It's all probably corporately sponsored already.

Tim, you're so insightful. Greed has to be the answer to why most of this happens. I do pray that something good comes of the whole mess. Could that be possible?

How cool that you and the wife can look forward to Paul's show (if he does it). I'm going to try to catch it as well. God knows how. I got to FL and I would have never thought that possible at that time. If Paul can take the job, that must mean I get to go to Australia! Does that sound like wishful thinking?

It is surreal bluedog. I can't handle the callous coverage on TV. It's freaking me out.

I'm so tired. I've got to hit the sack. I can barely type today.

Love and peace to every single one of you,
sincerely,
whit
p.s.
Good night Millie and Eliot.

Whit
We've been rooting for Paul to get this part...now I know there's a lot of paper work and negotiation still open, however, he said if something really inspired him and gave him a chance to grow he'd do it. So I'm counting on that. Where do you fly out of? We'd only have to change planes once in LA. Delta to LA with about a 3 hour layover and the Quantum airlines to Melbourne or Sydney,I guess the show is in Sydney.

Hey Paul..you'll give us plenty of notice right mate?

I'm with all you guys...sick of the media coverage of the war. Now we've got body bags coming home. How many more? Then there's the pictures in the paper of the bereaved seeing the casket removed from the plane. God how awful. I wouldn't have wanted people taking pictures of me when I first "saw" my mother dead. Or at the funeral. PRIVACY people. It hurts like hell. Leave 'em alone.

Aunt Mil...hope you and Elliott are doing well. If the worrying is getting to you please get some relaxers to help you out. Don't allow the worrying to hurt your health. It's got to be really hard for you and I worry about you guys. BTW Moulin was on HBO2 last night. I finally saw the beginning and I saw Tara. Damn that was fast. You now she could have been so much more in that film, what is Baz problem? I love that film, then I watched SB. Put me in such a good mood. I'm watching all my uplifting films this weekend to get me started for next week. It was our 16th wedding anniversary Friday. My wife went to the spa for the day. I got that for her when I worked at the salon. Her parents gave us a new state of the art coffee pot. My dad did nothing..not even a card. Laurie gave me a card. Can't wait for 17 woo hoo. Maybe my card will have postage. All I wanted was 3 CD's and some DVD's. Such a cheap date these days. My niece was supposed to buy us dinner and a movie. She forgot, I guess the airpressure in her head dropped below reasonable. She's short a couple of M & M's in her bag. So I'm Mr. nice and say she can live here. Where else is she going?

Love you guys...thanks for listening.

Peace

Tim

Dearest Timbo,

Forgive me, I didn't know whether to laugh or cry at your description of your 16th anniversary...may I offer belated congratulations? I hope this year brings you only great things, like that trip to Australia to honor our Paul and to represent all of us!

Ellie and I thank you for your concern about us. We are hanging in there, trying to keep busy, but with the TV blaring every moment when we are home.

Our kids in Israel have assured us that they are going about their daily routines, school, work, but just bringing their gas masks along wherever they go.

Of course, the losses among our military is so heartbreaking...I am extremely angry that Father Bush did not finish the job 12 years ago when there were 500,000 American troops surrounding Baghdad, and he decided he had done his job by "freeing Kuwait". Saddam got off scott free for another day, which is now. Why isn't that fact mentioned prominently in the press today?

I'm glad you found Tara. I guess you and I are very underwhelmed by her bit part, so fleeting, that if one blinked she would be missed...As far as "Moulin Rouge" goes, we seniors found it a 10 Excedrin picture, with many walking out when it was shown in our theatre!

Baz never received a best picture Oscar for MR, and tonight, "Chicago", which he turned down to direct, will probably cop the best picture Oscar!

Whit and Evelyn are working together to put the pictures that Whit took backstage at my "Follies" on Evelyn's website. More details later. Can you understand why I have adopted these two? (I think I adopted a few more, but I forgot.)

We "Follies" folks are having our big cast party on March 28th...lots to celebrate..the community is still buzzing about this show, and The Wynmoor Community Council is picking up the bill...after all, we filled the theatre 2 nights (970 seats each night at $6.00 per ticket) so that's the least they can do! I am already thinking of the next show in 2 years...one has to be positive, right??

Keep the faith, everyone.

Love you all,

Grandma, Auntie, whatever!

Conflicted is about the only word that comes to mind when thinking about my feelings re. this war, oh and upset, angry, confused, royally pissed off. Too much destruction, too much life lost already. What for?

Sorry Tim that I never responded earlier, was in my own blue phase, perhaps still am, I'm glad you are feeling better and good luck with the interview on Monday and congrats on your 16th anniversary.

Hello "Grandma, Auntie, whatever" :) & hello Whit, hello Katalina, Linda, Inn, Michelle, bluedog, Tim and of course Paul--and everyone else who stops by at the Corner.

Making the world a better place, starting with me --- just finding it particularly difficult at the moment. Will be taking mini-steps...

Be well, stay safe and at peace.

Good morning Grandma. I hope you can have a good day today.The book I sent is a short read; if you look toward the back, there are many pages of recipes. Let it distract you a little while. Take a short walk with Elliot. Activity eases anxiety. XOXOXOOXXOXOXO

Tim, if this turns out to be a profitable gig for Paul, given that I'm free and can swing the airfare, maybe I could meet you in Atlanta and tag along. Of course the chances of this are slim , but who knows? It would be especially cool to go at the same time you do. Australia alone could be boring. Of course I'd get my own room (unless you want to save some $$$). Naturally, Paul will likely be too busy to see us much, but it would be fun to see the town with two new friends. How long have you wanted to go to Australia?

Keep up the movie therapy. I do that too. And congrats on 16 years. You have a long history together and that counts for so much. Not to mention three cool kids! Sorry you had a few letdowns. I've never sent my mother an anniversary card. I guess I'm dropping the ball there, but they've always given me the impression that it wasn't needed.

Which reminds me Janie, I'm more likely to be in a state of arrested development than in touch with my inner young'n. When I was 22, a friend asked me if I'd always known who I was. I replied "Yes", but looking back, I remember a time when I said "Who am I?". I was too young to have had many character revealing experiences. My trip does seem to be a continium; it's still "me" in here though I've noticed my thinking skills changing as I get older. How does one lose touch with their inner child?

Evelyn, it's so nice out!!!! Do you have a bike? Why don't you come over and ride? We have some great trails in WV! If I didn't have Worthy, I'd be afraid to ride alone, but he's my little body guard.

I guess it's 4am in the land of OZ, so sweet dreams to you Paul and a great day to everyone in Paul's Corner.

Love,
Whitney

Hello Everyone,

Whitney, to answer your question...you lose touch with your "inner child" when you are raised in a family where perfection is demanded. The message is ..."you're perfect or you're nothing." Even if it isn't overtly stated, the psyche of a little kid breathes it in like air.

There is no room for just being yourself. You have to always keep "performing" to get acceptance and approval.

Anyone who grew up in a home where they were simply enjoyed for just being here..and given unconditional love ..(even tough love when it's called for)..is truly fortunate. I'm not saying you can't go back and reclaim your inner child...you certainly can. It takes work though.

Anyway, I hope this sort of answers your question as how one loses touch with with their IC.

Thanks for asking:)

Janie

Whit
I'm certainly hoping Paul does this gig. I've wanted to go to Australia for a LONG time. When I worked for Deloitte Haskins + Sells back in the early 80's they had a program where you could work in other offices including international offices. I wanted to work in Australia at the time. Obviously didn't make the cut. Then when I worked for Lend Lease Real Estate Investments a few years ago they are based in Sydney. They had opportunity to move over, but with a family of 3 kids at the time...Laurie was like NO NO NO NONO NONONONONONONONONONONO. Now that we have our little Annalise Violet (#4)a move is probably out of my future, although nothing would please me more.
I'm already starting to save for the trip. I'm going to do hair parties still and sometimes those can be between $500 up to $1200 a day. Then I just go to hope for great airfare. You'd be welcome to join us in Atlanta it'd be fun. At least we'd get to see Paul in action doing what he loves and hopefully meet him.

Aunt Mil..10 Excedrin movie...you guys hated it that bad???? I love the story to it. It has the feel of a Cirque du Soleil production...very avante garde and off the wall. The way they integrated the music of my "teens and twentys" made it a lot of fun. I guess I'm one in a million. But I did love catching that harsh glimpse from Tara...she could have been so much more. Typical Baz move. He finds talent then forgets what they can do.

Peace everyone....

Tim

I agree with Tim's assessment. We have become the imperialists from whom we escaped. Even some of my Republican colleagues agree. Lots of corporations are going to make a ton of money on the war and the years of clean up that follow, while the rest of us bury our sons and daughter and go broke. I pray for our troops, but I will continue to oppose the war. Some people will step over the line, Paul, and get violent in their protests. Those of us who want peace must win them over, as well.

Here's a quote for you:

"Naturally the common people don't want war: Neither in Russia, nor in England, nor for that matter in Germany. That is understood. But, after all, it is the leaders of the country who determine the policy and it is always a simple matter to drag the people along, whether it is a democracy, or a fascist dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship.

Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the peacemakers for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country."

Hermann Goering(1893-1946) President of the Reichstag, Nazi Party, Luftwaffe Commander in Chief

And another:

"The past is prophetic in that it asserts that wars are poor chisels for carving out peaceful tomorrows. One day we must come to see that peace is not merely a distant goal that we seek, but a means by which we arrive at that goal. We must pursue peaceful ends through peaceful means. How much longer must we play at deadly war games before we heed the plaintive pleas of the unnumbered dead and maimed of past wars?"

--Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Finally, I agree with Janie's comments on losing touch with your inner child. We perform for approval. Or we live in a state of denial about our family life in order to protect those whose love we desperately need and to protect ourselves from irreconcilable conflicts. Or we are taught to sacrifice beyond our capacity to give which requires silencing our inner voice. My parents also lost track of their inner children through personal strains and losses, the Depression and WWII. It does take work to reclaim the child in yourself and to make sure that your children can keep theirs intact throughout their lives.

Tim, Happy Anniversary! May you look back on your most recent struggles as the building blocks of a long and loving union. BTW, the flight to Syndey from L.A. is about 15 hours. You may need to stay over here to rest up. Let me know. I'd love to join you guys for the trip (if I can afford it) if and when you go.

Wishing you all love and peace,

Diane

Diane: what a chilling quote by H. Goering...and very apt literally TODAY...even in the Land of the (so called) Free.
This brought goosebumps to my soul and my skin.
We are living with leaders such as this. And it frightens.

Something to consider while listening to the "spin." (so as not to take it in hook, line and sinker.)

Thx for such a thought-provoking message.

Hugz to all today/tonight.
Katalina

Diane...Once again you have beautifully put into words what many are thinking.

Tim...Special congrats and warmest of thoughts on your anniversary.

G. Millie...With this run of the Follies a pleasant memory, can another show be far behind?

Paul, Katalina, Innussiq, Michelle, Whitney, Evelyn, bluedog, Janie, and everyone from the Corner...Keep yourselves and those you hold dear safe and direct all this positive energy towards harmony in the world. Thinking of you all, Linda

Hello all my friends Kat, Whit, Grandma Millie, Timbo, Evelyn, Michelle, Linda, Paul, Peter...oh heck just everybody. I'm so upset about this war. I can't bear that as I sit here with the Oscars on tv there is blood spilling on the other side of the planet, supposedly in my name. I just pray that this ends soon. I wish not only peace but tolerance for us all.

Peace is a wonderful thing and an admirable goal.

"Bush is seeking a new American empire. This is a favorite accusation of Democratic presidential
candidate Dennis Kucinich, the man who once recited the Gettysburg Address in Donald Duck's voice.
I'll let Secretary of State Colin Powell answer this one. When hectored by a former archbishop of Canterbury on this subject recently, he said: "We have gone forth from our shores repeatedly over the last 100 years . . .and put wonderful young men and women at risk, many of whom have lost their lives, and we have asked for nothing except enough ground to bury them in." Well said. Fred Barnes

hugs,
Sally

Sally, thank you for the quote from Colin Powell. Of all the people in Bush's Administration, I had hoped that he could keep us out of Iraq. Unfortunately, I don't believe that any amount of diplomacy would have worked because I believe that President Bush and his chief advisors have wanted this showdown from the beginning. I wish I had faith in our President, but I don't and it pains me. I see the world as having become exponentially more dangerous because of this war. I hope your faith in our leaders brings you some peace. I pray that this war ends quickly and that we can move back toward a peaceful world.

My father and father-in-law both served in WWII. One of my brothers risked his life in Vietnam and he continues to suffer the results of that "state of unrest". Some of his friends never came home. My brother and his friends were no less honorable for their service to our country than were my father and in-law. But Vietnam was not WWII and Iraq is not Hitler's Germany. If we are to invoke the memories of those who have suffered and died for our country, let us also remember when and where we risked their lives in needless, misdirected and futile conflicts and resolve never to make those same mistakes again.

Yours in peace,

Diane

God you guys those comments gave me chill bumps. Diane...let's make it a charter plane. I looked at the flight from LA it's a long one...I'll be brining along some xanax and valium...I'm not staying up on a plane for that long. Wake me up at my destination point.
I didn't watch TV tonight...only HBO..I watched Cast Away. I love Tom hanks and Helen Hunt. I remember Tom Hanks from Bosom Buddies...thoughthe was hysterical then and he still is.

The war...let it end soon. But everyone is so right...how can you expect peace through violence?

Night all

Tim

This is a scary time to fly Tim, but wouldn't it be more dangerous in a little plane? I hope I can go, whatever the means. And the more of us, the merrier!!!

Diane, I'm with you. I pray this isn't another Vietnam, and that these soldiers won't be mistreated like those. I want to believe that this is a war about liberation, but I find it very hard to buy anything Bush says. It doesn't seem to matter what we say. He didn't win the presidency, but there he is: "leading".

God bless America, 'cause we sure need it!

Good night Mil. Good evening Paul.
Sweet dreams to All in the Corner.
Love,
Whit

Agreed, agreed. We must first change in ourselves.
But, I am one of those who cries "peace!" I do not think anyone will find their inner voice in fighting. People do enough of that in their heads (me for example.) And I have yet to win any war in my mind. I judge myself harshly then-attack! I have found the only way to change is letting go of the thoughts and emotions and just DOING. It is hard and diffcult, much more so then fighting. Fighting is easy, painful, sad but it comes naturally with the desire to survive. But surviving and living are two different things. To find the peace we must go beyond our instincts to fight, and find the harder path-which does not mean non action, but action of a different form.

Forgive me I am young, and still exploring my feelings on the subject.

-Melinda

Haven't heard from Mr Paul or Mr Peter...and no I'm not reading the bible here people. : )
Hope all is well in Oz. I know we're not supposed to worry when we don't hear from you, but you know can't help it. Just know you're missed even if you don't have time to respond....

Later dudes

Tim

Hello Tim!! ..maybe we both can smooth out and warm up our "chills." I've been doing what you've been doin...turned off the news (finally) and put on heartwarming movies or have just been exercising to "work it all out." And, lately, the only combat I've been doing (LOL) is in tango - on the dancefloor, battling and working out differences of expression until the two move as one. What a dance (as in life)....*grinn*

Hi Inn baby! nice to see U 'gain.
My bebe is coming in 2 weeks *Huuuuuge grinn*
Cannot wait. Surprised my apt hasn't burned down from all the sparks flying over the net and the phone. LOL (don't be too sad, depressed from news...but i do know how that feels..i was like that all this past week (or 2). It got draining.
Feel little better my dear. We are all here to cheer one another, help each other through..in spite of it all. Hugz!

I hope all here at PC will have a better day/night. Peace, Love, Calm, Quiet...Strength, Balance and Hope to U all.

With much Love,
Katalina

Hello again beautiful and wonderful people!!!

I totally agree with you PAul that PEACE should really start with the person. There is a song that runs this way "Let there be Peace on Earth and Let it begin with me." (I forgot the rest of the song).

As I was typing this our Operations Manager was just telling us on how these demonstators are planning to shut down business by blocking the Bay Bridge and the Bart train. Police officers are all over the place. Whatever their beliefs are or their opinions, I think this is not the time to be doing this as we are in such turmoil already. We should really stand united. Michelle, my thoughts exactly about these weapons for PEACE which kills. But right now I am not sure about my feelings after hearing that the POW (Americans)have been mistreated and the dead ones were executed (with bullet holes in their head)I do not want to say these but I don't care anymore who they bomb over there as long as our troops are safe.
My son was in the last Gulf War and I can relate to the fear, despair and that indescribable feeling of a mother waiting day by day wondering where her only son is.
Linda, I saw that footage of SAddam's butchery but I can't take it and like Tim I watched SB over and over again.I went to my garden and looked at the camellias, some roses are already in buds, tulips in bloom and the fragrant jasmine in full bloom and for a moment I forgot we are living in uncertain times.In the afternoon, I just listen to the SB CD while I do the laundry. Sunday was much better because my three children (my son and 2 Daughters) were home and I went with them to the (Tahoe) slopes, I do not ski nor snowboard but I went snowshoeing.I was so peaceful up there with the pristine environment.

Tim, Happy Anniversary. I could have been married for 39 years this November but after the 27th year my husband became ill with Lympoma, while our only son was in the GULF war in 1991. I crazy trying to track down where my son was and all the Air Force can tell me was " Your son is a fine gentleman and he is with fine men". The Red Cross got a hold of him and he was finally sent home (a week before the end of the war), just in time to be with his father for over month.
No more sadness, SB always lifts me up. Soon, I may need to get another DVD.

I wish I can go with you guys to see our dear Paul and finally meet the rest of the gang. Who knows, I might. When is this? Keep us posted.
To everyone in the Corner, take care and GOD BLESS.
Love & prayer---Perla

I forgot to say hi to Grandma Mil!! Hello!
(I don't have an auntie, or any grandmas /grandpapas anymore...sniff, sniff) It's nice that you're here *smile* with PC. And such an energetic, talented person U are, U sound like a happy whirlwind of energy - a great catalyst for artistic projects, people and life projects - very inspirational!!

Hi to Whitney and to Evelyn too. Ladies, how is the web and photos project going? I am very excited waiting to see these famed Follies captured!!! Good luck on that!

Hugz,
Katalina

Good afternoon, Whitney,

Katalina, you were sweet to think of me...yes, Whit and Evelyn are working hard with the photos of "Follies" and by what I have seen, doing a great job, and putting lots of time into it, for which I will thank them over and over!!!

Perla, welcome, and I agree that activity, whether watching our lovely SB, or walking in a garden, or working on a project during these difficult times is soothing and lowers anxiety...I just read that craft stores are doing a booming business, with rug weaving, and other hand crafts the most popular, so it looks like many people are feeling the need to reduce tension by engaging in activities that they enjoy.

Even the Oscar winner, "Chicago" won because it was visually beautiful, had a marvelous score, and was uplifting in these difficult times. My husband and I are going to buy the soundtrack to alternate it with the CD of "Strictly Balloom" in our car.

Sending thoughts of peace and love,

Grandma Mil

Hi, I have always been a fan of Paul Mercurio ever since I've seen him in Joseph. That was good acting A+ then a friend gave me the DVD of Strictly Ballroom and I was out to seek more of this wonderful actor. I have been visiting several sites for this actor and I think this site is the best. Keep up the good work.

I read all of the post and i was amazed by the closeness of the group. I have a poem I want to share with you all.

THERE IS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING
OUR FATHER knows what's best for us,
So why should we complain-
We always want the sunshine,
But HE knows there must be rain-
We love the sound of laughter
And the merriment of cheer,
But our hearts would lose their tenderness
If we never shed a tear--
OUR FATHER tests us often
With suffering and with sorrow,
HE tests us, not to punish us,
But to help us meet tomorrow--
For growing trees are strengthened
When they withstand the storm,
And the sharp cut of the chisel
Gives the marble grace and form..
GOD never hurts us needlessly,
And HE never wastes our pain,
For every loss HE sends to us
Is followed by rich gain..
And when we count our blessing
That GOD has so freely sent,
We will find no cause for murmuring
And no time to lament
For OUR FATHER loves HIS children,
And to HIM all things are plain,
So HE never sends us pleasures
When the soul's need is pain..
So whenever we are troubled,
And when everything goes wrong,
It is just God working in us
To make our SPIRIT strong.
----author unknown

to Paul and all the wonderful citizens of the world in this corner

"May your heart be as light as the clouds,
May your joys be as great as the sky,
And may your dreams be as bright as Earth's Flowers." an Indian Blessings

Peace to all. Sofia

Hi, I have always been a fan of Paul Mercurio ever since I've seen him in Joseph. That was good acting A+ then a friend gave me the DVD of Strictly Ballroom and I was out to seek more of this wonderful actor. I have been visiting several sites for this actor and I think this site is the best. Keep up the good work.

I read all of the post and i was amazed by the closeness of the group. I have a poem I want to share with you all.

THERE IS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING
OUR FATHER knows what's best for us,
So why should we complain-
We always want the sunshine,
But HE knows there must be rain-
We love the sound of laughter
And the merriment of cheer,
But our hearts would lose their tenderness
If we never shed a tear--
OUR FATHER tests us often
With suffering and with sorrow,
HE tests us, not to punish us,
But to help us meet tomorrow--
For growing trees are strengthened
When they withstand the storm,
And the sharp cut of the chisel
Gives the marble grace and form..
GOD never hurts us needlessly,
And HE never wastes our pain,
For every loss HE sends to us
Is followed by rich gain..
And when we count our blessing
That GOD has so freely sent,
We will find no cause for murmuring
And no time to lament
For OUR FATHER loves HIS children,
And to HIM all things are plain,
So HE never sends us pleasures
When the soul's need is pain..
So whenever we are troubled,
And when everything goes wrong,
It is just God working in us
To make our SPIRIT strong.
----author unknown

to Paul and all the wonderful citizens of the world in this corner

"May your heart be as light as the clouds,
May your joys be as great as the sky,
And may your dreams be as bright as Earth's Flowers." an Indian Blessings

Peace to all. Sofia

Hey guys...a friend sent this to me to "lighten me up"...it's funny so I thought I'd share it...

A woman and a man are involved in a car accident; it's a bad one.
Both of their cars are totally demolished but amazingly neither of
them are hurt. After they crawl out of their cars, the woman says,
"So you're a man. That's interesting. I'm a woman. Wow, just look
at our cars!

There's nothing left, but we're unhurt. This must be a sign from God
that we should meet and be friends and live together in peace for the
rest of our days." Flattered, the man replied, "Oh yes, I agree
with you completely!" "This must be a sign from God!"

The woman continued, "and look at this, here's another miracle. My
car is completely demolished but this bottle of wine didn't break.
Surely God wants us to drink this wine and celebrate our good
fortune."

Then she hands the bottle to the man. The man nods his head in
agreement, opens it and drinks half the bottle and then hands it back
to the woman. The woman takes the bottle and immediately puts the cap
back on, and hands it back to the man.

The man asks, "Aren't you having any?" The woman replies, "No. I
think I'll just wait for the police."

I know Iknow it's a little one sided, but I thought all the women on the board would get a good laugh and a smile.

Keep thinking positive peaceful thoughts...
They are what we can control.

Tim

Hey guys, I hope all of you are happily living life and finding peace in your own way. We have had such a beautiful day here today. My dogs went out and ran and wrestled in the sunshine. Can you tell I'm trying to focus on positive images?
Liked your story Tim. Welcome Sofia, Perla and Melinda!
My son is taking his first guitar lesson today. He has been teaching himself to play and wanted some help. He plays drums as well. We are one big rock n roll house.
I miss you Peter. Hope you're not working too hard again. Paul, Mil, Kat, Inn, Blue, Diane, Dhiana, Evelyn, Tim, Whitney, Sally, Texas, and everyone I've forgotten, here's to happier days.

I'm going to make chicken fajitas now, so must get chopping. I won't make them too hot Kat! My love to the whole gang.

Namaste,
Michelle/Chicago

Nooo, MAKE em HOT Michelle LOL!
C'mon i DARE ya! LOLOLOLOL

can ya feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel de burn?!!!!

Just remember to add side dishes to kill de fire.
*wink n a grinn*

Katalina

Tim: oh mi god that story killed me.
I needed that laff today.
Ur adorable.
Thx for sharing.

Katalina

BTW, Tim? That was my Abs workout today.
Thanks again.
LOL

Katalina

Katalina, be patient! :) you will see the Follies pictures sooner rather than later, I hope! :) I don't think I have all of them either at this point and this is complicated when collaborating on this accross the US, the flurry of emails between Grandma, Whit and me about pixles, fonts, colors, sizes, design, layout etc. ... makes it more interesting, but I wish we could just sit down in front of one computer and do this together and then of course there is the issue of time. But I'm having some fun of my own, let's just say, thus far I've digitally "enhanced" one picture and I'll keep you in the dark as to what I mean by that for now ... [Grandma and Whit, don't you dare tell on me!!!!] I'm quite busy right now, so I'm fitting this in whenever I can. I should get back to this conference paper now, if only I could think of what I want to say. I'm suffering from post-dissertation fatigue and am finding it difficult to come up with anything that's "academic," interesting, innovative and hasn't been said before. Can someone please fill in the mental blanks that I've been drawing? Back to writing and then perhaps I will have time to read some of these posts a bit more slowly.

Be well everyone, stay safe and happy.
Love,
Evelyn

Melinda, welcome! For a young 'un, you are very wise.

Hi, Perla! I think protests should be peaceful and not interfere with law enforcement. Public safety personnel need to be focused on keeping us safe here at home. I don't know why these people don't understand that. I'm sorry for the loss of your spouse, but so glad that your son returned safely.

Hello, Sofia. Thank you for the poem and the Indian blessing. Like so many of the sentiments expressed by Paul and others here, these thoughts wrap around us like a warm blanket.

Tim, that's a cute story. I like the one about the one woman and 10 men who are hanging on to a rope to save their lives. Unfortunately, the rope can only hold 10. The woman launches into a speach about how she will let go because women have always sacrificed for the sake of the group. When she's finished, all the men applaud.

Millie, we saw Chicago yesterday. Wow!!! Even my teenage boys enjoyed it. I saw the musical on Broadway many years ago, but it didn't have the same impact. I think it was Chita Rivera and Gwen Verdon in the leads with Jerry Orbach as Billy. Chita and Gwen were great, but I think their ages and celebrity status took away from the story. Then, too, we were not so saturated in celebrity crime. Anyway, I'm going to buy that soundtrack, also. Makes me want to take dance lessons and go sing somewhere.

Alright, Michelle, what's your recipe for great fajitas? Mine never have the depth of flavor I'd like.

So you've got some romancin' on the way, huh, Katalina? Ah, the anticipation...

Missing Peter and Paul and others. Keep the faith, ya'll.

Diane

I don't have any more faith in a president that I do in any other individual; at least I can respect this one though I disagree with most of his opinions.
I feel if Gore were president he would still be apologizing to Bin Laden for our buildings get in the way of "his" planes...
Just remember that Hussein broke the truce weeks after it was signed in 1991, he has had more than enough time to comply with the directives therein.
My grandfather was mustard-gassed in WWI, my dad started to lose his hearing due to wind tunnel tests in WWII, and my uncle nearly had both feet amputated in Korea. I wish no one ever had to go to war again...but we as a species aren't there yet and may never be. I do hope we rise above it someday.
extra hugs all around,
Sally

Hi Sofia: I really really liked your entire post. The poem and the indian blessing. Thx for sharing. It was lovely.

Namaste Michelle!

And Diane: yep ...2 weeks couldn't come fast enough. LOL. Anticipation is right. LOL
I am the Heinz ketchup girl here.

Hugz to all,
Katalina

charlie, catching up on some of the posts and there you were! good to know you're still around!

looking forward to seeing the pics from the follies and what can that evie girl be up to? i'm gonna guess a pic of her and m'curio dancing!! am i close?

ummmmmmm chicken fajitas...is there anything better? yep! chicken fajitas, refried beans, spanish rice, guacamole, pico de gallo, and tortillas!!

off to finish watching "The Quiet American" 1952 -Maureen O'Hara and John Wayne...what a lassie!!

later all

Bluedog, you left out the jalapenos and the cold beer!!! Dont know what what pico de gallo is?

Hey all. I'm just cruising awaiting all sorts of news and doing some cooking prep for my party which is coming up.

Computers are slow, war on, no one spending up big! No news so I anxiously await.

Mum is coming over soon. looking forward to that.

Stay happy all!

Michelle, Diane, Tim & all.
Cooee cobbers. G'day. Thanks for the thoughts.
Tim, great to hear your spirits lifted. Keep them high.
I tried to check out Paul, but I can't see his house from mine, not even when I stand on the roof on tippytoes. I even tried yelling loudly, but still no answer. Perhaps it's the big hills in between, or he could have been inside the house.

What a lousy situation this bloody war is.
I must admit, I didn't really think that it would come to a genuine battle. I thought that the seemingly overwhelming threat would be sufficient deterent for voluntary disarmament. Stupid me, ever the optimist. I guess there's limitations on the amount of devestation that any country or coalition is actually willing to inflict. Ironically, that's probably what will keep it all going.
I feel deeply for those killed, and for their families.
This war is far from a simple issue. It raises many questions regarding safety, politics and strategy, let alone the humanitarian side. I don't believe there is a single good solution, only preferable outcomes. I hope we see one.

Yes, I've been flat out, like a lizard drinking.
I've only just realised that once again my feeble brain has switched to hyperdrive in a valiant attempt to complete all the work that I've inflicted upon myself. Ah, nothing new. Unfortunately my focus becomes rather intensely polarised on the tasks at hand. I have to keep reminding myself to do things such as stop, rest, breathe, .....all that kind of thing.
My dear wife says I'm like an android. I take it as a compliment. She hates that.
Stuff this, that's 11hrs straight, I'm going for a bike ride and then spend some time with my family. And I shall count my blessings.

Sincerest best wishes to all, especially those directly touched by this accursed war. Let's hope that some kind of good can come of it.

Time to make like the pidgeons and get the flock out of here.

Peter

I'm sure it might be misinterpreted for me to ask and Sofia, you have every right to think in any manner you choose, but I'm curious. Why do you limit your god to one gender? Tradition?

Tim, that was a good one.

I've been reading, but the great weather and preparing for class has kept me from taking the time to post (not to mention messing with Mil's pictures). Last night I got a headache: went to bed early. I didn't drink any coffee yesterday, maybe that's what caused it.

Evelyn is a wiz with photoshop. You guys will have some pictures soon. We have to get this right you know.

Today is the last day of my Body For Life Challenge. I didn't "transform" myself Peter, but I did change the composition of my body. I know we usually go by weight, but I measured in inches, so here they are:

1/29/03
arm 12.5"
waist 35.5"
thigh 25"
chest 41"
butt 41.5"

2/23/03
arm 12"
waist 35"
chest 24.5"
titts 39"
butt 41"

3/25/03
arm 12"
waist 35"
thigh 24"
chest 39"
butt 40"

Well, I need to get going. Got a dog to walk!
My love to you all and good morning Millie.
Have a great party Paul! I'm sure everyone wishes they could attend.
Whit

Opps! Forgot to change that one "dimension" catagory. Sorry! How do you show that your face is red on a computer?
Love
Whit

I'd better try this again. Remember "Never give up! Never surrender!".

1/29/03
arm 12.5"
waist 35.5"
thigh 25"
chest 41"
butt 41.5"

2/23/03
arm 12"
waist 35"
thigh24.5"
chest 39"
butt 41"

3/25/03
arm 12"
waist 35"
thigh 24"
chest 39"
butt 40"

This is a little more impressive if you know what I measured in 2001:
7/20/01---------
Arm-13"
Waist-37"
Thigh-26.5"
Bust-42"
Butt-44"

Is there a better term for the "butt" dimension anyone? Hips? Aren't they higher? Is "bust" a better term than chest? Help me out here Grandma!

It's a beautiful day in WV! I'm going to try and stay in the moment as much as possible: preferably outdoor moments!
Whit

gosh Whitney....You're doing great!!!! And brave to post dimensions on the net!!! I have been busy at work, home and life in general. I got a part in the next theatre production in my little burg. We're doing a melodrama and I am the crazy lady who is mute, but a plane crash restores my ability to speak. I don't speak in the first act, but I do make airplane noises, flap my arms and run in circles. Hey, but this time, I'm not anyone's mother, I am a younger woman. And I get to swoon.
Last week, we watched "Moulin Rouge" for the first time. I loved the music and the costumes. My daughter, the wise 11 year old, loved the story. Other than that, I haven't decided if I like it or not.
I can't believe that your description of fajitas has me thinking about food at this hour. In a lot of ways, this is a sensual web site. We're always posting about food and perception. I am really glad that I was able to work in "flat out like a lizard drinking" into a conversation the other day. My husband says that that is how he feels at the end of a 12 hour shift.
Millie and Elliot-you and your family are in my thoughts.
Tim-I wish you were here, you could give me advice about my hair.

Here's Grandma to the rescue, Whit!!

Miss Manners says that "bust" is an appropriate term, like "June is bust-ing out all over", or "California, or Bust!" but
"bosom" would suffice also among the well-mannered, like "Bosom Buddies". I have heard of the derogatory term of "boob" used but an educated person would know that it really means a stupid bloke...aren't you sorry you asked??

I'm so proud of the success you've had with your weight loss even since you were here in Florida
on March 12th! I wish I could say the same for myself, but I'm trying!

Mary Ellen, I love your part in the melodrama..I may ask you to perform as a guest star in my next "Follies" in 2 years! Thank you for your kind thoughts about our children in Israel. I really think that Saddam has something in store for Israel should he be cornered in Baghdad, as a last act of desperation.

Bluedog, when I was a kid, I loved Maureen O'Hara.
Then, in high school I loved Jane Wyman. As an adult I revered Vivien Leigh...then, since 1992 I have adored Tara Morice...wonder why? When Whit was here in our home, she saw the picture gallery of our family going back so many years, and she agreed with what my husband Ellie has said many times ...that I kinda resemble Tara when I was in my early twenties...50 years ago! What would Freud say about that?? Better yet, what would Tara say????

Peace and love to you all.

Grandma Mil

well bluedog sez "lucky ellie"!!!!

Whit,
Those are genuinely impressive gains. I know what a difficult and sustained effort is required.
You deserve a huge applause. Hooray! Clap! Cheer!
(I'm clapping and screeming really loudly, but I don't think you'll be able to hear it from your house).
Yes, especially impressive compared to 2001.
Don't lose the momentum, at least, not the mental part.
Personally, I find it really hard being "bigger".
Hopefully I'll soon find time to make it (fat loss) happen.

I'm going to chicken out and not make any comments re "chest", "bust", "boobs" or the like. Oops, I said it.

Take care,
Peter

Dear Gran Millie,

How is it that you have such a wonderful, broad knowledge of film, stage & music?

Peter

Dear Peter,

When one lives as long as I, and has had a life-long love of the cinema, Broadway, and the fine arts, then I am indeed a trivia expert! Then, of course, directing shows in retirement, and hosting film seminars keeps me on my toes, so to speak.

My "Sights and Sounds of Music", a video concert, in its 8th year, affords me the chance to build a 90 minute program, from thousands of scenes from hundreds of video tapes that I own, stored in my den..just ask Whit...she was a guest in our den, and had a chance to see that practically every inch of storage is taken up with this collection, all catalogued by computer for easy access. Yes, I have learned to edit any scene onto a master tape with two VCRs...one for playing and one for recording. The scenes come from musicals, Broadway, opera, ballet, and documentary.

I show this progam in our multimedia auditorium, on a 9ft screen, with a projection video player mounted on the ceiling. This is the auditorium that I first showed "Strictly Ballroom" on that fateful evening of 9/11...I was to show SB 5 times more over the year, and people came back multiple times to see it!

Now, Peter, what was your original question again?? (Just kidding...you're a dear!)

Love, Cheers,

Grandma Mil

I can verify that Peter. I slept in the arms of countless movie stars. Unfortunately, they were all on video tape! I took a picture of "the screening room". Maybe you'll get to see it, but I'm not sure it came out. Mil?

Thanks for your encouragement and commendation for finishing "The Body for Life" challenge from hell. I think I heard you hooting earlier! That had to be you; I have great hearing! More food and more reps might get me there next time. I have a wild annual party to attend in June (sweat lodge and all that goes with that;). I'm 40 and I'm gonna' look hot in a bathing suit again or "bust";)

Have a good visit with your mum Paul. I think I know why bluedog left those ingredients out;) From one beer drinker to another, Andrea must be a saint, if you get my drift;)

Mary Ellen, I don't worry about posting my dimensions. After all, who's going to meet me? Millie will probably be the only one, though I might make a list and visit every one of you! Just kidding of course (maybe on your golden anniversaries!). Besides, I've come to the conclusion that many men have an exagerated idea of the length of an inch ;) They probably can't, or would rather not, imagine me in the buff anyway. I might even be comitting some sort of visual violence unintentionally! Sorry.

Well, I've got things I should be doing. Great day to all. I loves ya'.
whit

Hi everyone. I just had to pop on for a minute to share something with my buds at the corner. My husband, Mike, surprised me by buying me a french horn today. I played it for many years but gave it up when I got involved with my marriage and family. I've wanted one for SO long and would never splurge on it. They aren't cheap!
It was just so sweet of him, and such a surprise! I guess it shouldn't be because he does things for me all the time.
Anyway, I've been playing all afternoon and my lips are trashed. It's been a long time. I played "Michelle" by the Beatles and it didn't sound too bad. Onward and upward.

Happy in Chicago,
Michelle

Now, now, Whit, one never knows what fate has in store!

I want everyone to know that our Whit is an extremely attractive person, with a wonderful personality to boot, and I personally am thinking about becoming a matchmaker in my spare time...(I know there are few opportunities around this senior community, where the average age is 74, but don't kid yourself, some of these "guys" are still frisky, say they have money, and some claim they are younger than they look, and are single.)

My own dear mother always was looking to make matches for young people that she knew. She made 2 successful matches...it was like something out of "Fiddler On the Roof!"

Goodnight, dear Whit, and everyone!

Love,

Grannie Mil

Grand Ma matchmaker???? If I know Grand Ma like we know Grand Ma Whit will be married within the month!!!!

Now, no one has posted what 'pico de gallo' is! A recipe please or at the least an explantation.

Whitney congratulations on getting through the gruelling challenge - now to settle down to the lifestyle change that I hope it brought about.

Peter I thought I heard a high pitched screaming type noise the other day??? I am glad to see that history has taught you much but you have just forgotten to apply it.... I know I know you were too busy?!?!?!?

Here's the ingredients for a basic pico de gallo. I guess it would be considered a condiment or relish of sorts. I don't have a recipe with proper measurements, but here is what's in it: tomatoes (seeded and chopped), diced onion, jalapenos (seeded and chopped), chopped garlic, chopped cilantro, lime juice, salt and pepper. Some recipes call for vinegar or other types of peppers. Some have fruit instead of tomatoes.
Where's Kat? I know she'll have a recipe.

Michelle/Chicago

Paul, "Pico de gallo" is pretty much like salsa just not cooked, but here is a basic recipe for you. I hope you like cilantro, I don't, I think it overpowers in the flavoring, hence I use a lot less than they suggest.

Homemade Pico de Gallo

(Serve as a condiment with Cajun Quesadillas, tacos and other Southwest or Mexican dishes.)

2 medium tomatoes, diced small
1 fresh jalapeño, minced
1  lime, juiced
1 small red onion, chopped
1/2 bunch fresh cilantro, chopped
salt & pepper, to taste 

Mix all the chopped ingredients and put in a glass or metal bowl and refrigerate.

From my very quick look at the posts, I have to respond to Bluedog: your "guess" made me laugh, but NO WAY!!!! Are you trying to get me into trouble???? You do it!!! I try not to embarass myself quite so much and most of all wouldn't subject Paul to that, not even digitally!!! I think he has a sense of humor, but still NO!!!

Peter, slow down!!! You scare me with your work schedule, but I applaud you for taking some time off yesterday to slow down, be with your wife and kids. Do it more often!

And Whit, congrats on your accomplishments and you know that if you don't continue with this new life style, I'm going to get on your case. I'll call that little sister's perk and I'll be real sweet about it too!!! you are aware that I've lived among and with "Southern Magonlias" and learned a thing or two. :-) Now I'm going to eat dinner and read these posts with more leasure!
Till later,
Evelyn

I guess Michelle beat me to it, but at least I have some measurements .... :-)

Grandma Mil you are so kind and I think you'd make a great matchmaker! However, having just turned 40 myself and never having dated anyone 40, I haven't given up hope for a mate from my own generation. Though I'm sure there are some real gems hiding in Wynmoor Estates, the best looking, smartest and kindest man there, is already taken;) Give him a hug for me!

Thanks Paul. Yes, it's all about maintaining this lifestyle. I think it's pretty deeply ingrained and my stubborn streak will keep me going. There are perks to being hard headed! It seems at least 75% of success comes from persistence. Maybe more.

Eve, the "Southern Magonlias" threat has put the fear into me. WV's right on the line and I think of it as having both a Northern and Southern mix of mentalities so I've seen it all. You have me shaking in my boots! Don't forget, I have the "sweet revenge" picture and I'll use it if I have to. I couldn't resist sending a copy to Millie. Forgive me. I await pay back.

Good night my good hearted pals. A special good night to sweet Mil and rascally Evelyn. And a good day to Paul and Peter.

Love,
Whit

Whit, you have me laughing tears now. "Rascally Evelyn" I like it, needs to be nurtured and developed some more :-) I like the you shaking in your boots part, need I say more? and just to warn you, you praised my photoshop skills earlier in this post (thanks by the way! and you are pretty darn good at it yourself) I can use them in ways you might not like me to use them, don't push me! (sort of kidding) How dare you send that image to Grandma!!!! LOL Oh and on the matchmaking business, it seems grandma picked up some vibe from the email you sent me earlier--she's good!!!--, how exactly did you put this again? "Husband Quest 2003" for the two of us and no less in OZ, watch out Aussie men ... Whit is on a mission! :) Grandma, please do something!!!

Tim, I liked your story! By the way how did the interview go?
Diane, your quotes gave me many chills and goose bumps. I'm hoping that this isn't going to be some sort of repeat performance of what happened in the 40s last century in Europe. I'm sufficiently freaked and on edge.
Katalina, glad you are in love and filled with happy anticipation. But why do you have to wait two weeks? What's up with that?
Michelle, you play the French Horn? I love the sound of that instrument, I mostly associate happy, bright, excited with its sounds. Totally cool that you play it and good for your husband for giving it to you.

Welcome Melinda, Perla, Sofia. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I enjoyed reading them.

Paul, it seems quite the party that you are planning for yourself. First the special brew beer (how did that turn out?), then all these sausages and other dishes you keep mentioning, your Mum flying in for the big event ... good for you! I hope it will be all you hope for and then some more. And I hope you will get news soon, good news of course. Having to wait this long would drive me mad Enjoy your party planning!

Three posts in one evening, that's bordering on bad manners. Enough!

I hope each and everyone of my friends here is well.
love,
Evelyn

ok.. the recipes seemed pretty much similar to mine (for pico de gallo). Especially the cilantro YUMMMMM (some say that's an acquired taste..)
Except...iiiiiiiii might be bad and just throw in a sliced Habanero (eh Michelle, uh uh? Habaneeeeeero....ooooo LOL) for good measure and much added comedic value. ok that's devilish of me. My 2% wicked streak coming out. LOL

i eat that stuff pico de gallo like candy tho..whew. all over my fresh-from-the-oven corn tortilla chips. Nummers.

goodness help the poor soul in a rrrromantic mood. LOL blow him all the way to Australia and back - with him flat out like a lizard drinkin. *poof o'fire* LOL
Let's just say I'll be chawing some anise seeds when my friend comes to visit. *smirk* LOL

and Whit!!! naughty. Ur being hard on yerself girl. You're doing so great!! Action is always good. You're moving forward...yaaaaay! I think Grandma has it right. Ur very pretty, very nice. I saw Ur website! Lovely lady! But even better, Ur an awesome person with lots of talent and lots to offer. What man could help but to adore U? Don't hide Ur light (even from U!!!).
Hugz!!!!!

Matchmaker Matchmaker..lalalalala (i forget the rest, but loved that movie (FOTR)!!!LOL) I think I'm a gonna rent that this weekend! Yay for movie therapy. Right Tim?!!!! *wink n a grinn*

Ok PC...everyone has got me (& maybe many of us?) smiling again today. I must say the mood is much more elevated, yes?
So nice. Maybe we need this- especially in times like we are in. Keeping good humor i think, can be a valuable asset in the worst of times. A prize to hang onto, and a jewel beyond price to gift and share with others.
Thx guys. (group hug..but I'll keep my Habanero breath at a distance..LOL...is anyone a Monty Python fan here? an after dinner mint, anyone?)

Big Luvz,
Katalina

Evelyn: at the risk of being bad mannered and posting again...
BTW: who said i was in love? *guilty sheepish grinn*

Katalina

Michelle's trashed lips! or just trashed lips..sounds like a rock band to me!!!

i'm with you kat on the cilantro...seems like it's a love/hate thing...me? I love it!!!

sorry evie, ...but must say, i am wondering what you are up to!!! digitally enhanced...hummmmm

now just have to find a way to use "flat out like a lizard" in a conversation... i like it! thanks pete...

later all...

Good morning everyone and my special Grandma Mil.

Evelyn! You busted me on "Husband Quest 2003"! This sort of thing has to be kept top secret! If the population of single male Australians find out, they'll be hiding in the hills by the time we get there ;) And bring it on with the PhotoShop, little sis! Let's see what you can do (in your spare time of course), you little pixel pusher you:) Hmmmm, where can I find more pix of Eve?

Michelle, how cool that Mike got you the horn! I played in high school band (clarinette) and I saw talented people struggle with that instrument. It seemed to be a very hard horn to play. I miss concert band and that wonderful thrill of playing a tune with a group. Is there a small symphony in your area? Maybe you could eventually join!

Tim, where are you sweetie???? Am I going to have to come to Atlanta for my next joke?

Have a good day y'all and sweet dreams to Paul and Peter.

Hey guys..

Just trying to keep the spirits high. Things are going well. I'm voting for good days one day at a time. Kind of like when I started AA 14 years ago. Just take it a day at a time.
Michelle...congrats on the horn. I loved french horn. I played saxophone and then clarinet in the middle school band. Then I drove the band instructor nuts b/c I wanted to learn them all so over the summer I look lessons on flute, french horn, trombone and bassoon. When I came back I played the bassoon in the band. It was a hoot. Of course I took piano for years. I would never play trumpet b/c my dad played it. But I loved the beautiful tone of the french horn.
Paul I can't believe you didn't know what Pico de Gallo was. I can't live without my mexican food. Of course it shows to. The hell with weight just be happy. And wear expandable pants. I'll just look like a tapping sail going across the stage in May.
Paul..do you know when your show should go on stage? I understand you may not be finished with all the legal stuff and accepting, but do they have a tentative date for it to go on stage? I'm dead serious about going. I've already lined up a couple of hair parties and the money I make goes to my Australia fund. I'm going dude. Can you enlighten me on that mate? Next week is the big day huh? We'll be cheering you on. Your mother is going to visit how wonderful. What do you want for your birthday? Completely selfishly? Nothing social or politically correct or like that..but what is it that you would say YOU want for your birthday? Just curious.
Peter glad to hear from you. Sounds like things are going good for you.
Whit...you're welcome to visit Atlanta anytime. In the summer when the pool is open we have a great deck you can relax on in the back amidst the hardwood trees. Butterfly bushes have tons of butterflies flying around all summer. We have a diving board and a slide so you can be girlish and go down the slide or take an elegant dive whichever you prefer. I'm more the little boy and go down the slide backwards.. : )
Guess I better get going on some projects here.
It is very positive here on the board lately. Love that.

Love and peace to everyone.
Tim

Hey Tim, I'm glad I took a moment to refresh the page before I shut off my modem to take the dog out (I doubt that he is though).

I knew I should have looked up the spelling for "clarinet". I'm betting yours is correct. I'm so impressed with all the instruments you learned! Especially, the piano; I'm filled with admiration and, yes, envy!!! I want to play! I wish I could make the leap from the woodwind section to strings, but I broke a bone in my hand a few years ago and I doubt I could pull it off. Play "Georgia" for me.

I'd love to take a dip at your family pool. It sounds like heaven! Let's all do cannon balls in addition to going down the slide backwards!! I'll bet you're the cannon ball king!!!

I wish I could see your performance Tim. Will you be taping it? I'm sure you'll be the picture of masculine grace. I just know it. Isn't it wonderful the way learning to dance raises your confidence level? What a loving gift to share this activity with your son: a very fortunate boy.

I've noticed a rise in the popularity of dance on TV lately. As a fine art sculptor, I naturally view dance as a fine art and I especially enjoy dance that exhists solely to convey the joy of life through the movement of the human body. I hope you'll keep dancing for us Paul. I'm curious about your ACE dance group and how it was recieved. That was a generous reaching out. I wish it could have continued.

Well, I've really got to take this dog out. It may seem that I have to do this a lot (and I do),but I welcome the regularity it brings to my life. For anyone out there who is alone and depressed, I recommend a pet. You deserve one. They can bring moments of joy to any life and are well worth the responsibility.

Love,
whit

Hey Tim/Whit: do U guys know how to play "Jump or Dive?" LOL...
I used to liiiiiive at the pool in summers...
My friends and I would egg each other on in fun, silly games like Jump or Dive. We each of us would step up to the diving board and get a running start and wouldn't know what we would do until the last minute when our friends (usually watching in the pool) would call out just as we were midflight in the air one (or the other) Jump!! or Dive!! ooooooooooooo boy. We had some silly mistakes trying to figure out which to do before we hit that water. Some serious bellyflops or whacked out flips occurred, and very silly postures, much to our friends and the lifeguard's amusement!!!

Hmmm I had quite a smile picturing Tim going down that slide backwards!! LOL Yippeeeeee

Happy Bellyflops to all at PC today.

*big grinnz*
Katalina

I just got a call from my grandma!!! It seems Millie's server is down so we may not see email from her for a little while. I was just about to call her when the phone rang and their she was!!!!! You can imagine my delight!!

Katalina, I too lived at the local pool every Summer. Your game sounds like fun! So your friends decided in advance and yelled in unison or did you just have to choose who to listen to as they all gave different commands?

yes it happened in unison but sometimes the commands were not!!!aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!
Therein lies the problem,and the beginning of the fun!!!!LOL

ooo ye

*wink*

Ud think I'd be past such antics...but noooooooooooooooo. Here comes the inner child! Still alive and very well!

Hugz,
Kat

Hey Whit, Tim?

....Marco!!!

(awaiting the appropriate response....LOL)

Katalina

Yeah, Paul, if I could I would have Whit married in a month...first I gotta find the right guy!

There are no catches in our village...all over 55 and most over 70, but a lot of them still have some light, but no match for our Whit!

Katalina, the words start:

"Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
Catch me a catch,
Matchmaker, matchmaker,
Look through your book,
And make me a perfect match!"

I spoke to Whit this morning, for my email service was down in our area. It was good talking to her...a phone conversation once in awhile is a real treat!

Our big cast party is Friday night..we can't wait.! We'll hash over our fond memories of the 11 months of rehearsals and the delicious success of "Follies." I have already been making some notes on the next "Follies" in 2 years...we must always be positive!

Love,

Grandma

Pollo! I never got to play that somehow. How does it go Katalina?

Mil, I'm glad you're back. It was so nice to hear your voice this morning. I love you.

This is going to be short. I'm reading rough drafts of a paper I assigned. Some of these are too polished. I'm guessing plagarism. Few of these people can write, let alone come up with a proposal How do you spell Oy vay, Mil?

Love,
Whit

Whit, if you want the modern German spelling it is "Oh weh," but Yiddish spells it differently, I'm just not sure how. Be careful with plagiarism, only pursue it if you can prove it, it can get nasty, even when you have the original text they copied. Of course there's a long story behind that one, I'd rather not think about it. It still makes me furious 4 or 5 years later. Oh, and I agree, we'll have to keep our strategy top secret ... we'll discuss this elsewhere, or not .... And where can you get more pix of me? that too will have to remain top secret ... :-)

Katalina, who said you were in love? You, or perhaps your unconscious or is it the subconscious, and you haven’t admitted it to yourself? Grin! Perhaps I read too much into your comments, call it professional hazard of a literary critic ... Nah, I like the first responses better! Monty Python fan, sure. I was looking forward to meeting Terry Jones at the conference in mid-April I'm organizing for work, but he pulled out yesterday because of the war. darn!

I'm ready for this pool party y'all are taking about, it sounds exactly like something I feel I need right now and meeting some of you guys in person would be the added bonus or the icing on the cake. Hmmm, cake … drop that thought, FAST!

Bluedog, I’m beginning to wonder myself, what the heck am I up to? Your guess is as good as mine … I’m beginning to feel the pressure that I should do something wild and wacko now …

Hello Grandma, how are you?

In dire need of some sleep! Sweet dreams to all.

Good morning Grandma!

Evelyn, that's a good point and I'm using Google to find the articles they're ripping off. These people aren't very clever. Well, school will be over soon, thankfully.

Good day to all and to everyone else a good night.
Love,
Whit

Lots of happy thoughts in the Corner! Keep 'em coming! Great day to all, Linda

How do you guys say it, like ARGGGGGHHH!!!

I am able to get onto the Corner, but can't send or receive email...can you imagine that? I get everything on the Internet too! I've spoken to 4 technicians from Microsoft, Compaq and Earthlink, my email server, and no one has been able to fix the problem! Your poor grandma will have to resort to using the phone again, like in the old days!!!!

Whit, it's oy "vay", or "vey", whatever you wish.

I'm in such a bad mood now, I could use another Yiddish expression, but I must be a "lady" and not be a bad influence on everyone!!!

With the problems of the world and my email, your grannie is trying to remain calm...see, I'm smiling...with clenched teeth!

Love,

Mil

Morning Evelyn/Whitney : Marco, Polo!! LOL
ok ya got me!

Ye that ol subconcious rearing its head again, eh?
i'm in ........mad crush. Too early to tell otherwise. But I'm hoping to lure this bad boy (not really) to Latteland by hook or by crook for a more longterm stay (for school, work) perhaps in the not-to-distant future. Oh I hope the rain subsides in time to show off our lovely mountains, waters, green...and let us hope that the tour guide is up on her game.

Hope all in the PC today have a great day!!

love ya Lattes,
Katalina

Hey, everyone, look, I'm smiling!! :) :)

I just got my email service back! Some gal in Timbuckto walked me through the technical steps to victory! Hurrah for the technical ladies!

Kisses and ((((((((((hugs))))))))))) of joy,

Grandma Mil

Hi, calling from Portugal.
We love you were too, Paul.
But its war we are talking now. Sadly, my country suports Bush (Cimeira dos Açores) and as long as we protest againts this insanity, the war is there.
I recently knew that a friend of mine is there, as a journalist. My heart is full of pain and fear for him.
We can say that the war is fine, serves to end terrorism, but I can only say this:
"And the childrens, mylord?"
Good luck for you, Paul.

Maria

Love and greetings to Paul and everyone.

Hi, Maria. Welcome. I will keep your friend in my prayers as I pray for all who are embroiled in this mess.

Waaaah! I want a French horn, too. Heard it played beautifully in "Blast!" on Chuck Mangione's "Land of Make Believe. Geoff wants me to learn it, also. (He's off on band tour today.) The band performed their Pops Concert last night. They were fabulous!!!

Thanks for the Pico de Gallo recipe, Evelyn. Think I'll make some this weekend.

Now I'm off to work.

Good afternoon Millie!! I'm glad you're finally back online. So it took two women to figure it out. You go girl!!!!

Welcome Maria. I'll keep you and your journalist friend in my thoughts and prayers. Keep us posted. Come to the Corner. This is the place to be if you love Paul's work!

Well, it's a beautiful day outside so I'm keeping this brief. I have to teach again at 6:30pm so I want to get the dog out for a little while.

Love,
whit

Hi Diane, Linda, Whitney, Maria (welcome) and Grandma Millie - glad Ur email works again yayyyy!

more recipes?? loved the pico de gallo
Do we have any Tex-Mex lovers here?

& I could use some more Australian fare tho!!!!
what about stuff for a typical summer BBQ?
(other than sausages...yummmm)

*drool*
Katalina

Evening all: Lots of good vibes here. I've been quiet these past few days, too much broadcasting of the war in Iraq. Like someone said earlier, I'm waitin for corporate sponsorship. I'm not sure that even if we get rid of Saddam and his henchmen that the people of Iraq will ever have a democratic government. I don't believe their Islamic religious fanatics will ever allow that to happen. It gives women too many rights.

I found out tonight from my sister that our nephew (younger brother's baby son) is flying on one of the big helicopters flying in supplies to Kuwait City. He had originally told the family that as a technician he would not leave the transport ship he went over there on. So if all day broadcasts aren't enough stress, knowing he is on one of these low flying targets just adds to it.

Taxes are still coming in. Folks think that if they get their stuff in by April 1, they are early. I figure they are at least 2 months late.We have 58 done so far this year (one was for 2001), I counted 22 in the bosses office waiting for him to have a look - see and about that many more that haven't been touched. We have so many elderly returns that we do, and a lot of trusts and estates. Those are the ones that I work on. Trying to get some of the information is like pulling teeth, but most of them don't have their's anymore so that makes it really hard!!!!!

It's cold and raining here tonight. It was a really strange day. Mostly cloudy, then late this afternoon a cold front blew threw with lots of dust and high winds. The forecast I heard called for a "Winter Mix" tonight and a hard freeze tomorrow night. It's raining hard enough I can hear it dripping off the house.

Paul: You have a birthday coming up, 40 I think. Makes you a year younger than my baby sister. I know you have big plans and that your mom is coming over. Hope you have a great party, make up a big dish of Pico de Gallo and have lots of chips and beer on hand. My son's birthday is the 27th of April and will have to remember to get his card in the mail in a couple of weeks.

This has been long and probably boring. Hope all of you are well and families are doing great. Keep the peace and be thankful for all we have.
Hugs to all, and extra one for those who need a little extra squeezing.
Sherrlyn

Oh, Sherrlyn. You nephew will be in my prayers, too. I'm on the verge of tears every day now as I watch or read the news. We watched TV as we worked today and my stomach is still in knots. My heart goes out to our soldiers and to the innocents in Iraq who are suffering. I know that they and their families must be able to justify their risk and that it's hard for them to hear antiwar protests.

(Rant begins here:) At the same time, I'm livid about Bush's arrogance and stupidity. Our troops captured an airport today and it was renamed "Bush" airfield. The damned hubris!!! Yesterday, the Los Angeles Times editorial stated that the Bush Administration is already busy handing out contracts to companies for clean-up after the war. Guess who the contracts are going to? Top contributors to the Republican Party. One is Halliburton, the company Dick Cheney worked for after his last government stint under Bush Sr.. This is the same company that made millions on the last war and paid Cheney $34 million. The most frightening addition to this picture is the continuing erosion of civil liberties in this country. First, "suspected" terrorists are unlawfully imprisoned without evidence and without due process. Then we have the Total Information Awareness system whereby the government can track our purchases, library activities and such. Now, John Ashcroft and company are planning to profile airline travellers and deny travel, interrogate and arrest of people they consider suspicious. I've heard that there is a piece of legislation in the pipeline that would make protestors "terrorists". It's not a far stretch of the imagination to suggest that if things keep going this way, anyone who disagrees with this administration and its supporters could be labeled terrorist, thrown in prison and forgotten. Where the hell am I living?

(Whining begins here:) Sorry I can't be more upbeat right now. I'm reacting to the war and anticipating struggles with my commission work. The paying job has been challenging and it's about to become more difficult. Allan isn't working, but that doesn't stop anything from breaking and needing repair. (Dang!!!) The hot flashes are increasing and I'm tired and stressed. And, oh, I forgot. My house is torn apart because we're doing a copper repipe and between that and the santana winds, everything is covered in a layer of dust. The winds have also blown over an expensive young carrotwood tree in our yard and the horticultural service that advertises immediate response has yet to call me back 13 hours later. Aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh!!!

Thank you all for being here and for allowing me to vent. (((((HUGS))))))

Diane

Good morning Grandma! I don't know why I'm up at 5:38am e, but her I be. Are you awake also? I know you're an early riser. Say hello to Ellie for me.

Sherrlyn, that tooth joke was good! Are you sure you want to stay in the tax biz? It seems to vex you so.

I'm sorry to hear your nephew is in the fray. I'll keep him on my mind. Who knows what our collective thoughts can do?

I think you're right about fanatasism, enslavement of women and democracy. The males there know a good thing when they have it. I'm sure they will be reluctant to free their slaves just as our own America was.

Diane, you're a good writer and you have a good point. This doesn't feel like America anymore. We may have to rise up as a people soon and remind them who they work for.

Oh and on the tree, maybe you could pile some old cloth or burlap over the exposed root ball and at least keep it damp untill they come to help you. I hope your day is a better one than yesterday. Hugs back to you.

I'm going to try and sleep again. Love and peace to everyone.
Whit

Good morning everyone! It seems there are a lot of us "flat out like a lizard" (Peter, did I use that correctly?) & I'll keep those who friends/family members in the war in my thoughts and prayers as well.
Diane, sorry you are feeling so stressed out on so many levels. This must be tough and overwhelming. Here's a series of hugs for you (((((((( HUGS)))))))) and a healthy dose of tranquility for you. The same to you Sherilyn, tax season sounds aweful, a series of hugs for you (((((((( HUGS)))))))) and a healthy dose of tranquility for you.

Love to everyone here.

Some folks are having trouble getting in the Corner. Maybe that's why I was the last one to post. Cat, any suggestions?
Whit

Good afternoon Grandma! I love you.

Good morning everyone! It seems there are a lot of us "flat out like a lizard" (Peter, did I use that correctly?) & I'll keep those who friends/family members in the war in my thoughts and prayers as well.
Diane, sorry you are feeling so stressed out on so many levels. This must be tough and overwhelming. Here's a series of hugs for you (((((((( HUGS)))))))) and a healthy dose of tranquility for you. The same to you Sherilyn, tax season sounds awful, a series of hugs for you (((((((( HUGS)))))))) and a healthy dose of tranquility for you.

Love to everyone here.

Actually by now it's afternoon. I tried to post this this morning, but it wouldn't let me ... computers ...
But now I have one thing to add: Paul your scrambled eggs and vegetable soup recipe is absolutely delicious!!! I'm eating it right now. Yummmmmmmm!!! Next time I will add another red chilli though. Not enough burn, though I added 3 small ones. Thanks for posting it.

Evelyn

Okay, this is weird, a second ago, my post from this morning wasn't there hence I included it again just now and now it appeared. Sorry for double posting it, but how was I to know ???

Hi Whit!

This is a mystery. I didn't think my last post made it earlier. Now here it is!

Hey Evelyn! I have cable tv now! I've always loved "Unsolved Mysteries". Keeping this brief so I can watch.

Good night Grandma.
Love,
whit

Evelyn & Bluedog,

The expression is:
"flat out like a lizard DRINKING".
Highly commended to both of you for the effort.

Enjoy the weekend, everybody.

Peter

Diane
I couldn't agree with you more. When I reached my lowest point thus far a week and a half ago it was because of economics. I'm still trying to find an accounting job. My second interview with this one company didn't get me the job. However, I started working again at the salon, just on Saturdays. I'm booked this Saturday, and I've had clients calling me wanting me to do their hair at their home. This is a real opportunity for me, b/c I make a helluva lot more doing it at their home. (NO RENT). Beyond all that I had actually applied for food stamps the week I broke down. I got turned down. B/C of our history with the power company here too many NSF's they put us on cash or money order only. Well for our anniversary this year, my sister in law paid all of our utilities. She wrote a check. Long story short it was sent back to us, and they cut our power off. Corporate America needs to shove their whole Mission Statement and Board of Directors up their collective asses. So here I've lived in this country all my life, we're at war. Can't get help anywhere. The war is costing us more money. They are taking up drives to send supplies over to the soldiers...so where did our tax dollars go? Oh yeah, I forgot that PrimeTime where they showed a company that recieved a government grant of like 2 million to study among other things how slow ketchup falls from a fork to a flat surface. And then these after the war things. When..WHEN is America going to take care of its OWN. That's why I'd leave in a heartbeat. I don't know if England or Australia are better. But at this point I'd rather give something else a try.
Okay off the soapbox.
Hope everyone is doing okay.
Paul...best wishes on your birthday coming up. I'm still planning on my "speech."
Take care everyone.
Love and peace to you all.
Timbo

Hello. The winds have stopped blowing my patio furniture around. Either that or everything has already been blown into the pool.

Thanks, Whitney and Evelyn for your kind words, thoughts and hugs. Yes, I am feeling very overwhelmed. As I sit here with piles of paperwork all over our home office and elsewhere the house in disarray, I'm trying to figure out how to dig myself out of this anxiety-producing chaos. The message I keep getting is to prioritize, simplify and let go. So tonight and tomorrow I'm going to sit and just think about what I can throw out or give away or stop doing. Rather than clean, I'll play in my garden and watch the clouds roll by.

I forgot the "DRINKING" part of that saying, also, Peter. Jacob reminded me of a lizard when he flopped onto his bed last night. He thought it was a funny phrase.

Love and hugs to all.

Diane

Diane...I am glad you are feeling better. You are such a kind, caring person so know that you are held in this high regard in the Corner! Keep the faith. Linda

Good morning Grandma!

Tim, I'm sorry to hear you didn't get the job. In-house hair jobs sound great! As you pointed out: no overhead! I hate the utilities too. They suck! I imagine computers are part of the problem.

I hope you get to go any where you want, but try not to give up on America yet. This country has given us many wonderful opportunities as individuals. Maybe we can take it back some day soon.

Diane, I've been trying to envision your nephew surrounded by a protective glow. I'll try almost anything. He's definitely in my thoughts and prayers. Try not to worry.

I'm so with you on the anxiety-producing chaos problem. Evelyn tells me that I can conquer this situation with baby steps, and I know she's right. It's just mentally overwhelming! I could clean another person's house and organize them to perfection, but I can't seem to do it for myself. Maybe if I owned my own home. I prefer to think that some day I'll have a part-time maid :) One can fantasize!!

I'm loving this cable, though it'll likely be temporary. I was just watching an interview with John Travolta. Seeing his many career ups and downs increases my hope for you Paul. Stay positive and know that we are in your Corner.

Have a great moment everyone.
Love,
whit

What is it that makes one look at the veiw and for the first time in weeks really see it? For years I have wanted to dance...but I'm chubby teen and honestly have been afraid to actually take lessons (my parents also could not afford it), but after I saw "Strictly Ballroom" I have decided to take the matter in my own and hands and am looking for a job so I can pay for lessons. What motivated me was the passion in which the dance was portrayed. I know I will never be able to dance that well, but I have always loved the beauty and movement that is involved in dance. I hope I will have the courage to change my body-I have wanted to lose weight for so long and learned to hate my body in the mean while. But I just wanted to thank Paul because I look at him as mentor-even though he is not aware of it. He is following his dream-it appears to me-I only hope I have the courage.

Melinda

Tim, I guess the short answer is that corporations increasingly dictate domestic and foreign policy. We get subsidies and other corporate welfare. Deregulation and other policies and loopholes that allow white-collar criminals to squeeze every last dime out of us. War for the benefit of profiteers. Free market economy, my ass!!! I share your fury. I am so sorry about your struggles and I hope you soon find your way through them!

As with everyone here, I continue to pray for the safe return of Sherrlyn's nephew and Maria's friend. I was sent an email tonight that suggests a moment of candle-lighting and prayer/positive thoughts at 9:00 pm each night for the benefit of those whose lives are on the line in the Middle-East and also for the hope of peace. This is modelled on a practice supposedly instituted by Winston Churchill during WWII and I think it's a great idea. I may make this a regular practice on behalf of those who suffer everywhere.

Melinda, you go girl! Follow your passion and all forms of expression that can lead you to your heart and your voice. Paul's passion for the dance is indeed an inspiration. And while most of us here will admit that we couldn't hope to reach his heights in that realm, you'll never know where your exploration could take you unless you follow that impulse. Love yourself. Honor yourself. I wish you all the best.

Thank you for your regards, Linda. I look forward to my visits to this site and I am honored to be in company with you.

Good night and sweet dreams to all.

Diane

Melinda, it matters not how well you dance but how much you love to dance. Perhaps I dance as well as I do because I love it that much and I still do. Although I may not hoof as well as I used to ( getting older )my love for it hasnt really diminshed and some how I can still get up there and do it - but always with a strong connection to the love and passion I feel for it and also because of the love and passion I have for my life and therefore myself.

I hope through your journey to dance - to be a dancer, you learn not just to love and express the movement of dance but also learn to love and express who you are!

I wish you all the best for your magnificent journey.

To evry one my love and thoughts.

Tomorrow I turn forty - I wonder what life will bring? I'll let you know with a new post.

HUGS TO ALL

Good morning Grandma!

Paul, Mil tells me that your birthday is happening now, as you're a day ahead of us.

I wish you the happiest of days. It's clear from the messages on this board that you've had a positive impact on the lives of many people (me for one). We're very fortunate that you're here. God bless your mum for bringing you to us. Give her a hug for me.

Melinda, you dance for the joy of it and it will undoubtedly have a positive effect on your body composition as well as your self-esteem. I'm excited for you! Keep us posted.

Diane, what time is this mass moment of focused hope scheduled? Eastern, Pacific, Central?

Have a great day all.
Love,
Whit

Happy Birthday, Paul!!!!! (One exclamation point for each decade and one to grow on.) I hope you're having a wonderful day with your mum and wife and girls and friends. The 31st is also my husband's best friend's birthday; so in his honor and yours, we'll light some candles.

Whitney, I'll try to get a better fix on that mass moment and get back to you.

Love to all.

Yes, Paul, it's your special day, although your loving fans are still stuck in Sunday afternoon!

40? 40? What a wonderful age, with so many adventures still ahead! Celebrate with gusto with your beautiful wife and daughters...the best is yet to come!

For example, when I was 40 (30 years ago), I was just starting a brand new career...teaching in elementary school. Then, after 21 years when Ellie and I went into retirement, I embarked on a new career...show biz! You know the rest.

May this special day be full of happy anticipation, and the coming year be full of wishes fulfilled, good health and peace..and a big thank you to your Mum from all of us...tell her that her most excellent production is a son with a heart of gold, and a talent and spirit that is downright inspirational!

Happy Birthday, darling...we love you!

Grandma & Grandpa

Paul,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, young fella.
40 years of experience, wisdom and joy.
Have a great one.

Peter

Happy Birthday to U, Happy Birthday to U...
Happy Birthday dear Paul...Happy Birthday to U!
And many moooooooooooooooore!

Have a super day!

Katalina

Well, if my calculations are right, the noon time portion of your party is underway. Throw back a few for me!!!
whit

Good night Grandma!

Wishing you a very happy birthday today & so does Freyja (my cat) who is sitting next to the computer meowing quite happily in your honour, staring at the screen, beginning to drool now, because she is so happy for you .... May your birthday ring in a fantastic new year & decade for you, where things fall into their place, where your dreams and hopes come true, where there's always sunshine in your life to make you feel warm, loved and special, basking in its glow. And I'll join the others in thanking your Mum. "Thank you, Paul's Mum!"
Happy Birthday, hugs and birthday kisses,
Evelyn & Freyja

Happy Birthday and wishes for many more.
Hope the visit with mom is a good one and the party is fantastic I'm sure
Hugs to all.
Sherrlyn

I'm late with my HAPPY BIRTHDAY WISHES. I couldn't get into the corner this morning. I tried for awhile. Damn computers.
Paul..40 is still so young. I know you're hearing this from one who is forever lamenting about life's troubles. But hey I just got dealt with a lot more than some. Still overall 40 is really great. You're surer of yourself more than ever before. You try new ideas. Melinda you go girl. I started dancing with my sons last year. Just after my 42 birthday. And I LOVE it. We're having an excellent time. Live your passion.
Paul, I hope only the absolutely best wishes for you today and many many years to come. I know your wife and daughters and mum are all surrounding you now with their love and care, but don't forget about your cyber mates. We love you too and care about your future. You've impacted our lives in ways you'll never understand, at least you have mine. Mate..I'm sorry I was late with the post, but never late with the thought. I thought about ya all day. Hoping it was an eternal blast of a party and celebration.

Peace and love to everyone.
May there be an end to this war soon.
Timbo

Hello everyone. Wow, I have a lot to read and catch up on here. Work has not let me have much free time but all is going very, very well. With the power of positive thinking, things have gotten a lot better with Eric and me. He got called back for a wonderful job and things are looking a lot better. Then he got sick....he had his appendix removed friday and is recovering well. It was amazing it didn't rupture becuase his first serious pains started my first day of work and that was three weeks ago. He showed no other signs of appendicitis so don't listen if you are in a lot of pain and the Doctor just tells you it's bad gas. Things were very scary for us and seeing my love so weak and helpless....my heart is aching. He is very strong though and will pull through this. This is the first time I have had to take care of him. I think his body seriously held out until my job was secure becaues now he can't work for 3 weeks and we only have my income to live off of. As for the war.....I have been so busy with work that I have been sort of out of it. Everyone I talk with has different views and I am confused because I have the ability to see both sides of things. All I know is that my childhood "brother" is over there with the Marines and I am scared for him and everyone else fighting for us. My aunt told me one of her favorite anti war slogans...Fighting for peace is like fu**ing for virginity. I wish you all well and I hope none of you have been directly effected by this war. Take care, Marnina

The most blissful of birthday tidings to you, Paul! Although with the time difference, this is a belated greeting. In any case, peace and joy to you as you begin your 40th year. Linda

Good morning Grandma! Good morning Evelyn! Good morning to everyone that's in Paul's corner! Love and peace to you!

Got to walk the dog. He insists. I'll check back soon of course. I'm looking forward to your next thread Paul.

whit

God said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you" Josh. 1:5

Paul, happy birthday to you, even if I'm more than likely late. I hope the day was exceptional. You will find that 40 much like 30 is not as bad as you thought it would be.
Much love.

Some fave Birthday quotes:

Age is strictly a case of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter. - Mark Twain

It takes a long time to grow young. - Pablo Picasso

In the midst of winter, I learned that there was in me an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Youth had been a habit of hers for so long that she could not part with it. - Rudyard Kipling

Nature gives you the face you have at twenty, but it's up to you to merit the face you have at fifty. - Coco Chanel

We are always the same age inside. - Gertrude Stein

At twenty years of age the will reigns, at thirty the wit and at forty, the judgement. - Ben Franklin

Youth is happy because it has the ability to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old. - Franz Kafka

To me, fair friend, you never can be old,
For as you were when first your eye I eye'd,
Such seems your beauty still. - W. Shakespeare

There are days of oldness, and then one gets young again. - Katherine Butler Hathaway.

Cheers Paul!
As you can see in the PC, we all lift a glass to you !!! Happy Celebrating and a great new year to you!!!

:) Katalina

Hey Paul

Best wishes for your 40th birthday! I hope you have a lovely time with your family today and that all your dreams come true. :)

- Tiffany

Oy, VEY! Dhiana here! (d'ya miss me? kisskiss, hug hugs all around)

Bluedog! You scoundrel! Leave our Evelyn's "enhancements" alone! ;-) Kidding, love. She's a beaut. Attack at will! ;-)

I tried to check in a few times but it kept telling me I "could not access that page". Stupido! (I am in exclamation point therapy as we speak, so just bear with me...)

Paul, Dearest Soul...Happy Natal Day! (although it's OVER and you're asleep now!) Can I just say how badly it sucks that I continue to operate on THIS current level of "behindness" that I am currently operating on, that AUSTRALIA freaking has to be a gazillion light years ahead of me just in Earth time? UGH! (was that a sentence? do I care? hell, I've given up capitals while I'm at it. Evelyn, please do not grade this... Or worse yet, let Freya do it!) ;-)

Mexican food, cilantro, etc...I could live on salsa and tortillas...as long as there is beer, of course! ("Blue Moon...you keep me standing alone..." oh, sorry...just having a Belgian Wannabe moment...)

God, do I sound pschitzed out here or what? People, please defend my character to the newbies. "Dhiana is not a freak. She is a perfectly sensible woman. Sometimes. This is not one of those times, however."

Oh! And the French horn...what a sweet gift! I love the French horn, but had to play baritone sax in Band because there weren't enough horns to go round. Wah. Anyway, I sat in my car this am, listening to the William Tell Overture, and the horns in there are PHENOMenal! My brother plays the trumpet (or used to--he's more into the bagpipes now...god help his wife...and neighbors...and fellow countrymen).

And Melinda, hello and good job on the dancing! I am actually taking a bellydancing class on Thursday nights for the next 6 wks. It's something I started on my own, but some friends are taking it too, and now, miraculously, I actually HAVE the money, so wooppee! Should be fun.

Hi Tim and Inn and Micheles and Suz and Auntie Mil, and Diane and Katalina and deltalady and tiff, and Linda and Cat and Sherrlyn and PETER omg how could I have almost forgotten our NEXT fav. Aussie guy? (sorry, chap...you ARE in line behind Paul...but, then again, isn't that where we ALL wish to be? Ok, maybe just the girls then...)

OKEY DOKEY then...this girl is outta here before Cat kicks my ebutt.

Squeezles and pecks,
Dhi

PS. I just read through this post. Honest, I am not on any medication or mood-altering drug whatsoever. (I had squash soup for lunch, though, does that count? I added extra cayenne just to jazz it up a bit, so mayhap I overloaded?);-p

Hello. My name is Dhiana and I am a DORK!

LOOK at that message! Just LOOK at it! I sound like I am bouncing off the walls, and actually, I almost fell asleep at my desk this afternoon! I had a gig last night til 11:30(wooo...I know! But I'm old. NOT as old as Paul, mind you. But old. ;-) hehehehe)

Gods...have mercy. For she knows not what she types.

TOTALLY leaving now. Check in Wed (that's THURS for Aussie interpreters)

Dhiana, even if you were a freak (which she is not!!!!--there I defended her character and her self) you crack me up!!! missed your sense of humor on the board, and Freyja, who by the way changed her citizenship yesterday, chooses not to correct/grade your English, so neither shall I. Besides, I'm doing way too much editing of my own, although I'm on a temporary break from that for now. Oh no, actually it is beginning again tonight ... :-(((. Finished a draft of the conference paper and now I need to fix it, tighten the argument, make it funnier. It is after all an oral presentation, last day of the 3 day conference early in the morning when everyone will be exhausted. Damn, why did they give me that time slot. Oh and if you are wondering why Freyja changed her citizenship: she's totally uncooperative!!! and that is just one of several labels Bush slapped onto my country, along with France. Yeah, at least I have my cat's full loyalty now :-)

Be well everyone, love, hugs and kisses to all.

Dhiana...hey EXPRESS yourself girl. It's still a free country...well sort of unless you're a protestor, or ...different story.
Katalina what great wishes for Paul...I agree with all of them.
Paul I gave tribute to my main aussie mate today. I watched SB. And I got a TATTOO. Is that wild or what? It's a really beautiful butterfly. The base color is violet (my mom's name) and then all kinds or reds, blues, yellows, white dabbed into it. Butterflys were one of my moms treasures. So now there's one flying on my ankle. Sweet huh?
Well it's another day. But I hope your birthday was sensational. And there is one very very true statement. You NEVER feel old on the inside. Right Aunt Mil? It amazes me to have to write down my age now, b/c I just can't think of myself as that chronological number. So don't sweat it. You've still got IT.
Looking forward to your next post and more about the show.

Peace and love everybody

Tim

Happy Birthday, Paul!

40 is 4 perfect 10's!

Enjoy; I'm closer to 5 perfect 10's myself.

Cake and ice cream for everyone. :)

hugs and smiles,

Sally

Dhiana,
I missed your contributions.
I solemnly swear that I completely understand your last postings and did not for one instant notice anything irregular.
(Bullshit - just being polite). Good to see you in great form, but watch the cayenne.

Further, I have no aspirations to stand behind Paul. I'll leave that one for you ladies to indulge yourselves.
I'll just admire him for his performing and artistic talents (in a very BLOKEY kind of way, of course).

I must fill you in on some of my recent "visions", sometime. So crystal clear. Amazing.

Hi to all.

Peter (still flat out).

Howdy, ya'll. Good to hear from Innussiq, Bridget, Marnina, Tiffany, and all. Butterfly tattoo sounds beautiful, Tim.

Dhiana, good to hear from you. You sound crazed. I know the feeling. (In case the Newbies don't know it, Dhiana is our resident goddess.) My oldest plays the trumpet. I don't think I could handle bagpipes!

Great quotes Katalina!

Evelyn, I think you got the final day's morning slot because you're the most entertaining. It's easy to hold people on the first day of conference. You'll be great. Also wanted to tell you that we still like Germany and France. In fact, my youngest is teaching himself German. We hit the bookstore the other night and he found a instructional book that has stickers in it. Now, just about everything in our house contains a label with the German translation. I gather from the email I received yesterday, Canada is trying to avoid our wrath. Read on:

Dear United States Neighbors:

On behalf of Canadians everywhere I'd like to offer an apology to the United States of America. We haven't been getting along very well recently and for that, I am truly sorry.

I'm sorry we called George Bush a moron. He is a moron, but it wasn't nice of us to point it out. If it's any consolation, the fact that he's a moron s