Paul's Corner

Paul,
Sounds good to me (bad pun).
I used to sing to myself while running, not out loud, but in my head. It sounded a lot better that way and I didn't scare anyone!

Evelyn,
Please see 2 posts back re speaking German.

Good night all.

I so agree Paul. Personally, I like to sing the old Tamla Mowtown songs. Not the same calibre of lyrics as the old movie songs, but they do it for me! I've a terrible voice but when I put on those CDs I'm off singing & groovin' around the house. Makes me feel good and helps me get through the housework!

Like the old Carpenters song
"Sing, sing a song
sing out loud
sing out strong
sing of good things not bad
sing of happy not sad.
Sing, sing a song
make it simple to last your whole life long
don't worry that it's not good enough
for anyone else to hear
just sing, sing a song".

Grandma, hope you're feeling better after your fall. Take care of yourself.

luv

Jean xx

Paul...And sing we shall! Linda

Paul
I sing all the time. I took piano for 11 years and can sing if I want to, just always too nervous in front of a lot of people. I was in plays in HS...but NADA on the singing too personal.

I drive with my CD player plugged in all the time. I sing showtunes like crazy. Right now I'm singing a lot of Moulin Rouge, Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps (Doris Day from you know where) I fucking love it. And it puts me in a great mood. Actually it can get me out of a mood. I'll just hit the expressway where I put the windows down drive about 80mph (60 or 70kpm?) and sing as loud as I can.

Rock on dude...that's the way

Timbo

I love to sing to get the blues out of my head on a fairly frequent basis. And if I'm every in a mid-afternoon energy slump, all I have to do is play "Twilight Zone" by 2Unlimited on my headphones and I'm pumped full of energy. (Do you feel aaaaaaaaaaaaallright?!?)

Thanks for the reminder of this, I know it will help with the stresses of today. In honor of you, I will sing show tunes today. Unfortunately, the only show tunes I really know are from "Sound of Music" and "Annie", and I can do that yodel part from the puppet scene. Something about a lonely goatheard and then there's a marionette drinking a beer and it just gets surreal from there. Did I have a point? Oh, yeah, so today I'll sing to make myself happy.

I love to sing, Deutchland Ober Allas and Edelwiess are amongst my favorites.

My Dad and his family had to run away from Germany due to persecution- is that the PC term for the Holocaust. Thank God they were able to get out shortly after Cristal Nacht. My spelling in German is terrible- I'm much better in Spanish or Hebrew.

Nice sharing Paul- thanks- it made my day- which sucks- seemingly better.

robee

Paul, tunes are going through my head all the time. I'm always looking (and listening for) new stuff for my next Follies. Has this every happened to you...a tune comes into your head, and it doesn't leave?

When Ellie and I are tooling around town on errands, only two CDs are allowed in the car..the soundtracks from "Strictly Ballroom" and "Chicago".

I always practice my lipsyncs when in the car.

Nothing is more delicious than stopping at a light, and my lips are moving, and the dude in the car next to us is staring at me, and probably thinking, "what is that looney old broad doing...."

Every morning in the gym, music is piped in, or the ladies bring their own headsets..music is the elixir of life. Just try living without it!

There are many songs in our lives, but this one was Judy's Garland's opener in many of her shows:

I FEEL A SONG COMING ON

I feel a song coming on,
And I'm warning ya,
It's a victorious,
Happy and glorious new strain!
I feel a song comin' on,
It's a melody
Full of the laughter
Of children out after the rain.
You'll hear a tuneful story
Ringin' through ya,
Love and glory! Hallelujah!
And now that my troubles are gone
Let those heavenly
Drums go on drummin' 'cause
I feel a song comin' on!!!

Love,

Grandma Mil

Singing and music always helps me. I love to sing even though I can't hit the right notes. I can't whistle either.:(Music always gets my spirits high. I like showtunes, swing/big band, and inspirational songs. My favorite inspirational singer would have to be Josh Groban. The lyrics are magnificient. If I'm trying to get hyped up for the day, I will listen to Michael Buble. His music has such a happy beat. As for showtunes, I don't have any specific favorites. There are a lot of good showtunes. Although I love to sing, I get annoyed when the song won't get out of my head. That happened to me last night. I watched "About a Boy" yesterday afternoon, and I couldn't sleep at night because I kept singing "Killing me Softly". Playing the piano also helps me. I like to play my own songs sometimes.

Today was a pretty good day for me. I wasn't bothered except for a kid that sits by me in Biology. He thinks he is just so cool. Well, I gave him some feedback and so did my friend. He didn't know what to say. I guess he didn't think that I would tell him my point of view.

I hope everyone has a great day.

Jenny

Hi PC posters. Sounds like everything is going well with most of you.

Paul glad you found time to exercise the vocal cords. That will help when you take the role in TFM.

Nothing like a good song to get your spirits up.

Really just wanted everyone to know I was still around. You all are so fast to post to Paul's responses and to each others, that by the time I read thru them and get to the bottom, someone else has already expressed my opinion much better than I could, all I can do is nod my head and think to myself "well said".

I have to admit that I'm even excited about seeing so many newbies posting. I think that it is wonderful that you have seen Paul in a production that has moved you to find out more about him. You may find out more about him and the rest of us than you bargained for, but then that is part of the "Journey".

Must find something productive to do tonight, home alone with the cat.

Hugs to all, keep singing.
Sherrlyn

Jenny you play your own songs? I play guitar a little and love to strum out a little tune I have made up with some words. Love to play other peices - Beattles, Cat Stevens, Pink Floyd - good ole Mr Bo Jangles. I'm not real good on the guitar but I love the bits I do on it and of course never do it enough.

As for tunes in my head, I can wake up at two in the morning and straight away be singing in my head a tune I was thinking about before i went to bed. Then I go back to sleep and when I wake up in the morning I am straight into singing it again.

Well done on straightening out the boy in biology.

Hi everyone, silent reader but today I break the silence and agree with the lot of you about singing.I also love showtunes, right now I am stuck on Cabaret so I will be singing my little heart out in the car, I am sure the people next to me are probably thinking 'what the hell is she doing?', but I dont care, it changes your day when you can find ways to brighten them yourself. I also realized that everyday is a good day, it is just a bad moment here and there in a good day.As for food, got to watch weight for fencing team. Love to cook! Great osso buco recipe in the recipe corner!
Mercedes

Welcom Cynthia b8s. Welcome Mercedes - sing out loud girl!!! I love osso bucco - glad you liked the recipe - more to come.

Other people I love to sing to - Jewel, Stevie Wonder, Aretha Franklyn, Eva Cassidy, Seal, Silverchair, Queen, Billy Joel, Chris Deburgh any one remember him? etc etc there are heaps more but I have to do some work now.

When my motorcycle gets serviced BMW lend me another one to ride for the day. They usually give me this big touring motorcycle which is very nice but the best bit about it is it comes with a radio and fantastic speakers. So on goes the radio, up goes the volume and in the words of that song Born to be Wild I go Running down the highway.... riding full bore with full volume singing my heart out! People at traffic lights think I'm kinda wierd - which is fine by me :)

Paul...I like singing to Eva Cassidy also. When I talked about making my own songs, I meant that I enjoy sitting down at the piano and making up some songs at the spur of the moment. I forgot to mention that Paul Spaeth is a fantastic composer/pianist. I like to make songs that sound like his. Paul Spaeth's songs come from the heart. There is so much emotion and feeling in his songs.

Best Wishes,
Jenny

The director of the play that I am in has a doctorate in music-specializing in performance and she is encouraging this ole gal to sing more or take lessons. I have been singing Puccini lately, but lapse in to a lot of other things. I sing in my head when I ride my bike because if I sing while I ride, I don't ride hard enough to get my heart rate up. Lots of Bruce Springsteen is meant to be cranked, and my poor child has had to admit to her friends that she knows "Cadillac Ranch" by heart.

LOL Paul. It's fine with me if people think I'm weird. I don't usually sing in public though. I I think it's amusing to watch people in other cars at traffic lights. People look like they are having such a great time when the bop their head and sing along to the music. Wow, May 1st already? We have a few more hours here until May 1st. I can't believe how fast time is flying.

Love from Wisconsin,
Jenny

Hey Paul and All. I love to sing too! It brings such obvious joy to everyone, unlike fine art which seems to be enjoyed by just a few. I watched a bio on Sam Phillips today and he had a wonderful vision of music improving the lives of everyone. What a beautiful thought.

Grandma, you fell? I hope you're feeling better and nothing serious was damaged. I love you.

My love to all. Good night and good morning,
Whit

Paul, I love Chris DeBurgh. His lyrics can be quite passionate I think.
As for songs that have been stuck in my head lately, the Beatles song I Will, The Warmth of the Sun by the Beach Boys, Hard Headed Woman by Cat Stevens and Wild West End by Dire Straits.

Michelle/Chicago

Hi All!! Just have time for a quick word. The sun is shining and I feel born anew just like every spring. I'm singing a tune in my head all the time. Momma Mil I'm glad your ok. Kat my dear I hope your feeling fine too. Hello new, folks you may not know me, I'm just another of the facinating (if I do say so myself) personalities you will find here. Hope to get to know you all.
Peace, Inn.

Boy, I must really have spring fever all my missing 're(s) my grammer is slipping. Ah who the hell cares it's finally WARM!!!!! YAY!!!!!!!!!
:-)

Paul...You have really got everyone singing both in reality and metaphorically. These lines from a Harry Connick Jr. song keep going around in my head:

"no matter what you do
'long as there's breath in you,
there's always one more time"

Love it, Linda

I'll sing to anything, even songs I'm not very fond of which really annoys me sometimes! I can't not sing if I remember the words. Now whether or not it sounds good or not... I used to take voice classes and sing in concert chior but that was years ago. I'm toying with the idea of going back and taking more classes just to have some kind of creative outlet beyond shower singing. I honestly think music and singing somehow changes your chemistry; releases some endorphins or something. Sing in the car! Sing in the shower! Sing in your head! Keep that soundtrack running all day long. I can turn a really crappy day into a pretty good one just by popping in a Sinatra CD or some Etta James. It's amazing how music can bring you out of a funk and I often forget that.

Chris Deburgh-"Lady in Red" right? That song still gives me goosebumps. I think Brian Ferry is in that category as well. Suave!

Jenny-I was one of the taller girls in my class, 5 feet 8 inches by the time I was twelve. Believe me, you're not the one with the problem!It's a difficult thing to get comfortable in your own skin sometimes, but the kids who make fun are more likely just REALLY insecure about thier own stuff. I used to get teased a lot in school because I was not only tall, but I sort of developed my womanly looks early if you know what I mean. It took me a until I was much older to get over that and I wish I had been a bit more brave back then. I think it's outstanding that you let that guy in Biology know what's what. Getting comfortable expressing yourself when people act like idiots to you is one of the hardest things to do and it sounds like you've already got it down.

Okay, must go and do something productive like balance a check book or something. No rest for the wicked ;-)

Cheers,
LaLisa (I don't know if there are any other Lisa's so I'll use that one for a while)

I find singing out loud to Queen songs really gets me going, I know they are an old band but they could just go and get you moving.
UGh,on my way home to tonite CD player in car stopped working, I am trouble and stuck with the radio. Oh well, I'll go and find some 80's station and annoy people with synth music.

Kangaroo meat good?? I am not sure I can get that in the states, I am not afraid of trying new things, just dont know where to find it.

How rude of me.... I have been sending you lots of healthy thoughts Grand Ma Mil just havent put them down on the screen. I am sure you are well but heres hoping Ellies looking after you extra special!!

WOW...all these new people on the board. Paul..it's gotta be some people have been silent for awhile..but I swear the Showtimes running of SB has everyone in a fury to find out more about the incredible dancer, actor and all round great guy.

To all the new ones.. Welcome. I'm beginning to feel like an oldie on the board. I had a great day today. After reading about the singing which I do all the time. My kids and I on the way to class tonight were singing loud and strong. And I don't give a flying shit what people think at the stop light. If they look at me funny I just sing louder..hell what's died and flew up their ass. It is one thing I can honestly say I absoloutely and unequivically enjoy. As a child growing up I was home alone (an only child) a lot. It wasn't illegal then to be left alone, and my mom had to work. So I'd play my piano and sing all the time.
This is such a great post..It's made me feel happy. And tonight at tap...we went over each step until we had it and then the transitions (which were what really killed me). And I feel so MUCH BETTER. I mean I could really do this stuff. I can't wait to get on stage. It's going to blow my mind. I've worked so hard and the kids have worked so hard. I was also told that Spencer (my 10 year old) was just a natural. He's dancing fast and furious. My heart swelled..He's got it in him.

Momma Mil...I just adore you.

So Paul you drive a Beemer bike huh? Not a slack ride my man. I can see you buzzing along. And if people look funny at you give em something to gawk at.

Hey guys a new movie coming out to add to my list of must sees...Down with Love. Ewan McGregor and Rene Zellweger(sp?) both favorites of mine. Sounds like he may be singing again. He really has a great voice. And she appears to have adopted a british accent again for this role am I right? I just saw the trailer tonight. It's a gotta see for me. I think I'm going to treat myself to Chicago this weekend. After my nephew makes the dive into the abyss some of us know as marriage, oops I didn't say that, I think I'll take my oldest son to see it. Please no one take offense to this, it's not intended to be taken that way it's just a statement. My oldest son is attracted to older big black women. There are quite a few at his church and he has a crush on one. Her name is Terry, and she could be a stand up comedian, she's delicious. Anyhoo..he LOVES Aretha Franklin and speaking of singing he can do most of her songs. R E S P E C T is one of his faves. She's coming to Atlanta this summer I wish I could take him to see her. He'd go out of his mind. Back to the movie. Queen Latifah will have him in a new love fest. He only likes the woman that have a 'tude and can belt out a tune. What a Man! I'm so proud of him. He's such a individual and has such an imagination and different perspective than any of us. I would never have wished for a child with aspergers autism, but I will never be same because of him. Or view things the same.
I'm getting long and sappy. I just love my kids and the thought of going to London has me a bit remorseful but I think it's going to pan out in a really big way. I really do.

I'm outta here.

peace and love

Tim

okay, what songs can make your brain scream...go away!!!..how 'bout a little "achy breaky heart" or "islands in the stream" (went through 3 states with a 3 year-old who loveeeeeeeeeeeeed achy breaky and sang it for - drum roll please, 3 states)!!!! still in recovery...

and yes to lady in red...ladyyyyyyyyyyyy in red

and granny mil, only sb and roy orbison "pretty lady, walking down the street" - next month maybe something else - but for right now crank the volume up and i'm a happy camper...do i look a little demented cruising down the highway, singing and conducting? christ i hope so!!! i like demented...

Tim, not everybody watches TV, when I see a really good performance, dance wise, it stays in my mind. I got to see Mikhail Baryshnikov perform many moons ago, I never forgot his performance. When I watched Paul dance in SB, his dancing was wonderful, reminded me of Gene Kelly in an American in Paris,very charismatic. I wished I could have been in Sydney to see actual theatre performances, but the movie is all I got. I have seen other of Paul's flicks and he is pretty good. I just decided to stop reading and start participating and I am glad that I have, people on this board seem to have great personalities. Ok I am done with my soap box.

Hello,

I have to admit I've been reading this site for the past few days debating whether or not to post. I'm not one to go into chat rooms and the sort, but I just wanted to say what a fan I have become. I just saw SB over the weekend (4 times over 2 days) and was tremendously inspired by Paul Mercurio's dancing and overall performance. I'm a dancer by training but never pursued it due to parental objection (and knowing I'd never be as good as I wanted to be). Anyhow, I'm now a physician in training but continue to love the art of dance.

Thanks for the inspiration. It provided just the lift I needed to get over a difficult past few weeks.

I'm going to try to break my habit of being a silent reader and jump in again.

I love hearing of everyone's favorite music and learning new names to check out. A sing-a-long is the best way to leave a blue mood or fully engage in a good mood. I've lately been listening to Arnold McCuller and Paul Giamatti's 'Try a Little Tenderness' over and over and over from the Duets soundtrack and my SB soundtrack, Maurice Ravel's beautiful Bolero and I'm a closet Shaggy fan. Which is a bit embarressing at my age.

Momma Mil and Barabara/NC don't feel alone, you are not the only grannys on PC. Time certainly has a way of creeping up on you and before you realize it you're one of the older generation!

Jaecee, from one newcomer to another, welcome. It's pretty amazing the wonderful energy Paul has brought together here by just being who he is.

Bluedog, you're right, the second post is easier! Thanks for the encouragement.

Eileen

Songs You Wish You Could Get Outta Your Head:

Total Eclipse of the Heart - Bonny Tyler (?)

Paul, heart of my heart, (that's a song, you know,) thanks for thinking of me..I was indeed fortunate that I didn't break anything..I'm well padded in all the wrong places, but that fact saved me from a real injury!

Ellie watches me like a hawk, and with my new diet and exercise (ugh) routine,there will be less to watch, I hope!

I can thank Whitney for getting me started..(thanks, Whit!) When she was visiting us, I took her into the ladies' gym just to show her around, and I decided after ignoring the place for 12 years, that I should take advantage of the facilities!

Timbo, I love you...when you go to "Chicago" and you see Queen Latifa do "When You're Good to Momma" think of me...that's my newest lipsync, and I will be doing it in my next Follies...it is
so...ME! I just love that Queen Latifa. She's an inspiration!

Welcome, new Grandma posters, Eileen and Barbara!

I think I still hold the distinct honor of being the oldest poster...not the wisest, but just the oldest...turned 70, married 50 years, 3 daughters, 12 grandchildren, 2 great-grandchildren. They still think that Grandma Millie sings so beautifully, like an Ella Fitzgerald and Ethel Merman (some of my lipsync voices.)

Have a great day, and Sing, Sing, Sing!!! (Benny Goodman)

Love,

Grandmomma Mil

I am in love with Wichita Lineman.
Song from 70's. I sing it over and over and over. LOL...

ok..and I was singing loudly in my car this am on drive into work to Pearl Jam's : JEREMY!

LOL

Hugz to all at PC and Paul today.
YOU GO GUY!!! Sing that lovely heart out!!!!
It does refresh the soul!

Besitos to all,
and love from Latteland,

Katalina

God what a great thread this is and welcome to all the newcomers. And to the new DR on the board..you can still dance. I take tap with my kids. And I'd never danced in my life. It's a dream come true and a artistic expression that I have embraced and absolutely love. It's GREAT therapy. There are several adults in the tap class and the ballet class. Don't give it up..Use it to keep your mind clear.

And to my main man Paul here. Do you see all this excitement building???? People are seeing you again and looking for you. You've just gotta do The Full Monty. And after that there will be so much...I just know it man..I just know it.

I love Queen, Aerosmith, Boston, Chicago, Molly Hatchett, Patsy Cline (Momma Mil and me), Def Leopard...all kinds of crazy stuff. But showtunes and songs from movies are fav's. Like I really enjoyed Madonnas theme song for A League of their Own. "my playground"...Great movie too. Gina Davis was great. Madonna and Rosie had me in tears. Hey Paul..did you like working with Rosie? She seems like she'd be cool to work with. Maybe not..you can just never read show people well.

Have a super great day mates.

G'day

Timmer

Momma: you put a big ole smile on my face with Sing, Sing, Sing!!!
I like this one too: Colin James & Little Big Band's BREAKING UP THE HOUSE!!! ("every nite....")
Really gets me going. I just have to grab a coworker or 3 and start Swinging!!! LOLLOLOLOL

Hugz,
Kat

Evelyn: I forgot to say thanks for the nice hug!
Doing better today!
xoxoxox Kat

I can't stop singing that song from your movie, Paul! Perhaps Perhaps Perhaps....I downloaded it because I've never heard it before. Now my eight year old daughter is singing it and she's going to perform it for my mother on her birthday. My mom loves all that old music. She sang at weddings my whole life and in the church choir. It is to be a surprise. Singing is for the soul!

Melanie, if your daughter will be singing "Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps" your mother will be delighted...just be sure to tell her it comes from "Strictly Ballroom", and the original soloist on the soundtrack is Doris Day. I am sure your mother will appreciate that!

"Perhaps" was sung in my variety show, "Follies", but I had the soloist go into the Spanish lyrics, also: "Quesas, Quesas, Quesas"...the Spanish lyrics were beautiful (and sensual.)

Katalina...you always put a smile on my face too!
"When you're smilin', when you're smiling,
The whole world smiles with you"...yeah, yeah, I wish!

Love,

Grandma Mil

Momma: is it possible to obtain the spanish lyrics to Perhaps from you? Just for personal use, info., not anything more...
Maybe in a PM?
I'd absolutely love it, if possible!!!
(no comment as to why... *grinn*)
Quesas, quesas, quesas...hmmm
Sounds lovely.

Hugs,
:) su Katalina

Hi all you lovely people!

I first made my way to Paul's Corner on the same day that he was offered the Full Monty gig. I'm quite embarassed to admit that I have the hugest crush on Paul. WHAT A HOTTIE!!! and I don't just mean from a looks point of view but from that perspective he is totaly yummy. There is something so soulful and deep about him. As I look at him on celluloid- I'm so aware that there is much intensity behind those beautiful eyes.

I can't believe how down to earth he seems and how honest he gets in his postings- wow I'm inspired by that kind of exposure. The nakedness, the freedom- I'm envious of that ability.

Well enough of my unbridled gushing, I am interested in hearing some opinions. I have been studying acting (Actors's studio/ New School University/ NYC/ MFA program). To keep my head above water while in school I have waitressed- not very successfully, been in several off b'way productions and do a bit of modeling and personal training. Recently some of my friends who are indie film types offered me a small but intense role in a film that they have written and are working to produce. However, the role calls for some serious nudity. I am so ambivalent about that aspect of the role (however the nudity is not gratuitous) As an actor I need to acknowledge that sometimes stories are told where people are naked and that is the part of the character's story and not about me. I'm struggling how does one disembody oneself so that they become so physically uninhibited that nudity in a role is not a issue. Any thoughts?

Anyhow thanx for humouring me through my pondering- I'd greatly appreciate any and all feed back.

goodnite all,
layla

timmer - speaking of women with a 'tude...and still one of the hottest women around - tina, yep tina turner!!! saw the final tour...and she rocked solid the whole concert...her voice and those legs in those high heels...gawd, she's 60 something and still a babe!!! ah, my private dancer...

hello to the newest posters - can't speak about other blogs, but suspect this site is probably one of the best...along with cat's own blog site, which is just plain cool too!!!

later...

Layla, if you want to become comfortable with nakedness, I have a party in WV you could attend in June. But really, as an artist, I find the human body to be most beautiful and it has a rich heritage of being represented in visual art. At one point critics thought it was the only subject worthy of art! I say get naked!!!! Especially if it has a valid purpose in the movie. Get naked and go Indie.

I agree Layla; the eyes have it.

bluedog, I love Tina too! She's a rocking lady! She says she retiring and she has a wonderful life in England (I believe). She deserves it; she's the female equivalent of james Brown!

Good night Mil and Ellie.

Good morning Dr Meyer.

Sweet days; sweet dreams.
Love,
Whit

Welcome new friends! It's nice to know that so many people are finding this site and/or deciding to jump in after following the threads for a time.

Yep, Sherrlyn, everytime I get on here now there are at least 20 new responses that mirror my thoughts.

Paul, I love music and I love to sing. I'm so glad you were able to let that joy wash over you. It can make a huge difference. When I get too busy to listen to music or sing, my quality of life deteriorates. "Music hath charms to soothe the savage beast." (Did I quote that correctly?)

When I was 4 or 5, I would listen to the radio as I fell asleep. Ray Charles, Roy Orbison, The Everly Brothers, The Righteous Brothers, and on and on. When I was a little older, I worked for neighbors and I spent all my money on albums and 45s. (I still have some of them.)

I have very eclectic tastes. Show music, jazz, blues, bluegrass, light opera (Candide is a good one), pop, rock, country. Today, I have been groovin' to Manhattan Transfer's CD "The Spirit of St. Louis." With one child playing the piano, trumpet, bass guitar and drums, the other playing the violin and drums, and my husband playing some guitar and piano, I'm the only one who hasn't learned an instrument, although I have had voice training. I'm aiming for piano lessons within the next year. Hmmm, maybe sax, French horn, clarinet somewhere down the line. I'm way too excited today. Can you tell?

Robee, Edelweis is a very poignant song. I'm glad that your family was among those who escaped Hitler.

Cynthia B8s, you can yodel? I'm impressed. I enjoy singing selections from The Sound of Music. It was the one musical film that my grandpa and I went to see together that we both loved.

Jaecee, I predict you'll find a way to incorporate dance into your life and/or your work.

Mercedes, I sing and bop around to music in my car all the time. One day some folks from the temple said they saw me doing just that as they drove along side me and they could tell that I was really happy. I figure anybody who has a negative reaction is in serious need of an attitude adjustment.

Mary Ellen, you go for those lessons, girlfriend!

Linda, I like Harry Connick, Jr.' s music, too!

Lisa, Jenny's post with regards to your height reminded me about the young ladies I've seen moving from elementary to junior high and high school. Maybe it's something in the milk here, but these girls are all at least 5'6" and many are close to 5'9" by the time they're in 7th or 8th grade.

Layla, go ahead and gush. As for the nudity issue... that can be a tough one. I'm sure Paul will share his experience and advice. If it were me, my willingness would have a lot to do with my level of trust with the people directing and producing the film and my belief in their artistry and integrity.

It's bedtime; but I'm hungry. Gotta have a little snack, now.

'Night all!

Diane

Well, I lost my post so I have to start over again.

Hello to everyone I've been away for a while and I'm just catching up.

Grandma Mil, Sami and I send our love and hope your doing okay after you fall.

Hannah, CURRY! Please send some recipes my way! I love curry.

Robbie, Glad to read about the olive branch exchange. Welcome. WOW You sure came in with a bang! Thanks for sharing the recipes.

Michelle, Your from Kansas? So is my husband. He is from Wellington. We just went back to visit the family last year. There's no place like home:)

Evelyn and Whit, and others I hope all is well with you. Swift kicks if you need them.
Hello to all the new posters.

I've been on the down side lately. I just lost a my good friend Gene. I still can't believe he's gone..... Okay warning do not read the next paragraph! It's just me venting. I'd like to thank you now for letting me do so.

I also lost my mind last night too. Ever have one of those days when you set something down just a second ago and draw a complete blank on where. I lost the ATM card. I checked the closet, the car, garbage, laundry, anything that could be turned over or looked over, my neighbors couch, her laundry, ect. I spent the whole night tearing the house apart looking for it. I even spent the wee hours of the morn looking for it. Finally we call it in lost. 5 minutes later, I go upstairs to use the restroom and what do I see sitting on the cat box? The cat box of all places! How did it ever get there? Maybe the cat was trying to give me a hint when I caught it peeing in the dogs milk bones basket instead. The little present my dog left by the doggy door because he didn't want to get his paws wet from the rain seems so minor now. With Gene dying and all I just want to set down and cry.

Okay I'm done. Tomorrow will be a new day and this will all be behind me.

Paul, sow sow sow your garden. Take care.

Suz

Thanks-Ladies for your responses to my "getting naked" pondering. Though i think the human body is awesome, amazing and beautiful-in every shape, color and size- i can't help thinking about the fact that being naked on film doesn't go away- it will always exist. I'm also wondering if getting naked so early on in my fledgling career will pidgeon(sp) hole me? I'm also thinking that there is still a double standard in not only our society but in the industry- where women may still get defined by being naked on screen whereas it is not an issue with men. After all don't you think that there are/were quite a few people who saw "Monster's Ball" because they wanted to see Halley Berry naked? (or were at the very least curious?) (not that I am anywhere in her league or that people are really interested in seeing my collar and cuffs sought to speak). Anyhow i am sorry for being so self absorbed!!! and thank all you kind people for welcoming me and offering great advice. I wish you all a wonderful - happy and healthy day!!!
It's 6:00am here and I'm off to pilates class
My best,
Layla

Good Morning, Whit and All,

It's early a.m. Friday, but a great time to catch up.

First off, Evelyn Meyer is getting her doctorate at graduation ceremonies today at the University of Minnesota.

It's a proud moment for her mother, who has arrived from Germany to be with her on this wonderful occasion, and a proud moment for us here on PC, knowing how hard she has worked to reach this day! Evelyn, love and congratulations on a job well done!

Katerina: I called a cast member from Follies who is also a Spanish teacher, and he is going to bring me the lyrics to "Quesas" this morning, and I will type them out here on PC, and everyone, get ready to copy!

Susie, good to hear from you. Sorry, though, to hear about your friend Gene.

I'm fine after my fall, and being more cautious these days. Give Sami a big hug and kiss for me!

Layla, although you are a new poster (welcome!) I am going to put my two cents in and advise you, like a Grandma would, NOT to pose nude in that so-called project by those beginning film makers. It
smacks of exploitation, and soft porn...be careful!

Someday you will hopefully find the success that you deserve. Would you and your family be proud of
this film in the future if you accepted the role now? (There, I've said it, and I'm glad!)

Love,

Grandma Mil

Okay, Katarina, the Spanish lyrics to "Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps" were just handed to me.

Here they are..(I suggest you put on Doris Day's "Perhaps.."and sing along in the Spanish.)

"QUIZAS, QUIZAS, QUIZAS"
(O. Farres)

Siempre que te pregunto
que cuando, como y donde
tu siempre me respondes
quizas, quizas, quizas.

Y asi pasan los dias
y yo desesperado
y tu, tu contestando
quizas, quizas, quizas.

Estas perdiendo el tiempo
pensando, pensando.
Por lo que mas tu quieras
hasta cuando, hasta cuando.

Y asi pasan los dias
y yo desesperando
y tu, tu contestando
quizas, quizas, quizas.

Siempre que te pregunto
que cuando, como y donde
tu siempre me respondes
quizas, quizas, quizas.

Estas perdiendo el tiempo
pensando, pensando,
Por lo que mas tu quieras
hasta cuando, hasta cuando.

Y asi pasan los dias
y yo desesperando
y tu, tu contestando,
quizas, quizas, quizas!

..A beautiful song in any language, and memorably danced...with perfection!

Love,

Grandma Mil

Hi guys..just surfing around this morning trying to stay out of trouble. Had a minor set back yesterday, actually a major one, but today is another day. I'll talk about that later. I go to Emotions Anonymous (can you believe they have such a thing?? oh well) tonight at 8. It's for chronically depressed and often suicidal people to learn to cope. ENOUGH already timmy.

Layla..welcome and to the others as well. I have one thing to say on the nudity. I would wait till you're a more accomplished actress. Those scenes could come back to haunt you projected on the internet through porn sites when you become more successful. I mean think of what Demi Moore negotiated to show her boobs. Did it do her any good? Has she been in any good movies lately? Halle Barry in Monsters Ball. That part called for that soulful untamed sex and lust. It was executed very well. I heard they did it in like one take. But, she's already been there and the movie was definitely a carrot for the guys with her doing a lot of show and tell, but the movie itself was rich. So from a non-actor but 42 year old man with a lot of opinions about things, I agree with Momma Mil. Later honey. There's so much you can do in so many different places without going there yet (if ever). Paul did some scenes in Exit to Eden. But that was part of the whole movie. He should definitely give you a note on that. It's such a personal decision.

Doing a lot of family hair today..the nephew with the wedding tomorrow. I gave him a couple of viagra for his honeymoon. He's still a virgin. I said well you'll last about 2 seconds. But I told him to only take a half. It'll make for a pleasurable evening not just for him but also for her. Poor guy...Sooooooo stupid. But not my problem. I have enough.

Love you all here at PC.

Later

Timbo

Momma:
Thx for posting the spanish lyrics to
Quizas, Quizas, Quizas.
wowowowowoowowowwoowowowoowowowoowowow

que bonita!!!!
lovely

Hope all at PC has a wonderful weekend today!
los embrazos y besos,
Katalina

Evelyn, (dear Doctor Meyer)
Hearty congratulations on receiving your PhD.
Wow. I bet that's been a long, hard haul.
I admire your dedication and perseverence.
May I ask which discipline is it that you now hold your doctorate?
Again, an incredible achievement.

Momma Mil, It never fails to amaze me how much you know about movies, soundtracks, musical, stage, theatre etc.

There's a richly and diversely talented group of knowledgeable and artistically creative individuals on this board.
You must all attract each other, with Paul as the creative focal point.
I do feel a little envious at times (big compliment) and somewhat in awe of peoples' interests, abilities and achievements. It serves to remind me of the richness of spirit and wonderful talent in the world, especially contrasted against my own, slightly pragmatic existence. Ah, but you know what they say: A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.
Hmm,....maybe next time.

Crikey and jingoes, just realised that the above sign-off sounded a little negative. Nope, no intention there, I was just chewing over how some peoples' achievement are visible, accessible and popular, and make others feel brilliant (take Paul's movies & dancing for example), and others go unnoticed. I guess it's just the way of things.
We look for things to inspire us and make us feel good. And just as well.

(One tends to reflect philosophically on life and all its' contents when commencing some engineering design work at 5:00 am on a Saturday morning).

Later today I get to watch my little daughter play netta (a bit like netball) and my six year old son is doing ballet and than jazz. It's his choice. He loves it and I solidly support it. He has a ball, it teaches him discipline and it's fantastic for his fitness and social awareness.
Heaven help anyone who dares to make any adverse comment upon that choice of pastime.

Cheers to all, have a good day.

Is there a "Doctor" in the house?
*big grinnz* to Evelynz :)
Congrats sweetie!!!!

Hugz,
Katalina

p.s. would that be in Psychology perhaps? Or is it in your Medieval History?

Peter, I say dance, make music. make art. I'm reading studies that indicate these activities boost a student's success in every area. And it's fun too!

Oh, I just went up a post. Aren't you doing what you want? What would you do if you could do anything?

Thanks Katalina. I hope you have a good weekend too. How've you been? I guess I need to read some recent posts and find out. I will when I have some time.

Good evening Millie!

Love,
Whit

hi paul and everyone!
paul im glad you had a great positive day! refreshes the soul when you realize when youve had one. by the by, your motorbike, what make is it? if you have a harley davidson, check out www.karata.com; you might find something you like!
hope everyone is well and thank you for the positive feedback from my last post a-ways back.
stay happy!
nicole
ps to tim-timmer is a cool name :)

hi paul and everyone!
paul im glad you had a great positive day! refreshes the soul when you realize when youve had one. by the by, your motorbike, what make is it? if you have a harley davidson, check out www.karata.com; you might find something you like!
hope everyone is well and thank you for the positive feedback from my last post a-ways back.
stay happy!
nicole
ps to tim-timmer is a cool name :)

Peter, to me you will always be the guy who wasn't afraid to wear red pants. Conformity be damned! You're my hero. I hope your son's dancing makes his heart sing as well as yours.

Congratulations Evelyn! Have a wonderful time with your mother! I hope you celebrate a lot and then sleep well. I know things have been stressful for you lately, but now that you've accomplished this you can do anything!

Love to you my friends,
Michelle/Chicago

Hello everyone,
Katalina- Love your name. Doris Day has an entire album of latin songs translated into English, of course it has 'perhaps, perhaps,perhaps'and other songs are just as lovely and gripping.

Today I need to sing a whole opera, ugh traffic court.:(
Mercedes

Hi guys, very quick, thanks for you good wishes--I take it my granny is very proud :-) Thanks! My muscles in my face are sore from smiling all day, still am. What a day! Actually, I'm not technically Dr. ... yet, I had commencement ceremony today and yep, was hooded and all that funny stuff (actually, I had so much fun, a heck lot more than I thought I would, never participated in a graduation ceremony), but I have yet to take the actual final exam (PhD defense in the US, Viva Voce in the UK, no clue what this is called in OZ) and that's Tuesday May 13, unless I screw that one up, I can call myself Dr. ... after that, but I don't think I will. I'm not big on titles. Oh and Peter, the Ph.D. is in the Humanities, specifically in Germanic Studies, sub field Germanic Medieval Studies with a Feminist Studies Minor--I think and by the way I also saw your post on your rather interesting heritage. Wow! Much more interesting than mine.
Having a lot of fun with Mum. It's fantastic that she is here and while she's always been very proud, she's sparkling with pride right now. Totally cool to watch that, esp. in those moments when she's not aware that I'm watching her.
Tim, thanks for your input on Emory.

Love to sing, on or off key, but don't do it often enough, although right now I am singing all sorts of happy songs in my mind.

Got to go and feed Mum now. Will read more at some point when I have the time. Have to deal with one of my examiners who after having procrasitnated for months on reading my thesis now less than two weeks before the exam wants me to make changes and force her way on this issue against my advisors and she insists that I meet with her tonight. I'm not looking forward to that, but unless I want her to give me hell during the exam, I must respectfully listen to her. I hate these powergames, but can't do much about it. I know that my advisors are supporting me in this and they are very unhappy about what she is doing, ... damn it, I want to celebrate tonight and not deal with a self-absorbed, unreasonable faculty member. :-( I'll smile my way through that one and continue to sing happy songs in my mind.

Dr. Eve :-) [sorry couldn't help it ...]
More champagne please ...

Welcome to all the newbies

Whitney, Too bloody right! Dance, make music, do some art. My kids are fortunate enough to enjoy all of those things, and I would'nt have it any other way.
Give the opportunity, I probably would have gone into medicine. I think I'd like to help people in some way, although I do of course realise that there are many different ways to help people. Take Paul for example, he helps fill peoples' hearts with joy and excitement, but of course he has talent for it.
Engineering is just something I did because it was the only reasonable option acessible at the time. It allowed me to earn an income and study at the same time. And I did have to take the long road, but hey, I got there.
Talk about synchronicity! This morning the head of our kids' school asked me if I'd like to coach the kids for cross-country running (I've had some experience). Immediately my self-usefulness perception rating burst through the roof!
Incidentally Whitney, how is your fitness programme progressing?

Michelle, You're a gem. Yep, red pants AND short hair! We shouldn't forget those things which serve to make us what we are. Thanks for the reminder.

(Nearly) Dr Evelyn,
Holy pistol grips, that's one heck of a field of expertise! I'm so very glad you've enjoyed the ceremony experience and it's incredibly special that your Mum could be there! I am genuinely envious.
Watch out for those self-absorbed people. At least they're easy to spot. They're the ones that don't apparently have a head (it's planted in there rear end. The term "recto-cranial inversion" just came to mind.)
Again, congratulations, congratulations, congratulations....

Tim, Good to hear you're moving forward and up. Keep the momentum, if at all possible. Good on you.

Doctor Eve, Doc, Dr. Meyer, Dr. Evie, no matter how you say it, it sounds good!!! Great going kiddo!!! and as pete sez, ignore those with the rectal-cranial inversion!! pete, you have a flair with the words!!! I like it...

and timmer, what can i say - will you be my brother? viagra to the groom-and a virgin at that!!! christ, can't quit laughing...

later all...

I wish it wasn't the reason for me to put my one and only post, but I am still upset about what Paul said to God a long time ago. I am highly surprised that someone who reminds everyone to be loving and respectful to others all the time, and he himself does so to every person on this board, doesn't even feel bad about those words. It is not that God Himself or our Christianity is "damaged" by that, but isn't it sooo obvious that the creator and the ruler of this universe is worth all the respect and love and obedience we can imagine? no one can force another for any belief but whatever sense of faith one has, no one has the right to say those words when things in this life get ugly. it is so sad and offending especially when you hear it from someone whom you have been enjoying his films and wishing the best for...

i used to think all the good things when watching Strictly, but now all those words mixed up bitterness into my "good feelings" which were intended to be left after seeing that film :(

"It is not the feeling of regret that restricts you freedom and uniqueness, but the fear and shame of admitting it..."

I hadn't realised there was a whole new post! tee hee...my brain is made of candyfloss!
I hope you are all very very well! ooo I went to see measure for measure...It was very very good, and as I walked out of the theatre Ralph Fiennes was standing there! *swoon*

Speak to you all very soon!
Love and hugs,
Hannah*
xxxxxx

Oh and Congrats Evelyn!!! *hugs*

Grandma Mil...I'm up to the part in P&P where Lizzie realises she loves Darcy...I love it!

Love and hugs
Hannah* V Bagana
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Dost, I have no regrets in my life. My relationship with God - what ever you concieve him or her to be is mine. I mean no offence to you,or your idea of god nor do I try to tell you how you should live. If you can not enjoy my films for what they stand for because I have spoken of my own relationship with god or others or myself then that is a decision you may make. I have no doubt god still watches my films, as indeed he or she still speaks to me - god is bigger than to get upset because I expressed my feelings out load.

If you restrict yourself by the views held by others then you are not being who you are nor who God intended you to be. But then that is only my view.

Doctor Evelyn, CONGRATS!! I am so Proud and SO happy for you. I guess I will have to stop stirring you about your beer wasting habits!! No doubt none has gone to waste in celebration. I lift my glass to you!!

Hi Paul!

*lifts glass* To Dr Evelyn!

Hehe.

xxx

Peter...self-usefullness rising? Of course! I want you to know how so many of us relish your insights and commentaries.

Obviously, your children are terrific because you and your wife are so nurturing and involved in their activities.

Those cross country racing kids are so fortunate to have you as their coach!

I want you and Paul to know that I have become an Australian addict! Yes, the moment I hear about anything pertaining to Australia, my senses become keener, and my heart starts to race..is Dr. Evelyn around? I guess she would say I have a bad case of Strictly Ballroom-itis.

For instance, yesterday the Australian Prime Minister, John Howard and wife, went to Camp David with Pres. Bush for the weekend..I was enthralled...then, at the movies, we saw the coming events of a movie with Guy Pearce and Rachel Griffiths, and I screamed out, "look, Ellie, it's an Aussie movie!!!...(it looked lousy, however..wouldn't spend a dime to see it..)

Then, there are the sweet Aussie expressions you use, like "flat like a lizard" "crickey and jingoes" and "recto-cranial"....so unique!

Stay as as sweet as you are.

Cheers and love,

Grandmum Mil

Dear dost. I confess that I too was surprised when I read that post some time ago. After much thought, I realized that I was only seeing a segment of an ongoing conversation and it was the "words" that initially disturbed me: words that I've been conditioned to avoid by a very dogmatic belief system. You probably won't see those words used often on Paul's Corner, but sometimes they best express a person's feelings no matter who they're speaking to. Personaly, I find Paul's struggle universal and admirable and if he needs to give God a verbal kick in the cosmic booty from time to time, that's what he needs to do. At least he acknowledges the possibility of God's presence and even takes his worries to God. We can't all be Job! I have to agree with Paul in saying that I think God can handle his occassional break with "protocal" and would welcome a conversation with anyone feeling a strong need to rant. Often life is just so frustrating that we must cry out; we vent. It's better than some of the alternatives. You've read many of the previous threads because you're aware of the kindness, love and respect with which Paul treats everyone. I think there's no "shame" in expressing oneself, especially to an entity as loving as God, no matter what the language. Try not to get hung up on the words as I initially did and please don't let the fact that Paul is genuine on both good and bad days affect your appreciation for his character in SB and others. That he is so much like the young man he played in that movie is a miracle in itself. After all, he's a real person, with real situations, in a real life. And I'm not sure I understand your partial quote "It is not the feeling of regret that restricts your freedom and uniqueness, but the fear and shame of admitting it..." I don't think anyone could accuse Paul of not admitting or embracing his freedom and uniqueness out of fear or shame. Are you encouraging him to regret doing so because he used language you've been conditioned to find offensive? Having said all this, I hope you won't make your first post, your last. Welcome to Paul's Corner.

Peter, I envy your engineering knowledge. You could make some great sculpture with what you know. And how cool: the cross-country coach! Helping people learn that they can exceed their expectations is a valuable gift and I think distance running is a great way to do that.

I'm so glad to read that graduation was even better than I described it Evelyn. It's so weird the way the ceremony effects one. I'm glad you did it and so glad your mum was there too. I can just imagine how proud she is! It's unfortunate this other instructor is making you pay for her slacker practices, but something good will come of it even so. Just smile, smile, smile.

Layla, go with Mil and Tim's advice if you aren't sure this is a tasteful film. Besides when you're at the top you might get an opportunity to do something in which nudity is used for genuine artistic purposes and then you can hit them up for the big bucks if you choose to do it.

Well good morning dear Mil! We're so lucky to have you in Paul's Corner. You keep us balanced (me at least). I hope you have a wonderful day.

I apologize for making this such a long post. I've just been so busy lately and I want to catch up as much as possible. Everyone, have a great weekend! I would list every name, but this post would get even longer!!!!!!
Dog out!!!!
Love,
Whit

Grandma Mil In!!!

Whitney, you rock!

I didn't get to the gym today, because Ellie had to use the car. However, I wheeled my little indoor bike out of the closet, and did almost 20 minutes in front of the TV and then worked with my 3 lb weights for 5 minutes more.

I like the gym, however, even though I am worn out! Hey, do you kids think it is easy for an old lady who's definitely out of shape? (to put it mildly) I hope that by Follies 2005 there will be a new me, and that Whit and Evelyn (congrats again) will have to change the pictures on the website.

Timbo, hope your nephew's wedding was nice..your concern for you nephew was touching...I hope he survived his wedding night!!!

Love,

Grandma Mil

Hi to the PC! Lifting 2nd cuppa Jo and virtual glass of bubbly (hiccuph!) to our dear Dr. Eve!!

Hi to Mercedes. I went to school with a girl named Mercedes. I always loved her name too!
Beautiful... Nice car line too. Heheheheheh. :) hugz to you dear.

Hi Whitney! I'm doing great. Im house/doggie sitting for my sister and bro-in-law for 10 days. They're in Maui. *sigh* I'll go next year.
Meanwhile...Goosey, the blonde girl pitbull who is a little lickyloo (bathes me in tongue all time!!) and the boy dog, Reggie (black lab), dumb but adorable..LOL are loving my company. I am their favorite auntie and babysitter. LOL.
I'm probably going to put on my inline skates later this afternoon and take them for walkies. *grinn* I like to do this with them because it runs them and I can keep up and they can keep up with me..and after a few laps around the little park (ok it's a cemetary..LOL) nearby..they get worn out and I can control them better. Everyone goes here to jog, walk, blade, bike...it's not morbid...LOL no headstones, just grass and flat plaques..It's really a park like setting. LOL but I only go in daytime..LOLOLOLOL hee hee

Hannah: Ralph Fienes!! OMG!!!! wowowowowoow
I love him! Lucky girl. Yes, major swoonage!
Tee hee. Glad you liked the play.

BTW: Anyone seen X2? sequel to XMen yet? *grinn*

Hugz from yer resident caffeine addict
and supplier,

Love from Latteland,
:) Katalina

Hi Momma!!!! I wanted to say hi to you today!
Great for you on that indoor bike!
I'm going up a level today! From level 8 to 9 or something like that!

hey WE ROCK!!!!!!
LOL

I'm still at 25 minutes tho...cannot seem to push it up past that yet...maybe today is the day. But I mix it up with other things too like weights with aerobics, Tai Bo, Pilates mat work, Ballet exercise stuff, yoga...soooo I do get a good workout in.

I think there may be many of us here who are morphing into New Me's...maybe we can have a little get together one of these years - maybe in Australia and see some before/afters...LOL
Tee hee.

Hugz today and Go for it on that bike!!!
You go girl!!! you go Gramma/Momma!!!!

*grinz*
your Katalina

Katerina, Mine,

Love your letters, although I was not an informed Internet slang user..(you know, LOL, and all that stuff) until now!

I went into Google, and found a treasure trove!

BBFN Bye Bye For Now
BYKT But You Knew That
CMIIW Correct Me If I'm Wrong
GBU God Bless You
AAMOF As A Matter Of Fact
EOL End Of Lecture
IOW In Other Words
MHOTY My Hat's Off To You
MGB May God Bless
ROTF Rolling On The Floor
ROTFL Rolling On The Floor Laughing
ROTFLMAO Rolling On The Floor Laughing My Arse Off

Such finesse, such succinct phrases, delicately
shortened!

Your letters? AAMOF I am ROTFLMAO, so MGB and
LOL!

Love,

GrandMomma Mil

KATALINA, KATALINA, KATALINA excuse me for misspelling your beautiful name in my last post.

BYKT so please forgive me..FYI, it must have been a senior moment! :(

Love ya,

Grandmomma Mil

Momma:
YSA: aka: You're So Adorable

ohhhhh
so sweeeeet.
*big grinz*

thx

just so ya know.
I use ROTFLMAO
QUITE a bit.

BUKT
i imagine.
*grinn*

Hugz,
ur Kat

Paul, thank you for your reply, honestly speaking I was not expecting that...I think I have to express myself better. Strictly Ballroom is being a huge motivation for me for the last few weeks which is a time that I have to make big decisions about life. I am watching it over and over and I just can't help myself! it may be hard to believe but that movie helps me to get more brave about life nowadays. and of course I keep praying all the time. anyway, mine was a quite friendly reaction after seing an "improper" behavior of someone I admire. I know SB was a long time ago and you have your own struggles and I don't mean to bother by lecturing but I wish you had different views on those issues. anyway, your dance and acting is deeply moving. You have a beautiful family and I wish that everything turns out to be a lot more beautiful for you all. I understand how hard life can get and hope that the Lord will help you thorough and strengthen you faith, because He is the only way to the good, I believe. by the way it is really hard to believe to be writing to the real person who played Scott!

Whitney, thanks to you too. I mostly agree with you...I just think that getting mad at God does make things worse and personally i can't get that mad to the ones who love me unconditionally. that was what I've been trying to remind.

i wish all the best for everyone, take care...

Good Morning, Good Afternoon, Good Evening All:

I hope everyone is well. Congrats to Dr. Eve- though I don't know you -it is quite a wonderful accomplishment you've achieved.

Grandma Mil you are so thoughtful to share your opinions and beliefs with me- thank you!!! For the record I do indeed still have one Grandma left in my life- who I truly cherish- unfortunately she is 101 years old- she could easily be your momma, and she has survived with Parkinsons for 30 years. She doesn't know me anymore - can barely hear, speak or communicate. Most of her day is spent sleeping. The last five years have been tough. But your outspoken response- in only the way a Grandma can do it captured the salience of my Grandma's spirit- I will be eternally grateful.

Peter- I think that providing a wonderful life filled with rich and loving experiences for your children is the most noble and creative endeavour of all time!!! Plus to be really good at it you must not be self indulgent- which many professionals haven't always mastered. I hope someday to rise to the occassion and have kids of my own- I think the personal sacrifice is replaced by love and the intrinsic value of caring and responsibility.

Tim- I'm sorry to hear that life is so rough. No I was not aware of EA. I think it is great that it exists and that you fight the good fight- as difficult as it may get. AS we say in my MFA program- What doesn't kill us makes for better ART- Thank you for your advice about the cyber images- i hadn't considered that !!

Just to clarify the situation- the film makers are people i know well. It is not gratuitious nudity-non sexual- but is quite germaine to the role. I think my struggle lies in the fact that when you take on the role of a character you embrace their soul, in such a way that your own can still be left intact. We don't physically see one's soul we illustrate it. However when acting in the nude I was wondering how one loses sight of the fact that it is their body being seen. You can't transform your physicality in the same way you can create the illusion of another spirit. Paul if you have any insight i would greatly appreciate it. I was also wondering if you think a double standard exists between female and male nudity?

Sorry if my gushing over you- was embarassing- it just had to be said.

Well folks hope your days/nights go well.

I'm off to work on my thesis-
Regards to all,
Layla

Good morning Momma Mil! It was so nice to get a personal messge from you this morning. I'm very happy and inspired by your continued weight loss!!!

In order to avoid feeling overwhelmed by the number of posts I haven't read, I usually start at the bottom and work my way up.

Dost, I'm glad you came back. And I'm especially happy that you were able to overcome your initial reaction and continue to not only enjoy Paul's work, but really benefit through it. You know you can always take your "struggles" to God, but remember God often works through others. We listen in The Corner if you ever want to vent or get an outside perspective. Paul and the Corner attract a loving, intelligent group of all ages and religious beliefs. I hope you continue to come to the Corner.

Katalina!!! You sound like you're getting a great work out! It really inspires me when I read about other people exercising. I've been slacking, but I'll be back at it soon. I can't stop for long, but I need an occassional break. I used to ride my bike with Worthy, but as he got older he began to chase things and as I was attached by his lead, he almost wiped me out a few times. Now if we ride, we go to the hills where I can turn him loose. little lickyloo? You are a true dog enthusiast! Oh, before I forget, I saw X2 yesterday and enoyed it. It's no SB, but it flowed well and had tons of cool special effects. I recommend it, but beware: it's 2.5 hours long!!!

Tim, I think that was a thoughtful and original wedding gift for your nephew and his bride. It doesn't get muchmore appropriate.

My favorite show is over and I've made the doggy wait long enough, but I want to say hey to those of you I haven't addressed in this post: Evelyn, Michelle/Chicago, Michelle, bluedog, Innussiq, Greg, nicole, Linda, Dhiana, Diana, Peter, Susan, Sherlyn, Hannah, Layla, Mercedes, Eileen, Lisa, Jaecee, Mary Ellen, Jenny. Cynthia, Robee and as always, dear Paul and his posse of gals, as well as anyone I've forgotten or who's MIA. Come back! We miss you!
Dog out!!
Love,
Whit

Before I forget. I was looking for info on hunky Hugh Jackman becasue I just saw X2 (I know: he's married) and I stumbled onto a site called Aussiewood. "Where was Paul's picture?" I asked. Cat, is there anything we can do to make this site complete with the inclusion of our Paul? Here's the address: http://www.mook-e.com/gallery.htm
Whit

Singing is good stuff! Might explain why karaoke is so popular.
Born to be wild-perfect motorcycle song, for sure.
Dost, just want to mention that those who give unconditional love will love you anyway by definition, and therefore can take the heat, so to speak.
Okay, confession time:
Paul, I watched The First 9 1/2 Weeks last night for first time.
I made some popcorn before the, uh, stable scenes, and let's just say the popcorn cooled off while I warmed up. ;)
I won't say much more for those who haven't seen it, except that you were looking very good, and though I was expecting some sort of twist at the end, I didn't see that one coming.
Now I need to find a copy of Joseph...
hugs and smiles, all,
Sally

Momma Mil: You're so gracious, but far too flattering. Thanks just the same.

Whitney: I'm a project manager/electrical engineer. My knowledge of material science and metallurgy is limited at best.

Layla: Yep, can't agree more - what better contribution can one make in life than that of children's future.
It's not always easy, but it's never a chore, given that the rewards are so great.
I take great joy in it. It's also very personal for me, my way of telling the Universe that this is how it SHOULD be done.

Cheers all. Monday morning and back to work!
Peter

Sculpture can use electronics too Peter. In fact the art world get's increasingly electric. I like to design sculpture that works as a light also. I'll bet you could make one heck of a lamp!

Sally, so Paul was in 9.5 weeks? I heard that was a very hot movie. Why didn't I hear he was in it? He must be the best kept secret in Australia. I take it I'm gonna' blush if I watch it. I may have to skip that one. I don't want to lust after a married man if I can avoid it and I'm no super hero.

Things to do; dog to walk.
Good night Momma Mil and All
Good morning Peter and Paul.
Love,
Whit

Dear Layla,

I was genuinely touched by your response to my grandmotherly thoughts.

I thank you for accepting my ideas in the way in which I presented them..with great concern for a young woman who could easily be one of my own grandchildren!

I am sorry that your dear grandmother was given many years, but cannot now enjoy the blessings of a long and productive life.

In the years that I matured and married, the films we loved were extremely romantic with great stars.

I just sent our Hannah in England two such films,
"Pride and Prejudice" (1940) and "Interrupted Melody." (1955)

These are two my all time favorites, and hers too now!

Hannah has written me excitedly how much she loves them both, and she is only 18 years old!

"Interrupted Melody" is the inspiring story of the Austalian soprano, Marjorie Lawrence, (1907-1979) who, at the height of her career at the Metropolitan Opera, contacts polio, and has to fight for her life and her career. It is full of great opera arias, and the part of Marjorie is played (and lipsyned) by Eleanor Parker. I told Hannah that it was a 3 hanky picture, and she agreed! It too, was very romantic, and unforgetable because it was true!

"Casablanca", for instance, after over 61 years, is watched today by new generations of film goers. No nudity, no explicit sex necessary...just a stirring and unforgetable love story, well written, and produced, with one of the most beautiful film scores in film history by Max Steiner.

Rick and Elsa have an affair in Paris, and we can feel the vibes, but no nudity needed!

"Gone With The Wind"...still shown on TV on special occasions. In 1939 it was bold for Rhett to carry Scarlett up the long staircase into the darkness...no nudity needed...just imagination..and another magnificent film score by Max Steiner.

My point: Why nudity in film? I feel it is exploitation, and a double standard does exist.

I did not appreciate "Monster's Ball" where gorgeous Halle Barry exposes all, and Bill Bob Thornton does not have to reciprocate! Groucho Marx once said, "If I want to see nudity, I can look in the mirror!" Right on, Groucho!

Just recently, in "About Schmidt", Kathy Bates, for a second, bears her chest in a hot tub..it was supposed to be funny, but it was very crude and uncalled for...Jack Nicholson was also in the tub, and he was not asked to bare his privates...and who would want to see that anyway?

I believe that Bates was to later regret that scene. It was demeaning to women, especially to older women, who by the way, could say to themselves, "thank God, I look better than that!", but the younger ones would say, " eww, I don't want to get older!"

"Strictly Ballroom" is a good case in point..a classic movie, with a love story told through dance, beautifully and memorably done...two kisses shared by two beautiful people and everyone keeps his/her clothes on! (Actually, Tara Morice appeared in that same print dress over and over..it was intentional, but at least she kept it on!)

Layla, I hope I made my point, and I appeciate your "listening." I wish you only the best, as any loving grannie would!

Love,

Grandma Mil

Hi Whit!! Dogs out LOL
My two charges, Goosey and Reggie are thoroughly enjoying themselves with me as babysitter.
It's fun.
I am a dog enthusiast, but since I am in an apt., I settled for a cat. He's pretty cool.
But he acts like he doesn't need me. LOL
He's the superior one!!!! I am HIS, but not the other way around, he lets me know. LOL

Hope all here at the PC had a lovely weekend.

Hugz from latteland.
And yes...it's raining again.
A lovely misty gentle rain....It's pretty.

Katalina

I loved the two movie suggestions made by Momma Mil. Fantastic. I will be renting these soon.
I did like the version of Pride and Prejudice with - was it Colin Firth?
Wow...i loved it.
I must see the older version, however.

I agree with Momma on the nudity issues.
Totally! There is a double standard there. However, I also agree that the hint or allusions (i.e. the Rhett/Scarlet staircase, etc.) are even stronger, more powerful to the imagination.
I think this works best. It's more memorable, at least that's my opinion.

Hugz,
Katalina

Evelyn...Major kudos to you!! Outstanding work! And we all know how tough that work was. We should throw you a virtual graduation party in the Corner!

I haven't checked the Corner in a few days, but I find people are stilling singing and watching great film. Diane...I am glad you also like Harry Connick, Jr. His voice is so soothing.

A pleasant evening to all, Linda

Another day another 25 posts.

Before I forget. Congrats Evelyn. I don't think I said that before but I surely meant it. That takes much personal effort and perseverance.

To Dost: I'm probably the one here with the most sailor like mouth. A trait my wife chides me for constantly and it's an innate rebellion against the strict bylaws and legalistic views of the church I grew up in. I believe that a super power put us here on earth, but still trying to figure out why. I don't the find earths nor mans conditions amusing so how could it?
Speaking of, I had a bad week guys. Another meltdown on Thursday. I don't know quite what I'm going to do. Postive thoughts are welcome. Yesterday at the wedding I was at another low. I told my wife I didn't want to go..just knew I wasn't in the frame to deal with it. Well you can imagine that didn't go over. Well to make it short. I had to do my mother in laws hair in the morning, my wifes hair, go by my old salon to pick up a letter of rec and separation notice (they didn't do the rec which will impede the London thing), then we had to travel the complete other side of Atlanta plus 30 miles outside of it. Total country and totally what one would expect when they hear of Georgia. OMG, rednecks out the butt. I had to then dress the 3 boys and myself, b/c my wife's family catered the food. This father didn't pay anything. So I'm hot, flustered and a bit anxious. Didn't have any xanax, couldn't find a place to smoke. Standing outside trying to cool off and my neice comes storming out of the place (a country club) screaming at me to take my daughter she's my kid and she throws her at me. You guys...I didn't take that well. What ensued was not pretty and not acceptable I misbehaved badly I totally lost it. I followed her back in yelling at her calling her a bitch and then got up stairs and she just looked at me and I slapped her arm and lit into her about never tossing my baby like a basketball and that I had no idea where she was or anything else and she could go to hell..blah blah blah..My mother inlaw grabs me and starts escorting me downstairs...I get outside I'm venting to my nephew about his bitch sister and then the bride to be's father yells down from the upper deck and tells me to leave. Yep..I'm a loser. I went to the car, my wife came and retrieved the baby. I left and went to a movie..Identity(don't go see it). Picked up my wife much later. Apologized profusely to my nephew..he was ok and today I apologized for my inexusable behavior to my niece, although it was provoked. My life is a living hell. Some days I hate a good day to come along cause sure as it does boy I better just get down on the floor under a desk because a tornado is coming.
Vented...Now you know more about sick Timmer.
If you ever see me stop posting you'll know why.

I'm tired...I worked in the yard some today. Still haven't gotten our pool cleared up. What a pain in the arse.

Hannah congrats on your celebrity encounter (ce). What was he doing all the way out your way..you said you were like 200 miles or so from London right? Is it a popular spot? You know I'm not from there...so how would I know???

Don't remember who asked, but I saw Paul in The 1st 9 1/2 weeks. The key to it is "The 1st." 9 1/2 weeks with Mickey Rourke was a different one. And Paul did do some steamy work in this particular production. It was a great movie it had a twist at the end that totally blew me away, but since that movie they made another one with Michael Douglas of the same genre..I think it was called "The Game." Paul's was better and first.

If you haven't seen it...take the time to search it out and watch it. Great.

How wonderful..it looks as though it will rain outside...Yippee...

I filled out an application for Extreme Makeovers...LOL...probably won't get it, but what the hell huh? anybody seen the show, it's after the Bachelor on Wednesdays. That's what I need. A most significant makeover..I wish they could do a mental transplant.

Love to all my mates here at PC
Couldn't take a day with out ya.

The timmer man

Gosh Tim! Poor guy! I can't even guess what caused your niece to behave that way. Don't worry you can vent without giving us every detail. I'm just glad you got through it. Your wife should have let you stay home!! I'll have to look for that film now that I know it isn't the Mickey Rourke one. I got the impression it was just down right nasty. Thanks for the tip on Identity.

Katalina, that's why I'm not a cat person. I need a pet that needs me. I have enough apathy in my life. I may have a cat someday. Some of them are cuddly. I'm happy with my sweet Worthy dog for now.

I got an email from Evelyn. She's working her tail off and she asked me to say hi to everyone. She hopes to be back soon. She misses the corner.

Well, this is probably good night, but you never know. I may visit again before I sleep.
Whit

Hey, Whitney, I see Timbo got ya straight on the 9+ weeks diff.
I read the book the Mickey Rourke film was based on, and the plus in that film for me was Joe Cocker's "You Can Leave Your Hat On."
Not sure of the relevance of the title in Paul's film with its content, but Paul is excellent. Not to mention flaming hot. If you don't mind me saying so, Paul.
Malcolm McDowell is always a trip,too. Ever see him in the remake of Cat People? Truly twisted.
The end is a surprise, but the very end kind of made me think. Hate to reveal more.
I found my copy online . . .same with SB vid, then dvd.
Hope everyone has a good week!
Still singing,
Sally

Talkin' music: does anyone remember Steve Winwood's "While you see a chance"...?
I also like Gerry Rafferty's "Baker Street" from around the same era.

Tim, I hope this week is an improvement.

Grandma- if I may be so familiar- you ROCK!!! and you have awesome taste in movies.

Tim- I know that you are having what seems to be a really awful time- but don't beat up on yourself for your authentic responses to situations that upset you. I'm sure that there must have been quite a bit of provocation to make you react that way. Remember you didn't just SNAP without being instigated to do so. You seem like a very sensitive soul-try to surround yourself with people who can recognize and appreciate that fine quality. Unfortunately family members aren't always the ones who can do the job.

I know that there are times when I want a makeover- but it is usually because i am in need of some psychic nuturing. I hope your tomorrow goes better than your today.

As for the 9 1/2 weeks movies- they were totally different the original I believe called 91/2 weeks with Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger was suppose to be an erotic thriller-

Pauls' movie was called the 1st 91/2 weeks and it was a bit racey- I don't remember the female lead but I do remember that Malcolm McDowell was in the movie and that Paul was having an affair with his wife. It was the second Paul movie that I had ever seen. The first was Exit to Eden- which is a favorite amongst my gal pals and me. Every so often we pop it into the VCR and swoon over him. Of course once I became aware of Baz Lurhman- I checked out his work and there Paul was again- well certainly SB was a keeper.

Anyhow- i would like to send out my best wishes and regards to all of you wonderful folk who I did not personally address in this email. Like Grandma Mil- you ROCK too!!!

Well I'm off to get some beauty sleep- so I can get up at 6 to work out. Hope everyone's week starts off on a great note.

smooches & smushes,
Layla

OK, I'm brave enough to admit it...I used to like disco. Probably a legacy of being in my late teens towards the end of the seventies. OK, laugh then. (Now that's out of your systems, I'll proceed, thank you).
When I first saw "Saturday Night Fever" I was slightly dumbfounded. I'm certain John Travolta stole my haircut.
I could definitely relate to the escapism aspect portrayed - leaving your mundane (industrial) life on the shelf to escape under the all-inspiring mirror ball and strobe lights! It was a magical place where we could be anything we wanted to be, at least until the booze wore off and the lights went on to herald closing time.
Solution: ALWAYS leave before the lights come on.

yep, timmer i think even the nuke guys would call that a meltdown!!! geeze louise, that was a wedding the family won't soon forget and all i can say, wish i'd been there!!! vent away and keep the damn xanax handy!!! honest to god, i hope you're keeping a journal and that there is a screenplay somewhere...

and pete, you're right, had to leave before the lights came on at closing or it would be "coyote ugly" time

later...

Bluedog: Yes, I refrained from refering to the lights as the "ugly lights", though, in your case, I can't imagine that description being in the least bit applicable.

Tim: re-read your last post. No man, you're NOT a bloody loser. Just too many people with biased, unrealistic and untimely expectations.
Sometimes we just find ourselves in the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong people doing the wrong thing.
It just happens, and it's definitely not you're doing. Forget it. If you were a loser you would not have shared it with us. Instead, your a concerned person, so you CANNOT be a loser!
I hope today is a better one.

Peter

Good morning dear Millie!

Peter I agree, Tim is in no way a loser though people close to him are trying to convnce him so. I think they're the ones with the biggest problems. Oh, and I confess I loved Donna Summer and some other disco music. Pop music sort of went from motown to disco in a seamless transition. Besides, I love to dance after I've had a few beers.

Hey bluedog. I confer on keeping the xanex handy and journaling is good too. I guess this is sort of Tim's journal.

Layla, thanks for clarifying that title. I thought it was still called 9.5 weeks, just the first one of the same title. I would have never found it. 6a to work out? You're truly dedicated! I'm going to work out today and get back into my routine. It's good advice to surround oneself with kind and supportive folks. I wish I could have that too, but it's easier said than done.

Hey Sally. I appreciate your info too. Thanks for the review. I wouldn't want to miss a film with Paul in it because of confusion over the contents.

Worthy says he has to goooooooo! So it's Dog Out!
Love,
Whit

Hey Timbo: hang in there man! ((((Big Hugz))))
I'm with Peter and bluedog...you're a concerned uncle, a caring and loving person. Your niece's behaviour sucked IMHO!
Don't stay under that desk too long. LOL
But I'm sure all of us can relate to that one every so often. (when's that tornado coming?)
Yikes! That's for sure.

Well u can always come to the PC and change that elemental tornado/hurricane into a smooth gentle breeze that will relax you and soothe the soul with your buddies here online.

BTW: a little saltiness never hurt...sometimes it can add a little flavor and punch for effect! (and humor)

Hugz to Tim ("salt of the Earth" and a beautiful soul),
Katalina

My life is once again a whirlwind. My In-laws came out for a brief visit after I finished a hectic 3 weeks at work. Next Sunday is Mothers Day, so the shop will be in total turmoil all week and we'll be working long days. Argggh! At least I only have to put in another 6 or 7 days there. (I gave notice last week.) Don't know what I'm going to do for income next; but I know that I can't put up with the dishonesty, price gouging, disrespect and poor business practices.

Peter, I remember dancing to disco. One of my roommates was a cocktail waitress, so I would go with friends to the lounge she worked in and dance to disco. I could wear heels then and not wince in pain. Even bought my husband disco pants one time. Uggh, what WAS I thinking?!

Evelyn, I'm so proud of you and happy for you. You'll get past that woman whose causing you trouble right now. Just hang in there.

Tim, I agree with the others. You warned your wife, but she wouldn't listen. If somebody did that with my son, she wouldn't have made it back up the stairs.

I spoke with my friend (86 years old) in Florida this morning. He's failing physically and was hospitalized after trying to commit suicide. I talked with his attorney and I'm monitoring the situation. It's a bitch to be 3000 miles away when someone needs you.

Goodnight to all!

Hi everyone,

Tim I am sorry for what happened with your family but I don't think you were wrong in getting mad at all. of course it would have been better if you could keep calm but hey, you are human. and what you did is not the same with what I mentioned in my earlier posts. in fact, it is not even comparable. we all get upset about life and tend to question God from time to time, but it is wrong. the case with other human beings, we are all equal and should get and show the same amount of respect no matter who we are. don't you think so?

Music on the way to work - during work - & on the way home from work is a must for me. It kick starts my night & gets me in a good mood before I deal with my students [I'm a tutor]. I have caught myself singing on the bus a couple times when the bus was almost empty & its always fun when you look sideways & find the guy in the car next to you is singing the same tune from the radio.

Music is a huge part of everyday & I love discovering new music. Of late I've been enjoying Jill Scott, India Arie, Kate Bush, Ivy & David Gray [whose concert over the weekend here was excellent].

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