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Monday, 19 September
Love and Health

GrandMa Mil, Peter said it well when he demanded you get better and I second the motion. If I was nearby I would pop over(I would bring Peter with me in his finest suit - you know which one)and bring with us some chicken soup and some hugs but as I am not I will just send lots of love and health giving positive thoughts!!

I and the girls are thinking of you.



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Dearest Millie,

As Paul said, please get well soon. Chicken soup cures everything, doesn't it? And although I'm not a great cook (I'll bet some of Paul's cooking would cheer you up big time), I'll be following Paul and Peter over to your house with lox and bagels...

Take care and know we all love you and miss you here at the Corner.

Sally C.

Posted by: Sally C. on September 19, 2005 06:35 PMfrom IP: 207.239.14.37

I would be a party at your house, because I'd be over too to help cheer you and get you better. What would I bring? Since I don't cook I'd bring tea!

((((hugs)))) rest, relax and get better.

Jill

Posted by: Jill on September 19, 2005 07:33 PMfrom IP: 68.187.148.218

Dearest Paul,

I haven't laughed much in the past week, but this morning, on reading your newest thread and the other comments, I almost let out a screech of joy...didn't someone say "laughter is the best medicine"?

I am improving each day, but haven't ventured outside yet. My aide, Ann-Marie, is taking good care of me, and I can forgive the fact that she is Jamaican and I can barely understand her, but what the heck, she's very efficient, and we get along fine.

Chicken soup, bagels and lox, visitations from my
dear Aussies, all will definitely contribute to my recovery!

(In lieu of chicken soup, last night Ellie ordered dinner brought in...A Papa John cheese pizza!! (I ate two slices, Ellie finished the rest and he said, "it was soooo good.")

Mary told me that she would have her class in Ireland say prayers for me, and with all the good will, outpouring of love from everyone on PC, I can only improve. How fortunate I feel!

To Jill, Michelle #3 and #1, Evelyn, Peter, Mary,
Susan L-K, Sally C., Tea, Linda, Juliet S., Monika, Deltalady, Whitney, Julie, Paul and his girls, I say I love you, and thank you for making my day!

Shalom and Love,

Gran Mil

Posted by: Grandma Mil on September 19, 2005 09:12 PMfrom IP: 4.234.135.191

Dear Grandma Mil,

Your plight brought me to do something I haven’t done in a long time. I donated blood to the Red Cross. (I’m 0+, very popular blood type… they love me.) Hearing that you needed a blood transfusion and required 4 pints of blood reminded me of the need for the Red Cross’ blood supply to be ready to help special people like you. Thanks for getting me back on track and donating as often as they let me.

Love, Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on September 19, 2005 10:41 PMfrom IP: 66.52.193.168

Dearest Millie,

I was so happy to see your post just now!! It's wonderful to hear that you are continuing to feel better.

Wow! This is going to be some get-together in your place...

Ok, let's see...Paul & Peter (in all his finery) are bringing chicken soup, Sally the bagels and lox, Jill is looking after the tea...

How about if I bring some music for you to relax to? Would some Cole Porter be to your liking? If not, let me know. Your wish is my command!

You're in my thoughts over here, dear Millie. Continued healing wishes to you. Although we can't all be with you in person, know for sure that we are with you in spirit. You can't get any closer than that.

With love,
Mary

Posted by: Mary on September 20, 2005 01:09 AMfrom IP: 83.71.71.201

MY DEAR MILLIE,

This is the first that I've read about your holiday in the hospital!! It sounds like you're on your way to getting your groove back!!

Please do take care of yourself-Paul's Corner is simply not the same without your wisdom and humor.

HUGS!
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on September 20, 2005 01:23 AMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Dearest Grandma,

I am so happy to read that you are improving !!

So if Paul and Peter are bringing the soup, Sally the bagels and lox, if Jill is looking after the tea and if Mary is bringing you some music, then I will bring you your favorite flowers...roses...

Take good care of yourself !

love to you,
Monika

Posted by: Monika on September 20, 2005 02:23 AMfrom IP: 81.206.125.3

Dearest Grandma,
hmm, what could I bring with all the things already on the menu? My video camera? I could be taping it all!!! Okay, bad joke and only FIFers might get that one and besides not the right occasion. ... Although, if we all came crashing your house again including Paul and Peter in all their purle finery and turned it into a party--something you know by now that we are completely capable off--that would be well worth documenting :-) Okay, desert it is.
Continued good health to you and I'm already sensing your spirits perking up, which always helps the healing process!!!
Love to you all!
Evelyn

Posted by: Evelyn on September 20, 2005 03:14 AMfrom IP: 134.29.30.175

Dear Millie,

I'm very relieved to hear that you're on the mend.
That must have been a very anxious time for both you and Ellie.
Four pints of blood is rather serious.

You are blessed to have have your champion, Ellie, by your side to help you through this.
What better company could you ask for?

I'm sending you oodles of healing wishes and I hope that your recovery is a rapid and complete one.

Much love to you, most gracious lady.

Peter

Posted by: Peter on September 20, 2005 04:29 AMfrom IP: 203.220.105.138

Hello All,

This morning I stopped by to see Millie and give her my best wishes for a speedy recover. She looks as beautiful as she always does and we had a great hour talking about life, the corner and her group the Wynmoor Entertainers.

It's a amazing when you walk into her den and see all the tapes she has conglomerated for her Sights and Sounds. She was even back to work watching a movie on the Turner Classic Movie chanel to see if there were any clips she could use for one of her Sights and Sounds presentations.And of course I love it every time I walk into the den to see the movie posters of Clark Gable, Vivian Lee and the most controversial movie poster, Splendor in the Grass which has a warning if I remember it read that no viewer under 18 was allowed to go see. When I walk in that room its magic, the magic you get from movies, the places and the stories that move the spirit and sends its reader to the world of happy endings.

I always learn something from Millie when I go see her. And this time I learned how important it is to stay connected to people, to see the beauty in everyone we meet, and to keep the heart and soul moving after each obstacle we encounter in life. And to beleive that we can still find magic in our own lives.

Thank you Millie for sharing all that you are,

Take Care All,

Julie

Posted by: Julie on September 20, 2005 04:34 AMfrom IP: 65.10.211.246

Darling Millie...Add my grand delight to those in the Corner on the progress of your recovery. It was wonderful to talk with you again! You are our inspiration!

Special note to Michelle, Inn, and Jill...Well, I must say I feel rather flat after finishing HP6! It was moving so nicely until the last two chapters. Now we must wonder if Snape is a master spy or has he really been an evil monster all along. Was his action designed as a sleight of hand to give Dumbledore the opportunity to collect and destroy all the horcruxes? Or did he really do the deed? Yikes - way too heavy to think about and this is only fiction!! Maybe I need professional help to put all this in perspective.

Later, Linda

Posted by: Linda Thomas on September 20, 2005 06:50 AMfrom IP: 67.172.80.183

Linda, that is a circle I keep thinking around and around. I've been reading 6 for the second time. I've been going very slow with an eye for clues. I think this was part of a plan..email me if you'd like to discuss.

Love to you again Grandma Millie. I'd come to the party and I will bring the entertainment..me and Squeaky, if Michelle will loan him to me!

Posted by: Inn on September 20, 2005 07:39 AMfrom IP: 24.115.26.221

Linda and Inn - you should go on the some of the HP sites and hear the theories flying around there. Some are WAY out there. I'm just going with Snape being good and it's all part of the plan. I'll find out in 2+ years I guess!

Jill

To all the nonHarry fans on PC, sorry for the talk, we get a little obsessed!

Posted by: Jill on September 20, 2005 07:58 PMfrom IP: 68.187.148.218

Grandma Mil here, reveling in the fact that my
cup runneth over these days...flowers, visiting with our beautiful Julie, and reading all the beautiful postings!

Linda, Inn, and Jill, I was searching my brain for the identification of HP, and could only come up with Hewlett Packard...dumb me, inactivity is not good for deep thinking!

Susan L-K, it was a "mitzvah" (a blessing) that you contributed blood to the Red Cross. It is
contributors like you that save the lives of people like me, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I only found out while being in the hospital that I am type B+. I think most people go through life not really knowing their blood type until an emergency arises, God forbid!

Yesterday afternoon an arrangement of
gorgeous flowers arrived, with the card saying "from your Chickies." I have a feeling that the idea may have originated in Minnesota, or Michigan, or maybe Illinois, Pennsylvania, California, Ireland and Holland, but anyway, I will take a picture of the arrangement and send it on, with thanks and much love!

My first chance to get back to seeing people outside of our apartment is tonight, as my monthly movie will be presented in our multimedia auditorium. Ellie wants me to go, greet my audience, and just sit and watch in the audience next to him. The movie is "Three Coins in the Fountain" (about 1956) part of my personal DVD collection. I hope to try to go and not to chicken out last minute!

Shalom and Love,

Gran Mil


Posted by: Grandma Mil on September 20, 2005 09:03 PMfrom IP: 4.234.117.205

Grandma Mil, I'm flattered that you think the idea originated in MN. Actually it sprung up simultaneously in different parts of the world and then was put into action by a different state. If that state wishes to identify itself, it's up to it :-) But I"m glad you like the flowers and I'm so happy that you are up to going out this evening!!! and do take orders from Ellie and just sit next to him and enjoy yourself! So how are you doing? IN your post today, I'm sensing an evven stronger vibe of your usual happy sense with a slight mischief in it--- I take that as a wonderful sign of your continued good progress of a complete recovery!

HP could stand for Hewlett Packard, but in this case they are discussing Harry Potter :-)

Love, hugs and kisses to you!
Evelyn

Posted by: Evelyn on September 21, 2005 01:15 AMfrom IP: 134.29.30.175

Yes, Millie, it is Harry Potter! Sadly, I am hooked on the books and everything that goes with it! JK Rowling is such a clever woman to create this world! The details of it all are incredible and I marvel at her imagination.

Inn...I will email you for your thoughts on book six.

Glad you are feeling better. Every day a little stronger.

Love, Linda

Posted by: Linda Thomas on September 21, 2005 04:30 AMfrom IP: 134.215.210.182

Millie...I think you should look for a certain California chickie who spearheaded this effort. Linda

Posted by: Linda Thomas on September 21, 2005 07:31 AMfrom IP: 67.172.80.183

Yes it is Harry, I'm just wild about Harry. SO wild in fact, Jill, that I do go on those sites and I have seen some pretty crazy theories. I can only say that it seems out of character for Dumbledore to have been so deceived.
Granma Millie, go to your movie and sit beside your dear Ellie like I'm sure you did many years ago as young people in love.
How are all you people?!?!
Oh,Ev. Yes, I'm getting on track again. I've been sleeping a bit better and had the company of a very good friend to make me smile. Thanks for noticing.
Love to all, Inn

Posted by: Inn on September 21, 2005 07:58 AMfrom IP: 24.115.26.221

Bad day, today. I had to put down my beloved Paint mare, Manndy. She was suffering from arthritis, kidney failure and a bad case of pneumonia that we were struggling to cure. Unfortunately, she stopped eating. It was a hard decision, but she is finally out of pain. Now, if I can only stop crying.

Sue L-K


Posted by: Susan L-K on September 22, 2005 08:44 AMfrom IP: 66.52.195.127

Here's a big hug for you Susan L-K. I'm sorry you had to put a beloved animal down. That must be hard!

Take good care of yourself and allow yourself to cry as much as you need. It helps with the pain and cleanses the soul too!
Love to you,
Evelyn

Posted by: Evelyn on September 22, 2005 11:53 AMfrom IP: 216.114.241.92

Hey all,

I have had a terrible cold lately. MIll I wish you well and good luck recovering !! I know you will be well soon.

My nose is so chaffed and is peeling today.

A peeling nose just in time for a big interview at work today!! I really hope I get the job. I hope they can see past the husky raspy voice and peeling nose and bloodshot eyes and just see a great worker and hire me!!!! I just have to get out of my current department or I will have a breakdown. I am still staying within the bank but just a different department.

Welcome new Mary!!

I suppose I cannot deny who I am in order to become that which I want to be, think I am or want to become. ( nice choi=ce of words, Paul).\

I will just go in as myself and if they like they like me. If they don't, it wasn't meant to be. They are interviewing several people so I am not getting my hopes up. But then, I want to think to myself I am the best one and I am deserving and you are lucky guys if you get me.

Yeh, I like that attitude! Let's just see if I accept them. Not the other way around!

Wish me luck

Kelly

Posted by: kelly on September 22, 2005 10:33 PMfrom IP: 161.150.2.55

Susan,

You did the right thing. Sometimes it takes years to see that. It took me 2 years to stop feeling guilty and bad for putting my beloved dog down. I know now I did the right thing and he is and will always be healthy and happy in heaven. Just like your beloved Mandy.

And remember, they are still with us, we jsut can't see them. They can still see you, though, and hear your voice. (at least i believe they can)

hugs and kisses for you.

Kelly

Posted by: kelly on September 22, 2005 10:36 PMfrom IP: 161.150.2.55

Thank you for all of your well wishes and prayers. I know my dear sweet Manndy is out of pain now. I miss her terribly.

Kelly, you can do it. I interviewed for the best job I ever had with the worst case of flu. Good luck with your interview.

Love, Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on September 23, 2005 03:04 AMfrom IP: 66.52.193.219

Poor Susan,

I dread the day when one of my two dear cats comes to this point in his life. I will suffer terribly. I've had these two guys (brothers) for 13 years and they are truly the only relationship I've had in life that I can say has been virtually perfect! Go figure. It's easier with animals than humans.. :(
Be strong and know that you two shared a great time together.

Posted by: MaryS. on September 23, 2005 06:08 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

oopps. posted this in the wrong place the 1st time...

Thanks for the nice welcome Kelly!

I think your view point about accepting the new potential employer as much as they have to accept you, is great! I think people like to see a person who cares as much for themselves as they care for others around them. This is balance.

You just never know what will be the perfect fit for anybody. We tend to take it personal when we don't fit the bill just right. It's not that easy to keep our feelings out of it and just see it as a business decision. This applies to relationships in general, ya think?

Hey, I need to change up my name here a bit, since there are more than one Mary! : )

Posted by: MaryS. on September 23, 2005 06:12 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

Dear Paul,

Are you the only one who can begin a new post? I wanted to say, and I hope and pray that I am not out of place here, that I know the anniversary of your dear brother's death is approaching. I read an old post of yours where you quote from the Desiderata. This is one of my favorite writings ever! I have it posted in my office cube and I often refer to it. I feel, from what I have learned about you, that you have been learning to go placidly. I hope you are at peace and continued best wishes and luck to you!

You are a wonderful example to all of us here and I am so happy that I found all of you. I feel a very special energy here.

God bless you Paul and our thoughts are with you!

Posted by: MaryS. on September 24, 2005 10:30 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

Well, I thought putting my beloved horse down this week was the worse thing that could have happened… I was wrong. My cousin, Marnie, and her 12 year old son, Andrew, died today in a helicopter crash in Wisconsin. She lived outside of the Twin Cities in Minnesota, but was up at her lake place in Wisconsin. They were going to take a helicopter fly over of their lake and cabin, hit some power lines and crashed right in front of their cabin. She and I grew up together, so in every respect was my sister. Please say a prayer for my cousin Marnie, Andrew and her surviving husband and 4 year old daughter.

Love, Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on September 25, 2005 12:51 PMfrom IP: 66.52.195.119

Dear Sue L-K,
My deepest symathies to you and your family and your cousin’s husband and daughter. What a terrible thing to have happen and to have a chance to say good by properly. I will say prayers for all of you and I hope that in this time of grief, you know that they have moved into a different life-form, but they are still with you, just differently. May you draw strength from the shared memories and from people who surround you with love and comfort.

A big Hug to you!!!
Love Evelyn

Ps. Welcome to you MaryS!

Posted by: Evelyn on September 25, 2005 01:46 PMfrom IP: 69.24.184.102

Dear Susan L-K,

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this very difficult time.

Shalom and love,

Grandma Mil

Posted by: Grandma Mil on September 25, 2005 11:27 PMfrom IP: 4.231.201.253

Susan,

I am so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. I can't imagine what you and your family must be going through.

I send my thoughts and prayers to you all.

Love to you,
Mary

Posted by: Mary on September 26, 2005 03:37 AMfrom IP: 83.70.229.170

Susan L-K I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family.

Jill

Posted by: Jill on September 26, 2005 05:59 AMfrom IP: 68.187.148.218

Thank you everyone. We’re all very numb. I see the newspaper articles and the local Minneapolis television coverage of the crash on the internet, but I still don’t believe it. I think it will take some time.

Thank you for your prayers,

Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on September 26, 2005 12:32 PMfrom IP: 66.52.195.120

Dearet Susan L-K,

You have my deepest sympathy for your losses. Know that the Corner is here for you. Post when you can and please do take care of yourself.

Many hugs to you,
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on September 26, 2005 09:05 PMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Susan,

My love and thoughts go out to you in your time of loss. Your pain is felt because you will miss them. Have faith that they are in the best place they could ever ever ever be and they still love you and can see and be with you whenever they wish. They can not miss you as they are with you always. Close your eyes and feel their precense with you. They are there. They are happy and healthy and at total peace with the world. No pain or worry, only peace, bliss and happiness.
They will love you always and when you close your eyes and peacefully relax, think of a happy time with them.... and you can feel it, you will get a warm sensation.... It is a hug from them.

Embrace the love from them and know that although they can see you everyday.. You will see them again someday, too. They will be waiting to greet you.

All my love and warm thoughts go out to you and your family.

Kelly

Posted by: Kelly on September 27, 2005 12:15 PMfrom IP: 69.214.0.166

Dear Susan, Before you posted I was going to start another thread regarding my brother's anniversary of his suicide and how I feel about it all. I was thinking of giving it the title of R.I.P and about how in fact it is left to us, those that remain behind as it were, how we must find the strength to Rest In Peace. We must find the strength to shoulder the burden and pain of the loss that we must need endure, that we must go on living with joy and light in our stride and yet feel the heaviness of the sorrow that we carry. I suppose it is some consolation that we have the memories of the years spent laughing and loving, fighting and enduring, embracing one another. Those memories are ours, they bring us joy and equally pain, especially when the loss is most recent as it must be for you now Susan. For me five years on there is much more joy in the memories than sadness although it is ever present and ever tainting, but I Rest In Peace much more often and with much more ease.

I am sorry for the pain you are going through, for your loss. My thoughts go also to the husband and young daughter. Time does heal pain but never completely.

Posted by: Paul on September 27, 2005 02:35 PMfrom IP: 220.237.37.184

My husband's brother committed suicide in 1977-of all places down the street from me. I was only 9 and of course-didn't know my husband. I know that this sounds weird-but maybe we were meant to meet each other and his brother kind of set it up. The anniversary is in August and they were both born in August. I no longer ask my husband how he feels about the anniversary but we do talk about his brother. My husband pretty much keeps those deep thoughts to himself. My husband and his brother were very close and I'm sure the loss just so deep. Sometimes, I wish that his brother could be here to see Michael and his children and to be a part of our lives. I miss him for my husband. And, here's the other weird stuff-our daughter Julia has a birthmark in the same place as Michael's brother and our daughter Bethany looks like his brother. When I first saw Bethany after she was born-it was his brother incarnate.

I believe those who have left us are always with us. They are part of our history. And, those who are no longer with us would not want us to stop living.

MANY HUGS!
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on September 27, 2005 09:20 PMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Thank you Paul and everyone. Finding the community here at PC was the Goddess' will. You comfort me. More time seems to pass between my thoughts of Manndy, Marnie and Andrew as each day goes by. I’m finding myself eager for time to pass, because I know I’ll feel better. Marnie’s and Andrew’s funeral is Thursday, and the burial is Saturday. I don’t know, but somehow I think I can start the healing process after that. Right now, everything seems to be in limbo.

My love and appreciation to all of you,

Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on September 27, 2005 10:12 PMfrom IP: 66.52.194.21

Isn't it so very strange and somehow wonderful that Paul has provided us an outlet and such a great bunch of people to share our good and bad times with!

Susan, my heart breaks for the sadness you are experiencing. I hope our words can bring some comfort to you eventually. Know that you have people here who care. Even though I am new here, I feel I have found a community of kind and loving people. It's weird.

I lost my husband and the father of our two children in 1980. He died while living a recklous lifestyly. We were separated at the time but loved each other deeply. Just wasn't meant to be for the long run. The kids were virtually babies. Ages 7 and 4. They lost the opportunity to feel the love and support of their father as they were growing up. I lost the trust in all that was good. I still have a kind heart and love people, but somehow that pain put a mark on me that I can't seem to live down after all these years. Maybe talking to all of you is part of my destiny!

I think we are all sharing a piece of our destiny here!

Posted by: MaryS on September 28, 2005 05:16 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

Susan, I think you are absolutely right that the healing begins after the memorial service/burial. I had that same experience when my Dad died, the burial brought some closure to that initial phase of shock, loss, denial and putting the body into the earth, forced me to let go of his body, but not of his spirit and the memories. Like Paul said, with time the memories bring more joy and peace, but the pain kicks in at times, like 2 or 3 weeks ago, when I came home crying every evening, missing my Dad and it hurt like hell, almost worse than when he did die several years ago, but currently I have found that inner peace and joy again.

I have watched the news story of your sister's death a little bit in the news and online, since I live in MN, ever since you mentioned it here. It is so very sad!!! Hang in there and cry as much as you need and grieve whichever way you feel the need to grieve.
Sending you lots of loving and comforting thoughts!

Posted by: Evelyn on September 28, 2005 07:33 AMfrom IP: 134.29.30.175

Hello all,
I am so very saddened at the losses which have come to light here. I send as many prayers as I can, for the peace that is so much needed now, to come soon. I am reminded more deeply of my own loss and saddness when I read others. I am coming up on the 18th anniversary of my brother-in- laws suicide. My husband still stuggles with it, as do I, as I knew him before I knew my husband, and he was my dearest friend. We went to his funeral, from Wa, to Arizona in Nov, and my baby caught pneumonia and died in my arms on a Greyhound bus, the story is long and the "recovery" longer. I understand all of you, and I grieve with you all. Yes Paul you are right, time does heal, never completely, but I have learned that it is possible to make friends with the greif, because it is with us for a life time. Peace to you all. Michelle #3

Posted by: Michelle#3 on September 28, 2005 07:55 AMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

I am so touched by everyone’s grief and pain. I’m sending everyone here a group spiritual hug.

Love, Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on September 28, 2005 09:41 AMfrom IP: 66.52.195.144

Good Morning PC Friends,

I, too, am touched by the strength that the friends here at PC have within themselves.

MICHELLE #3-My heart really goes out to you. You are an inspiration that people do survive tragedy in their lives.

EVELYN-I don't believe we are meant to live forever in pain but you are right-pangs happen here and there and sometimes unexpectedly.

MARY S-I'm sorry that your husband lived recklessly. I'm sure that your children have grown just fine with your love and compassion.

This a topic that I do believe all of us have a connection with.

MANY HUGS!
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on September 28, 2005 08:57 PMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Dearest Paul,
Your blog is so sweet :) I thought you were being harsh on the 'celebrities' on DWTS...but I resaw Strictly Ballroom today...and realised that you're criticisms are right :) BTW...I totally agree with you re: right to life'rs...it's so refreshing to see a male be so passionate about the topic.
much love,
elisa

Posted by: Elisa on September 28, 2005 09:26 PMfrom IP: 144.132.153.58

sorry, just reading the sombre tone of the comments...my prior comment feels really out of place :( Susan...that's terrible about your loss.
love,
elisa

Posted by: Elisa on September 28, 2005 09:36 PMfrom IP: 144.132.153.58

Dear Sue L-K,
I am also sorry for your loss. In Paul's definition I hope you can rest in peace soon.
Love, Inn

Posted by: Inn on September 28, 2005 10:59 PMfrom IP: 24.115.26.221

ABeth....Thank you. While I have never thought of my life as an inspiration, I am honored if one thing I have lived can inspire someone else to endure, and live on. To you all, Peace and Serenity. Blessings and Love. And To Paul...Thanks for this site. I have found a group of what I am now calling friends, and it is so great to be able to share thoughts, good and bad, and feelings, happy or sad. To a better tomorrow!!! Michelle#3

Posted by: Michelle #3 on September 29, 2005 08:03 AMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

Yes abeth, thank you for your kind words. I do feel that I have raised children who have huge kind hearts. Out of our darkness, it is possible for us to find lessons and inspiration to pass on to others, if we keep our hearts from closing. Sometimes that just seems like it won't be possible, but the heart is a funny flexible muscle and tends to get stronger when it's worked harder.

Unfortunately, sometimes sadness has to happen for us to really know what happiness is.

Why are we such stubborn creatures?

Posted by: on September 29, 2005 09:00 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

Dear Susan:
My deepest sympathy to you and your family on your great loss. My prayers are with you.

Posted by: Juliet S. on September 29, 2005 11:06 PMfrom IP: 64.12.116.196

Unfortunately, sometimes sadness has to happen for us to really know what happiness is.

***

This is so true and I wish all of you much happiness and love.

Posted by: Tea *taking quick peak in* on September 30, 2005 02:20 AMfrom IP: 65.207.61.30

Hi All,

I am new to the board but I can see that someone is in desperate need of some thoughts and prayers!! Get well Granny Mil! I can see that you are most loved by everyone here.

I am such a fan of Paul and love his writings! I just had to jump in here and post something after lurking for a while.

We are just recovering from a hurricane here and there is still much work to be done. Power was out for days so being able to use a computer finally is truly a blessing in disquise! Life is so short and things can happen in one day that changes your life forever.

I choose now not to lurk but come into the fold of what seems like some warm wonderful human beings!

Hugs all around the board,
Abigail F.

Posted by: Abigail on September 30, 2005 10:08 AMfrom IP: 65.184.37.246

Abagail, welcome!

Hope you, like us here in south Florida, escaped the big hits of Hurricane Katrina and Rita.

I want all my dear chickies to know that I am on the road to recovery. It was all those prayers from all over that did the trick, plus those lovely flowers!

It was a battle, and I wasn't able to do it alone...a team of great doctors kinda helped, and my darling and brave Ellie and two of our daughters from N.Y. also contributed in perking me up, plus the outpouring of love and friendship
from PC. Thank you all!

Shalom and Love,

Grandma Mil


Posted by: Grandma Mil on September 30, 2005 05:20 PMfrom IP: 4.234.111.37

Hello PC Friends,

Welcome Abigail. I hope to see more posts from you in the future.

I hope that you will continue to recover from the nasty wrath of Mother Nature!!

HUGS!
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on September 30, 2005 10:00 PMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Dearest Paul:

I recently saw the show " STRICTLY BALLROOM" and was taken away by your performance. As this is my first post I have read where Grandma Mill is ill and I do pray for her speedy recovery.

Warmest regards,
Maryelizabeth Wainwright Mucaluso
or just call me Daisywink for short--

Posted by: on October 1, 2005 12:34 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Granda Mil!

So glad to hear that you are on the mend. You must be alot stronger than you think. And what a true testimonial to the power of love, good vibes and prayer!

Keep up the great work.

Good vibes!
MaryS

Posted by: MaryS on October 1, 2005 03:35 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

Oh! I should have said: good vibes to all my new friends! :)

Happy Friday.

p.s. Susan. Thinking of you today and wishing you peace and comfort. I know life is not easy for you right now. Praying for the passage of your loved ones to greener pastures. I have faith in the passage, here and on the other side.

Posted by: MaryS on October 1, 2005 04:20 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

Hello to All of You,
Popped in to say a great weekend to you all. I have become hooked on this site. I look forward to what all of you have to share everyday. I once again extend good wishes to you Susan, and Grandma Mil...I am SO happy you are feeling better!!! Paul....I am anxiously awaiting your next bit of wisdom and/or inspiration. Till next time all.....a blessed weekend!!!

Posted by: Michelle #3 on October 1, 2005 05:18 AMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

Mornin everyone. It's a beautiful Fall day here in Colorado. Supposed to hit a high of 90 degrees...a little too hot for Fall, really.

On my way in to work today, the Rockies were glorious. It made me all gushy and appreciative of what we really have here in this life. Sure, it's a test of bravery and strength, but think of the alternative! It's a wild ride and I'm glad I'm on it!

I only have a computer at work. I'm one of the last Mohicans not to have one at home. So I write to you all from work..haha. It's cool, I have a great job, even if I do have to work on Saturdays. At least I don't have to deal with all the Monday crap. ;)

Have a fabulous weekend everyone! :)

Posted by: MaryS on October 2, 2005 01:43 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

p.s.
By the look of the timestamp on my post, Paul's Saturday is already gone. I hope it was good for you and to you. : )

Come talk to us!

Posted by: MaryS on October 2, 2005 01:57 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

Dear GrandMa Mil:

My arm chair visit to this site has certainly brought to my attention that you are a most remarkable and inspiring person after reading back on some of the past topics. Such a love of life--and a most interesting one at that. I see where you live in Florida and I have a brother that lives in New Orleans and has lost everything in the huricane. He is now staying with me, my three children husband and our dog Cherry. Your adventures in the Florida huricanes seem so brave and fearless. Do get well soon as the Follies sound so exciting and it would be wonderful to attend The Follies and meet Paul's fans if I can break away from being a soccer mom and selling Mary Kay cosmetics part time along with a full time factory job.

Warmest regards
Daisywink

Posted by: daisywink on October 2, 2005 06:31 AMfrom IP: 4.18.50.146

Ahhhhh....MaryS, you are indeed a lucky one. Colorado is the state of my birth and my formative years, and while I have lived all over the US, at least the NW, West, Midwest and South, and Germany...I still maintain that Colorado, and the Rockies are one of the most beautiful places on earth. I envy you....BUT The NW isnt bad either. Let me see, Pikes Peak or Mt St. Helens....Hmmmmmmmm??? Well you win....enjoy!!!! Cheers....Michelle#3

Posted by: MIchelle #3 on October 2, 2005 07:54 AMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

Oh Grandma Mil!!

I am so relieved that you are doing better!! What a wonderful post to come home to after a long day at work. I can't think of anything better to put a smile on my weary face. You must have a wonderful family that seems full of love for you and your husband.

We were not spared the wrath of the hurricanes and Ophilia did tend to pound our home rather harshly. We lost three trees and unfortunately one of dear pets. I really can't even think about it now without tears forming so I will tell that story later when the hurt isn't so great.

I am just relieved that you are geting your health back which is the most important gift one can have don't you agree?

Abeth - Thank you for your warm welcome as well. I can't wait to see what posts the future will bring from both you and Granny Mil and the rest of what I guess Granny calls her chickies. What a wonderful group you all are truely!!

Hugs to you all,
Abigail F.

Posted by: Abigail on October 2, 2005 08:29 AMfrom IP: 65.184.37.246

Grandma Millie the only thing that could make me happier to see than seeing you back in full form again, is a cold beer of Paul's beer in my head in a couple of years (after I get my son raised and out on his own) in my own hand. And that is saying a lot I promise *cheeky grin*

Posted by: is on October 2, 2005 11:45 AMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

whoops that was from me by the way.

Posted by: Tea on October 2, 2005 11:55 AMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

To My "New Chickies" Daisywink, Mary S. Michelle #3, Abigail and Tea,

Thank you for your kind comments and your good wishes!

I am proud to induct you all into the "Hall of Granny's Chickies", joining the original Fabulous 11 Chickies that met me, Ellie, and each for the first time in Florida this past February.

We called it the "Strictly Ballroom Convention" and these lovely people came from Ireland, Holland, California, Minnesota, Pennsylvania, Michigan, Illinois and 2 from Florida.

This particular weekend was chosen for it was the opening of my show, "Follies 2005", which the
participants attended at a special morning matinee for out-of-town friends and family. I produced and directed the show, which was the 5th Follies since 1997.

Ellie and I were also part of the cast, and the
word "Chickies" came from the selection that I lipsynched to, the song from "Chicago" which is sung by Queen Latifa (Momma Morton).

WHEN YOU'RE GOOD TO MOMMA

"Ask any of the chickies in my pen,
They'll tell you I'm the biggest...Mother Hen,
I love them all, and all of them love me,
Because the system works, the system called
RE-CIP-PROC-ITY..."

Our motto, "we came as strangers and left as friends" certainly was true, for already, Michelle #1 from Chicago is going to Ireland to visit Mary this month! Evelyn from Minnesota has met Monika from Holland twice already during
Evelyn's trips to Europe to vist her family.

Ideas for another "Follies 2007" is in my head and in the computer (I tend to forget unless it's written down) and who knows, maybe another SB convention will be in the making! The date is February 9, 10, 11, 12, 2007.

I am feeling much better each day, thank you all for our concern. My doctors want to see me in a month, Ellie and I are getting out with friends, and my spirits are rising, for sure, mostly due to the support of my family, and my extended family on PC, starting with Paul, who started the thread with his eloquent words of love and concern.

The Jewish New Year starts this Tuesday, and in the synagagues around the world, prayers are said for peace, good health and happiness, and this I also wish all my chickies.

Shalom and Love,

Gran Mil, the Biggest Mother Hen..

Posted by: GRANDMA MIL on October 2, 2005 06:02 PMfrom IP: 4.234.132.31

Whoops, I had a senior moment...I left out the word "other", like in "met each OTHER for the first time in Florida this past February."

Gran Mil

Posted by: Grandma Mil on October 2, 2005 06:10 PMfrom IP: 4.234.132.31

Dear Millie:

I'm glad to hear that you're feeling much better.

By the way, can I be one of your "chickies" too?

Love to all.

Posted by: Juliet S. on October 2, 2005 11:54 PMfrom IP: 205.188.116.202

Juliet S., my dear, of course! My chickie pen is large enough to embrace everyone on PC AND their families!

Shalom and Love,

The Biggest Mother Hen

Posted by: GRANDMA MIL on October 3, 2005 01:11 AMfrom IP: 4.234.132.31

Dearest and Amazing GrandMa Mil:

WOW !! This is so exciting!! I am now a Chickie?? I
feel like I have just been crowned in the Miss America
Pageant or won the Lotto. I'm speachless. I assure you
that I will be a very good Chickie. I see two other
people that you have inducted into The Chickie Hall of
Fame and I would like to say hello to Abagail and
Juliet. Watch those hurricanes Abagail and I hope they
aern't much of a problem for you?
OH !! GrandMa Mil I am so thrilled and I can't wait to
tell the girls tomorrow at the Beauty parlor. At first
I thought the name Chickies came from all the feathers
that are used on costumes in a Follies producttion.
What a story. If it isn't a bother and i certainly
hope that I am not imposing on your busy schedule.
Please tell me about your travels and Israel. More !!
More !! More !!! behind the scenes out-takes some of
those very funny moments.

Warmest regards,
Daisywink Chickie

Posted by: Daisywink on October 3, 2005 09:45 AMfrom IP: 209.178.136.94

Dearest Grandma Mil,

Thank you so much for your welcome to the Chickie Club. I am honored. I have spent a certain amount of time wondering about what it all meant and I am happy to now be a part.
I am very, very pleased you are feeling better and getting out. You are truely Blessed I think to have so many friends who love you. Bless you and may you continue to mend!!

Posted by: Michelle #3 on October 3, 2005 11:42 AMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

Daisywink, as one of the original group members to be initiated into Grandma's Chicken Hall of Fame (now that sounds really funny!), welcome to the group, and also Abigail and Juliet.

I created a website for Grandma's Follies productions of 2003 and 2005, the latter also includes lots of pictures from our get together that magical weekend in February. I taped the entire show, so if you are interested, I can get you one. Oh, the URL http://www.hickorytech.net/~emeyer/SpecialProjects.html

Grandma, I'm so glad you are feeling better! Good on you, as the Aussies tend to say :-) although of course, I'm not 100% sure if this usage is correct, but quite frankly at this moment I don't care.

My life just took an interesting unexpected not so great turn that could cost me my job when I didn't do anything wrong, my employer did by not observing a "formality" as the lawyers keep telling me-sigh! which gave the INS reason to stop my Green Card application. My employer tells me I have to resign from my position (so that they can get it right this time, ha ha, to make this legally the least troublesome for them in the long run and trying to take my few remaining rights away from me, that's what this really is about). Needless to say, I'm on the job market again, yes, I can apply for this position again, but I have no guarantees of getting it again. This whole thing is such a mess and the legal ramifications are huge esp. since immigration and work authorization issues are part of the package and I'm still trying to grasp what just hit me on Wednesday. The first three job ads I looked at were in New Zealand, Canada and Australia, that's just the way they randomly popped up. Well, I'm taking the hint and doing a global job search and not just in the US. Hey, I can only hope for the best but being at work right now is intensely uncomfortable and potentially being an inside candidate for my current position is not what I ever wanted to be. I really don't need the extra stress of having to over- and outperform for the next 8 months. They aren't supposed to include any information other than what is in application materials and what happens during a two-day finalist interview, but the reality is, that that kind of tends not to happen. Okay, said more than enough …

Love to you all

Posted by: Evelyn on October 3, 2005 11:47 AMfrom IP: 69.24.188.72

Evelyn, love your site thanks for sharing those photos. Wonderful to put names with faces. I think seeing people tells me so much about them. You look like a very sweet person and fun to be with. Millie looks so classy and fun too, a really darling.

I also have to be honest, that your post about the job search didn't make a lot of sense to me but I think it's because I have no idea what you are looking to do or where you are at. Wherever you go though I wish you the best!

Posted by: Tea on October 3, 2005 01:46 PMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

Grandma Millie thank you so much for including me as one of your chickies. You just may never get rid of me now. :)

Posted by: Tea on October 3, 2005 02:18 PMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

Dear Millie:

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
I'm hoping we could meet some day.
Love to all.

Posted by: Juliet on October 3, 2005 10:07 PMfrom IP: 205.188.116.202

Dearest Chickies--Michelle, Abagail, Tea, Evelyn and Juliet Chickie,

I feel like I am part of an elite Sorority and after reviewing the link provided by Evelyn about The Follies I can see why such a fuss is being made over GrandMa Mil who is virtually a National Living Treasure. She has lived such a rich life and her lifes contributions are more than the goose who has laid a golden egg. GrandMa Mil is a beacon for us all to aspire to. I wish that I had a larger vocabulary to express my outpour of emotion rather than these simple chicken scratches. Evelyn--you photography left me breathless. You are a talent in your own right and I am sorry to hear about job loss and my prayers are with you. But now back to GrandMa Mil It is obvious why so much fuss is being made over you and what an honor to have Paul M. who is rooster of the Hen House, dedicate so much of this site in your honor and Grandma's Chicken Hall of Fame. I fell like crowing now like Peter Pan in Neverland. Cock--uh--doodle--doooooo !!!!! I look forward to visiting Chicken Central often as all of you Chickies are delightful and inspiring.

Warmest regards,
Daisywink Chickie

Posted by: on October 4, 2005 12:43 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Dearest Granny Mil and all of your Chickies!!

Daisywink, Michelle, Tea, Juliet, Evelyn, and the list goes on! Oh what a treat this is to become one of your dear chickies! It's like waking up on Christmas day and finding all kinds of presents under the tree!! What a treat to have this honor bestowed on me and even better to see all those wonderful pictures that were posted!! I didn't see Paul in any of them and was just wondering if he has ever been to any of your Follies? You are such a talented Lady! I just wish I had one iota of your talent. To be able to write, produce and star in a production is astounding to me. You are truly a rare gem!

Blessed be all that dwell here and may you all have a great day!

Abigail Chickie

Posted by: on October 4, 2005 01:38 AMfrom IP: 65.184.37.246

Dear All,

Grandma Mil, I’m thrilled you’re feeling better. The world is a better place because of you.

Evelyn, I’m so sorry to hear of your employment problems. I don’t think I truly understand what is going on, but I hope they realize what a jewel you are and offer your job back… if that’s what you want.

Thank you all for your care and concern for all that’s been going on in my life. I’m doing well. Now that the funerals are over, I’m finding it easier to Rest In Peace. Isn’t that the most important thing? I’m remembering what gifts Marnie, Andrew and Manndy were, and honoring they’re lives, at the same time making sure my life moves on meaningfully.

Welcome to all the new members of PC. I’m a newbie, too. Isn’t this a wonderful community?

Love, Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on October 4, 2005 03:43 AMfrom IP: 66.52.193.15

Hello All,

It is Tuesday and I am wishing it is a good one for everybody. Mondays around here are tough so I avoid anything extra, unless absolutely necessary!!! LOL, 5 kids, 3 dogs a bird and husband (he is great tho), and a job as a 3-4 yr. pre-school teacher. Moods, on Mondays are risky to say the least.
Sue....I am happy you are coming to the "rest". Once the funerals are over, it really is time to begin the recovery from the trauma, and then to make friends with the greif and continue on. I love what everyone says about the memories. Mine came in short bursts after the the first year, and still continue. I guess for me the post traumatic stress was more than my mind could handle at the time, but I have found that the memories of my child, are most precious and a comfort. I wish for you, continued blessings and peace for you, and for your cousins husband and young daughter!! God Bless You.
Granny Mil....You dear sweet woman. What more can I say, except that I feel blessed to have found all of you! You are the best of Mother Hens!!! It is a testament to what a woman you are when so many folks love you so well!!! Bless you heart!!
Paul....anything new going on in your life? Havent seen you in a bit.
So this is where I get done. I can ramble, sorry. HAVE A GREAT DAY AND UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.....PEACE, JOY AND SUNSHINE!!!!

Michelle#3

Posted by: Michelle#3 on October 4, 2005 10:52 PMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

Dear Gran Millie,
I sincerely hope that you are feeling much better now and continue to improve.

Peace, good health and much happiness to you.


Evelyn,
I'm trusting that this muddled mess turns into something positive for you. In the meantime, hang in there and be well. Australia is nice!


Paul,
We watched DWTS last night. We enjoyed it.
Lauren said she saw Erin last week. (She's grown!)
It just gets better, we think.
It's a pity that you couldn't use that opportunity to plug your beer.
How is it selling?

Mary,
I have a growing interest in Irish dancing.
I've been practising by standing for long periods with my arms by my side and looking very pure. Do you think this is a good move?

Peter

Posted by: Peter on October 5, 2005 07:21 AMfrom IP: 203.220.147.22

Peter,

I'm speechless! Where did this spring from, do you think? Was it a spontaneous thing? Or did it creep up on you? Please tell.

Yes, this is definitely a recommended move. I'm very impressed that you managed to suss this out for yourself. You're obviously a natural. Although I have to admit, I'm finding it hard imagine you looking like this. With your arms by your side I mean.

Love to you,
Mary

Posted by: Mary on October 5, 2005 07:50 AMfrom IP: 83.70.229.173

Mary,

This yearning should not come as a surprise to you! As a small ethnic boy attending Mittagong Primary school, I was made to spend long periods of time standing with my arms by my side.
The teachers were even less forgiving.
Then, when the nuns would come on a Thursday to deliver the word of God to heathens such as me, I would practise looking pure. Pretty good, huh?
It's a good thing that I was so small, undernourished and pityful looking (in an ethnic kind of way). It added credibility.
It's also a good thing that I eventually grew, otherwise the suit would be baggy.

So, it has been a natural combination of the two.
I am dearly hoping that Irish dancing in the purle suit may start some new kind of cultural trend. It would undoubtedly lend colour, don't you think?

Dancing with my arms by my side will teach me respect and self control.
I will of course be performing to disco music and occassionally doing some splendid aerobics moves with my legs. So, keeping the arms still will certainly add challenge!
I will need to ensure that my mirror balls are securely attached to the utility belt.

I await you advice on this.

P

Posted by: Peter on October 5, 2005 08:20 AMfrom IP: 203.220.146.109

Peter,

I take it all back. You never said it was a yearning. That throws a different light on the subject. Do you think this is a religious experience of some kind?

Is this arms-by-the-side normal practice in Aussie schools? Maybe this is an Irish influence? The plot thickens.

Yes, I can see where the feigned 'pure' look comes in now. Hmmm...you'd never fool me though Peter.

Re: the baggy suit. Not going down that road. Another time maybe.

Riverdance in Purle...Let's hope no-one steals THAT thought.It could make millions. I think you're on to something there.

Peter, your acrobatic prowess astounds me. I knew about the disco dancing alright, but the legs-only aerobics now...well, now I really AM without speech.

And finally, please leave the mirror balls and the utility belt till another time. Part of the purle appeal, (for me at least), is knowing there is always something else in reserve.

That's my advice Peter. Await no longer.

Mary

Posted by: Mary on October 5, 2005 08:40 AMfrom IP: 83.70.229.173

Mary and Peter, you make me laugh. Oh, the images in my mind.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Sue L-K


Posted by: Susan L-K on October 5, 2005 09:17 AMfrom IP: 66.52.193.237

Peter, you might try tucking the cape into your superhero suit while dancing. I'd hate to see you trip:)

I can understand why you had to practice looking pure. Really.

Coming soon to a theater near you:

PURLEDANCE A Cosmic Experience (It's out of this world!)

They'll be selling t-shirts that feature an image of one of your best Irish aerobic moves, mirror ball earrings, and purle utility belts for the little guys. Of course the belts come with a free DVD of you, demonstrating your craft.

I'd watch those mirror balls on your belt. That sounds like it could be painful.

Posted by: Michelle (Chicago) on October 5, 2005 09:40 AMfrom IP: 24.14.241.164

Mary & Michelle,

You have raised some doubts as to my readiness for this undertaking. I can see now that I may have to develop this further before exposing it to the world. It needs to be right.
Back to my cave.

Hi Susan L-K. I hope we brightened your day.

Peter

Posted by: Peter on October 5, 2005 10:09 AMfrom IP: 203.220.146.109

Peter, you and Michelle brightened my day so much, I had to put my sunglasses on. ;)

Sue L-K


Posted by: Susan L-K on October 5, 2005 10:21 AMfrom IP: 66.52.193.237

Peter and Mary, man go to work for a few hours and all kinds of shenannigans break loose!! Irish dancing, disco balls, nuns, I am at a loss, for breathe that is. I had a hearty chuckle. I agree with Sue...it put quite a bright spot on my day!!

Michelle #3

Posted by: Michelle #3 on October 5, 2005 10:49 AMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

Daisywink Chickie!

That is so cute it just makes me giggle all over!! I love that nickname. It sounds like you have your hands full with soccer, and being a mother etc. I have a 16 year old son that has taken up surfing and just last week was encircled by 10 dolfins that scared the wits out of him. He thought they were sharks at first.. I am glad I wasn't on the beach or I would have fainted dead away for sure! Boys do keep you ever so so busy don't they?

What part of the country are you living in might I ask? Your name sounds so familiar to me from somewhere else or is it just deja vu? I can't put my finger on it just yet.

Peter and Mary- You two just crack me up. I could see you two doing a sit com on tv together. I love the new dance concept!! I want pictures if that ever transpires! You both are extremely entertaining!! It put a smile on my face tonight after a long rough day at work.!!

Ciao all,

Abigail :)

Posted by: Abigail on October 5, 2005 10:50 AMfrom IP: 65.184.37.246

Abigail

I know what you mean about boys. My son is 15 and he just got called up to the Varsity team as a Sophmore. No small feat. The same day he got brought up to Varsity football, he hurt his leg very baddly , possible broke, not sure yet. What a bad day. He hurt it in gym class kicking a soccer ball. He landed on his leg wrong.

He is devistated he is done for the season. he cant walk on it. If xray come back ok no serious injury just alot of pain. He says hell tape it and get it out there and play. My big boy.
5' 10" 215 lbs of muscle.

Hey all, I didnt get that job, oh well. I cant post out for 6 months as our company is downsizing some middel management positions and they are ginving all severed people the open positions. I asked to be severed but they laughed and said no, I would be the last.. Figures.

I am getting over bronchitis and feeling somewhat strong again. I am in pretty good spirits, my docs double up my anxiety meds so I am handling Clays injury pretty well I must say so. Thank goodness they doubled me up BEFORE his injury.

My daughters school wants her tested for dyslexia.
It would almost be a relief just to have a name as to why she struggles so hard and gets no were.

The school system has to pay for everything since they suggested that she be tested.

Celebrated 16 YEARS OF MARRIAGE last week. Cant believe it 16 years. Next month is 20 years of being togethter and living together. I am getting old.

oops, literally , I will be 37 on October 16. uhhhhhhh I really AM getting old. WEll they say that 50 is the new 20,,, so I guess I will look forward to 50!!!

Well, it's late. off to bed. I promosed my co-workers I would get at least 5 hours of sleep tonight. I wont make it but it will b w about 4 1/2. More than usuall.

Love to all,,,, xoxoxoxoxxoxoxox
bigg kisses and bigger hugs (((xoxoxoxoxo)))


Kelly

Posted by: kelly on October 5, 2005 12:14 PMfrom IP: 69.214.0.166

Thanks Mary and Peter for making me laugh today. Needed that!

Today I hit the "Now I'm really furious" stage of my employment related fiasco and I’m very confused as to what's going on, since someone in the higher ranks clearly is withholding information from me and the little information that I do get is contradictory. I hate these no win – no win situations. I think I'm going to request meetings with them and take it from there while seriously considering taking legal actions against them. After all, it's my life, my career, my financial security and my legal status as a non-citizen in the US that's at stake here. And if anyone at work is going to tell me one more time that this is all no big deal and that they really like my work, oh and we are sorry that this is happening, but do go on the job market and seek out other options and no, we can't guarantee you your job here even though we made an error in the search process--- I'm going to scream!!! And I'm not kidding, I've gotten all of these statements within less than 5 minutes in a single conversation a few times over the course of the last few days. “ARRRGGGHHHH!-- Okay, deep soothing, cleansing breaths!-- Yeah, but I still want to kick and scream!--Shut up, keep breathing!--Okay, whatever.” The type of conversations I have a lot with myself lately.

And yes Peter, I keep hearing that Australia is very nice, planning a visit with my sister Christmas/New Years 2009-2010. And of course in the last few minutes Australia got even more attractive. What was that about the “PURLEDANCE A Cosmic Experience (It's out of this world!)” that involved bell mirrors, belts, purle suits, acrobatic moves that don’t use arms, pure facial expressions and DVD with personalized instructions, disco music and life performances of a cave dweller? Wouldn’t miss it and it seems that the only place where that show is on is in Australia! :-)

How are you doing Susan?

Kelly, sorry you didn’t get the job. I sympathize with you and wish you another good opportunity, hey, actually a better one and Congratulations on 16 year of marriage, 20 years of being together and almost 37. Should I forget, Happy Birthday a bit early. Hmm, I’ll try to remember, after all, your birthday is 10 days before mine and you will be a year older than me, I should be able to remember that, but then perhaps 37 (or 36 in my case) is getting old and with old age comes forgetfulness, right? Anyway, off to bed, similar scenario than yours regarding lack of sleep. oh and I hope Clay heals quickly and completely. He seems to get injured a lot though. Poor guy!

Love to everyone!

Posted by: Evelyn on October 5, 2005 12:28 PMfrom IP: 216.114.243.203

Evelyn, I’m doing fine. I’m beginning to Rest In Peace. I’m sorry to hear what’s going on with you. I think I understand what’s going on. I used to work in recruitment advertising and as a high-tech recruiter. Are you on an H1B visa? Was your employer supposed to search for an American citizen with your skills before hiring you? Are they sponsoring your green card? We used to run “alien ads” in obscure publications to prove the employer was searching for a citizen with the unique skills the non-citizen possessed. Gosh, sounds like their hiring manager didn’t know what they were doing. If they work with a good recruitment advertising agency, who knows where to run the “alien ads”, things could work out. They have to open the recruitment, run the “ads”, and prove your skills are unique. I can’t remember how long they have to have the recruitment open. Your employer needs to have someone who is familiar with immigration employment procedures and laws. Perhaps you know an attorney? I want you to know, you can work through this.

Kelly, I’m sorry to hear you didn’t get the job. How frustrating. And, sorry to hear about your son. I hope he heals, quickly. By the way, I was diagnosed with dyslexia in 11th grade. After taking 11th grade over again and working with a fabulous tutor, I graduated with honors. Remember, Albert Einstein was dyslexic, and he did pretty well.

Love, Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on October 5, 2005 01:24 PMfrom IP: 66.52.193.237

Oh Peter,

I had to come out of lurkdom at the mention of the purle suit and disco. What an image it made this morning! Do I detect a hint of the old Speedo peeking out from under your baggy suit? If I wave a few 5 dollar notes your way, would you dance at my retirement party?

Mary,

Big wave across the pond to you. I'm thinking of you, as always. We had visitors from England at our home last week, and oh, do I yearn to see your part of the world. I'm hoping when I DO retire in not the too distant future, that wish will come true. I'd love to see you.

Kelly,

37? You're still a baby, sweetie. Happy Birthday.

Evelyn,

So sorry to hear your news. I went through a similar job related crisis not too long ago and I know how trying it can be. Hope things improve for you.

Hello to Abigail, Susan, the other Michelles, Daisywink and the other newbies. Forgive me if I can't remember all your names. Memory loss comes easy for me now that I am older... another perk of life.

Millie,

Hope you continue to improve. I'm thinking of you always.

Paul,

Hello out to you. Glad to hear DWTS is back on. I'd love to see it again, but we haven't heard from Brian in a long time.

Be well.

Sally

Posted by: Sally C. on October 5, 2005 06:50 PMfrom IP: 207.239.14.37

Goodness everyone thanks for the laugh this morning. Someone actually stopped in my room to find out what I was smiling about. How do I even begin to explain!!!???!!!

Evelyn, so sorry to hear you're going through this. Sounds like it's a really stinky situation. I wish I had wonderful words of wisdom to offer that would make it all better but all I can muster is a keep your chin up.

Grandma Mil, keep getting better! We need you at your full wonderful and healthy self!

Peter, a yearning to dance eh? Is Paul really rubbing off on you? Althought I've never seen Paul doing the kind of dancing you describe. You might just surpass him in that area!

Paul, miss seeing your posts. Hope all is well.

Oh and Kelly - sorry about the job. Hope things go where you want them. As for turning 37, I just turned 35! Boy I don't feel like I can possible be that age. I thought 35 year olds had the world figured out. I'm starting to think that never happends.

(((hugs))) to all!

Jill

Posted by: Jill on October 5, 2005 08:55 PMfrom IP: 64.8.173.141

Hello PC Friends,

KELLY-I'm already 37 and my husband is 50. Wait till I tell him that 50 is the new 20! We will be celebrating 13 years on 10/18.

MICHELLE #3-You're on point about Mondays. They never were that way before kids but are now. I now give myself permission to be as laid back as possible on Mondays and plan absolutely nothing in the evenings. I want to play fair with my girls.

SUSAN L-K-Glad you're still posting through this rough time in your life. Continue on that healing journey.


PETER-I won't even go into what I at first thought the mirror balls represented nor will tell you the image that came to mind. I only know them as disco balls...and no, I won't go there with that one either.

Here's a question, if anyone cares to comment...is it okay to be okay with not having the feeling of not having enough time to myself? I really feel like I do have time for "me" even with 3 girls. A friend of mine asked me when do I have time for me. When I need some "extra" time or my husband needs some "extra" time-we work it out.

I have a number of things on my desk to take care of today-better be off.

HUGS!
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on October 5, 2005 09:02 PMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Mary & Peter-----
You two are just histerical !!!! It is so important to laugh and look at the brighter side of life. I can tell this is going to be a fun group and upbeat. I recently left a fan club that I was a member for quite a spell as some of the Oldies started posting so many intimate and disturbing domestic situations in their lives that it became uncomfortable. One lady in particular tried to kill herself three times and failed, with the Boards moderator posting all of this dialogue in graphic detail along with every dark secret imaginable in this persons life. This is a fan-site also mind you where you would have children come onto the site. What sort of message this sends out is less than positive. I am not sure what compells a person to bare their soul and very intimate details to complete strangers on the internet. Such personal things that you would hardly even share with a best friend. Oh Well enough of that --I can tell this is really going to be a GREAT & Funtastic Group.
Abigail--- it is wonderful to meet you. I am visiting friends in California right now but I live in Detroit Michigan. I was born and raised in Harlem where I met my wonderful husband Moses.
My teenage son Fleetwood is trying his hand at surfing in Laguna Beach. I swear I can't get use to that Hip-Hop music. Although 50 cent has some good songs. The Temptations--now that is music. I have a feeling also that we will become wonderful friends--and if you like Soul Food--do I have some recipes. I would love to cook for everyone at GrandMa Mils Follies party at her home. I'll do the cookin--if you do the dishes?
Sally C.--Thank you for the wonderful welcome.

Big hugs,
Daisywink Chickie

Posted by: on October 6, 2005 12:52 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Abeth, I think that if you are happy and content and at peace with the way your family works and the amount of time your have for yourself, then what you feel is perfect. Why worry about something you feel okay with? It sounds to me like you have your life where you want it. Run with it!

Jill

Posted by: Jill on October 6, 2005 01:42 AMfrom IP: 64.8.173.141

Wow!! So much activity while I was enjoying a nice 3 day weekend. It's going to take me a while to catch up.

Grandma Mil: Thanks for taking me under your big wings! Glad to be a part of the pen.

Well, I just got to work, so I'll catch up and write more later!

Big hugs to all. :)

Posted by: MaryS on October 6, 2005 02:55 AMfrom IP: 192.18.98.64

My Dearest Chickies,

Ellie and I were in synagogue this morning, praying with the congregation for good health and peace for our families and friends for the New Year.

After reading the current posts, I have decided to ask Peter and Mary to get their act together, and try out for the next "Follies, 2007"..the senior would love it, (but maybe not quite understand it, but who cares? Then, we could have the next "Strictly Ballroom Convention" with the newbie Chickies coming also, especially Daisywink Chickie, to cook up a storm in my kitchen! (I remember when we first started to talk about the first get-together, and how it came to fruition!)

I am doing better each day, thank you all for your concern. It is not quite a month since I was hospitalized, so I am encouraged by my progress so far.

Tomorrow I will host my October "Sights and Sounds" video concert, and stand on the stage to welcome the audience. I am going to show a tape from January, 2004, and hope no one recognizes that they may have seen it before...one woman once remarked, "we wouldn't remember anyway"...ah, the pleasures of age!

I cut out a huge ad from the New York Times "Arts" page. It was a pronouncement that the "Miramax Films" company is now going to be called "The Weinstein Company".

Now, "Miramax Films" gave us great hits like "The Aviator", "Chocolat", "Bridget Jones Diary", The English Patient", "Kill Bill" "Cinema
Paradiso", "The Cider House Rules", "Good Will Hunting","Shall We Dance", "Muriel's Wedding and "STRICTLY BALLROOM" among others!

I have "Chocolat", "Muriel's Wedding", and of course, "Strictly Ballroom" all on DVD, and they will be shown soon on our 16'x9' DVD screen in our multimedia auditorium where some of our Chickies saw SB on tape when they were here last February.

We never thought that a "Strictly Ballroom Convention" would come to fruition, but it did, which proves anything is possible with good health, much love, determination, and planning!

Paul had expressed his desire to attend if it was possible, but at least his spirit (and his
screen persona) were evident throughout the weekend. It was he and Cat that made it all possible, and we all are very fortunate.

Shalom and Love,

The Biggest Mother Hen

Posted by: Grandma Mil on October 6, 2005 06:37 AMfrom IP: 4.129.106.194

Peter, don't wait too long, will you? You've built us up now. PS Are all your yearnings this interesting?

Hi Michelle. I had forgotten about the tucking in. Just as well one of us thought of it!

Susan, I hope you are doing okay. I wish you well.

Kelly, sorry about the job. Don't worry, the right one will come along. 'What's FOR you, won't pass you by.' Belated Happy Anniversary wishes!

Evelyn, hang in there. I'm thinking of you.

Sally, hi back to you. Some day I hope we can share a drink in a quiet pub and talk for hours! I hope all is well with you.

Abeth, I agree with Jill. When you have something this good, don't bother analysing it. Just enjoy it! Wishing you much joy with your family.

Millie, I send special love to you & wishes for continued healing.

Paul, wishing you the best - as always.

Love to all,
Mary

Posted by: Mary on October 6, 2005 07:03 AMfrom IP: 83.70.229.173

Millie, I just missed you! I smiled when I read that you would be back where you belong tomorrow night. Good luck!

Love,
Mary

PS I'll have a word with Peter!

Posted by: Mary on October 6, 2005 07:11 AMfrom IP: 83.70.229.173

WooHoo I'm 100.

(it's the little things in life ...) ;)

Posted by: Tea on October 6, 2005 09:33 AMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

Daisywink Chickie!

Oh that sounds wonderful!! I love to cook and I sure do bake a mean sweet potatoe pie. Also, one of the family favorites Blueberry Cake roll. It is made with a delicious nut crust and layered with cream cheese mixed with whipped cream and topped with blueberry pie filling....Oh yummmy! Oh I can just see it all now and it would be such a spread on Granny Mills table would it not? Hmmmm...wonders what the main course would be?? Any thoughts on that one Daisywink? Of course I'll do the dishes as I wouldn't dream of letting Granny Mil do anything but enjoy all of her chickies! It just sounds like a wonderful dream that would be heavenly if it could just come true some day.

Granny Mil, you just keep getting better so that maybe that SB get together could come full circle!! You must have pictures of the last one somewhere on the internet!! (Begging for goodies right now!!) Do you have any of the Follies? Please say that you do..!!

Kelly - My goodness can I relate to you! My son has gotten into more scrapes and bruises than I would even dare tell about! He has just joined a club at school called EXTREME FRISBY. I am very very afraid to ask what they do in this club. How extreme can a game of frisby get anyway.? I have visions of them bringing in pit bulls that froth at the mouth...yikes??

Well all have a great evening! I think I will get out my embroidery machine and table linens and come up with a beautiful monogram for the SB get together in 2007!!

Night all,
Abigail Chickie

Posted by: Abigail on October 6, 2005 10:21 AMfrom IP: 65.184.37.246

Abigail, chickie dear, Evelyn made a grand website for "Follies 2005", and it joins "Follies 2003" which Evelyn also constructed.

Only one chickie attended "Follies 2003". Her name is Whitney, and she's a dear. She was the only one to attend "Follies 2003" coming from West Virginia, and she took all the pictures for that "Follies".

There were other contributions of pictures for "Follies 2005" from the people attending, but Evelyn put it all together so creatively! (Check out the great beach scenes of Mary and Michelle looking for the man in the purlie suit, and everyone enjoying the surf and sand.)

I was quite a bit chubbier in the pixs, from "Follies 2003", and dieted 30 lbs. off before "Follies 2005." I am not ashamed to admit that with some editing, some of my chins were deleted...pure genius on Evelyn and Whit's part!

You can find Evelyn's website for both Follies with this address:

www.hickorytech.net/~emeyer/SpecialProjects.html

Shalom and Love,

Gran Mil

Posted by: GRANDMA MIL on October 6, 2005 05:36 PMfrom IP: 4.234.111.148

Hello PC Friends,

MY DEARET MILLIE-I watched a show last night called "Schtel to Swing". I thought of you. It was about the immigration of the Jewish community to America and their huge influence in the music/entertainment industry. I never knew just how many from the Jewish community had such talent and perserverence.

DAISYWINK-Besides Peacan Pie-Sweet Potatoe runs a very close second. I love comfort food and it sounds like it's your specialty.

JILL AND MARY-Thank you for your thoughts regarding my question. It's not like I let myself totally go. I never wanted to have that "I just rolled out of bed mother look". I want to be a good role model for my girls and I don't want to embarras them by wearing pajamas all day. They like it when I dress extra special for a meeting at work. I was given some advice a long time ago-I can't be good to my girls if I'm not good to me.

It's a drizzly day here in Baltimore. It's the kind where you just curl up with a cup of tea and after you're done-you take a doze.

HUGS!
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on October 6, 2005 09:00 PMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Dearest Mother Hen--Gran Mil:

I swear your life is a virtual institution and you are so computer literate. The majority of people your age wouldn't know how to begin with a computer--and just look at you GO GIRL !!!! You certainly do make every day count it seems like---and you rise above the occasion when you are so desperately ill with not even a complaint of your condition. A SAINT---YOU ARE SIMPLY A SAINT---no wonder everyone so adores you. You seem to look at the brighter side of things and embrace new challenges with optimism. GranMil you are really a tiger. A Go Gitter !!!!!
The Follies Party at you home with Abigail Chickie's assistance will be a FABULOUS FEAST!!!
I am still thinking of the main course---perhaps something Kosher--yet soul food? I have a wonderful set of antique sterling flatware that I will bring--which is an heirloom that has been passed down in my family for generations. It was a gift given to my Great--Great-Great---etc. grandmother by her Master's wife when she was freed as a slave after the Civil War. A touching moment in my families history. It is a service for 18--so it will be a gala event. I almost lost this momento when my youngest son Jamal got involved in drugs and hocked it at a Pawn Shop--but he is getting better and the silver is back with me.
Oh !! This is just going to be GLORIOUS---
Abeth--That sweet potato pie is always a winner!!! You sound like you are an absolute doll after reading some of your posts. Oh--you are all so much FUN!!!
Abigail Chickie---What other ideas do you have for Gran Mils Follies Party???? Please share?

LOL LOL LOL
Daisywink Ckickie

Posted by: on October 7, 2005 01:08 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Daisywink Chickie!!

Oh this sounds just so dreamy! I can just picture it all now! We could all come dressed in costume for a grand dinner evening! Maybe we could write a little skit in honor of Granny Mil? I have dabbled with writing some what and when my children were little we produced a home made movie. It was sooo cute and we edited it and put it all together with credits and everything. The SB Follies of 2007!! Starring Granny Mil and her devoted chickies! Granny, see what an inspiration you are for all of us? I went to that web site that you posted and so enjoyed looking at all the photos. You truly are a gem and a gifted lady with a beautiful smile and soul to go with it.

Daisywink, what about the place mats and candle stick holders? We could have them be little chickie holders with candles. For party favors we could pass out chicklets chewing gum. LOL...wouldn't that be fun? Let's see what other ideas our creative minds can come up with. Martha Stewart doesn't have anything on us does she?

Hugs,
Abigail chickie

Posted by: Abigail on October 7, 2005 05:15 AMfrom IP: 65.184.37.246

Dear Abigail Chickie:

Oh how glorious!!!and a Follies Costume party---WOW !!!!! It will be like being on a cruise ship with a lavish buffet and a costume dance and performance. Something very Broadway--like COTTON CLUB--maybe as a suggestion for a theme? Or even better---CATS--!!!OR PHANTOM OF THE OPERA. Or we could dress as Las Vegas Show Girls as a review. I weigh 327 lbs--so my costume might take a few extra rhinestones and feathers. I might end up looking like SUPER CHICKIE--but the effort will certainly be worth it. I can also furnish the candlelebra. My son Jamal gave me the most exquisite set with 12 branches each made of solid sterling silver for last Mothers Day that we can decorate the table with. I so wish Jamal could find a job as he hasn't worked for two years and I have wondered how he afforded such an expensive gift. But he is so devoted to me--so loving and a blessing.
Oh this party will be just the medicine Gran Mil needs. Fun ! Fun !! Laughter -- lots of good food. Desert--Abigail what about desert----??
What sort of a play or skit are you thinking? what will your costune be like?

Big Hugs !!!
Daisywink Chickie

Posted by: on October 7, 2005 06:27 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Abigail and Daisywink Chickies, count me in on the cooking/baking for the 2007 FIF party at Grandma's house. I love to cook!!!! and bake!!!!!!! As a matter of fact, I made this delicious German apple cake last night that I made for a potluck this evening. I kind of made it up as I went along, since I had a memory of a cake from when I still loved at home, but no recipe to go with it. It turned out so well and tastes so yummy !!! And as to baking cakes into appropiately decorative shapes, done that, although I never tried to make a chicken cake :-)

Susan, you are so scarly right on the mark re. what is going on re. my employment authorization, it freaks me out! My lawyer suggested exactly what you said about the missing print ad to the HR department, the dean etc. that would clear the problem and allow my green card application to continue, but this university flat out refuses to do that. They are going to do the search over from scratch. God knows why, but they won't budge on it--a mountain I can't move. Talked to the dean and the only thing I got out of that is that everyone involved in this is blaming the other parties (except for me) to have caused the error-nasty and I don't want any part in it. They all are at fault for different reasons, and no one is doing the honorable thing by stepping up and owing up to their mistake. Got to accept that for now as well and am trying not to think about the financial losses I'm incurring as a result of this too much ...
Ah 'tis the weekend, time to relax and have a bit of fun and crank out job applications :-)
Thank you all for your support and good wishes, it makes it easier not to get pulled under in the frustration that's easy enough to cave into.

Big hugs to everyone!!!

Posted by: Evelyn on October 8, 2005 02:04 AMfrom IP: 69.24.172.99

upps, that was supposed to be "when I still lived at home" still love the home ... :)

Posted by: Evelyn on October 8, 2005 02:07 AMfrom IP: 69.24.172.99

Dearest Evelyn Chickie:

Your Apple Cake sounds like a prize winner at a county fair. And all from scratch? You certainly are a free-range baker. So creative an unafraid--a pioneer at heart I can see. This could be one of the many award winning recipes to be served up at the GM 2007 FIF House Party at GrandMa Mils house. I LOVE deserts and the more the merrier !!!Chicken Fried Steak anyone? Surely Abigail Chickie has some Chicken For The Soul cusine in mind. We need to do all the work and preperations for the Gala, or GranMil might fly the coop when she sees us all comin' down the lane. Today I feel Sunny-side up!!! I can see a custom made mother hen cake with GranMils likness on it. Maybee the whole party could be done in a chicken and egg theme. OH--this is so much fun to think about!!! Chichen-fric-ah-see,--Chicken croquettes, deviled eggs for those who dare????I saw a pair of house shoes with chicken heads on at the store the other day that I could wear. Paul needs to attend the party as maybe Fog Horn Leg Horn---a little humor and laughter would be the best chicken soup for GranMil. No Chicken Little Story endings here. Abigail and Evelyn Chickie--What do you think?

Daisywink Chickie LOL

Posted by: on October 8, 2005 04:00 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Daisywink and Evelyn Chickies!

Oh what fun this all sounds like! I just love parties! I can envision it all now. We could even have a chicken pinata! Now what could we fill it with? OH, I know! Those little malted milk speckled candy eggs you see during Easter!! Wouldn't that be a hoot! Hit the chickie and little eggs fall down!! LOL!! We could hide a gold one inside and whoever gets it wins a secret suprise!

Of course we will have a scavenger hunt! I need to work on this one a bit. The maps will be our place mats and of course in the shape of what else? A chickie! Oh, I am on a roll now. I love to plan parties can you tell?

Daisywink it's funny that you mentioned FogHorn Leghorn! You won't believe this but I have that very character tattoed on my ahem...embarrassed to say, but my backside...Hides face in hands! I was young and in college and I loved that cartoon character from the time I was little. My daddy used to mimick him and talk like him to cheer me up. Well, one night my college friends took me out for my 21st birthday and got me very very tipsy. I saw a comic book at book store and said how much I liked FogHorn. Well, the evening wore on and Scarlett took me for a ride that I will never forget. Her and the girls took me to a bar and got me tipsy,,,really tipsy and then took me to a tattoo parlor. I don't even remember that part! Well, when I woke up the next day with a horrific headache, there he was!! My father thought it hysterical, but my mother was furious! She said no decent man would ever marry me!! She ended up being wrong and I married a wonderful man ,, with get this, lol,, a tatto of Foghorn Leghorn's sidekick Little Chickenhawk on his backside.!! Absolutely true story!! Isn't that a hoot!

Well, back to the party, sorry I got sidetracked there. Here is a mold for a chicken cake mold that I found. I am really tempted to get this!!
http://www.chefdepot.net/cakemolds.htm

What do you two think of it? I just love it. Well time to spend time with my favorite hubby. Psstt! Don't tell him I told ok?

Hugs!

Abibigail Chickie

Posted by: Abigail on October 8, 2005 09:13 AMfrom IP: 65.184.37.246

O.K. O.K. Chickies! I'll come and dance the funky chicken at your party, if Paul will give me lessons!!

Paul! Save us from the continous clucking! LOL

This party is out of control!

I barely had time to come visit this week. Crazy hectic workweek.

Wouldn't it be so nice to actually LIVE this life we've been blessed with? I think about how much time we spend at work and wonder if it's really worth it. I do like my job, but come on...most of my life is spent here, and then I get two meager days to do what I WANT and need to do...

That's a lot of living to cram into two days, huh?

Grandma Mil, you know how to live! : )

Keep up the great work as mother hen. We all need a good mothering. lol

Anyway all,

Have a fabulous weekend..it seems the last time I wrote, I was driving into work last Saturday. I think I've only been able to pop in for a few seconds here and there since then.

I'm on a Mercurio fest this weekend...SB is Paul's only movie I've seen and is what brought me to all of you wonderful people!

Looks like this weekend my WANTS may be attended to more so than my NEEDS. Right on ME! :)

Love you all and "see" you either tomorrow or next Tues, when I return to WORK! LOL

Posted by: MaryS on October 8, 2005 10:28 AMfrom IP: 192.18.101.5

Hello to you all,

My goodness it was a long week, and I see that a few days absence here is like a week out of a chemistry class!!! SO much to catch up on. I will work on reading all the posts thoroughly this weekend. Scanned and was overwhelmed. Just love this site and find all of you endearing. I also am 37, 38 in Feb. amd mother of 5 as I said. I find little time for myself, but what I have is enjoyable, just that after 20 years of marriage and kids, my "alone time", is actually sometimes TOO lonely!!

Mil....you astound me with every post. I would like 1/2 of the energy you put into all you do!!!

Sounds like we have some prize winning cooks in here. I love to cook...my kids fave is chicken and dumplings!

Now since I didnt FULLY read each post I dont want to say more, becasue I could potentially make an arse of myself, so I will refrain from much more until later.

I say to you all....have a great weekend and I will see you again soon, and hopefully before I get behind again!!!! There is that time to ones self thing again....HHHmmmmm.

Paul...come see us again soon. I am sure we all miss your posts.

Night from the beautiful NorthWest
Michelle#3

Posted by: Michelle #3 on October 8, 2005 02:21 PMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

Dear Mary S:

That is so funny about Paul saving us from all of the chichen clucking !! LOL After going back and reading the lengthy post between you and Peter with wild Dancing and disco costumes and mirror balls--I think we all need Paul to do an appearance to save us all from Studio 54 River Dance gone crazy. LOL--isn't it wonderful having so many people involved from all over the world --with so many personalities and all with a different sense of humor? What are your thoughts on this Mary S? If everyone could get along in the world as beautifully as the people do on this site--wouldn't it be a better place? Different cultures--races--beliefs and we are all here with that darling Paul ( by the way, where is Paul )just dancing to a different drum. Oh it warms the cockles of my heart as a peck at this keyboard and rejoyce at the blessing to be surrounded with such love, understanding, sharing--OH !! I could go on and on. Let us all pray for GranMils speedy recovery and all of those who are in need and less fortunate. May the world share the Peace and harmony that we all have as a common bond on this site and may it be infectuous and spread all around the world. AMEN!!!!
Now back to the Chickie party at GranMils house we go!! It is just a totally outrageous party complete with a pajama party sleep over and a Pillow Fight.
Abigail Chickie--you really are quite funny and that story--just ruffled my feathers. WOW!!! That is so biker chick---I so love motorcycles and tatoos due to my weight I haven't ridden a Harley in years.
Paul--you ride don't you--and would you share some stories.

Much love to all of you dear Chickies and Tweety Birds !!!!LOL

Daisywink Chickie

Posted by: on October 9, 2005 07:27 AMfrom IP: 4.18.50.146

Dear Daisywink,

You've described my perfect world fabulously!! I agree with you, where's Paul? Hope all is well with him.

Love, Sue L-K

Posted by: Susan L-K on October 9, 2005 09:50 AMfrom IP: 66.42.41.13

He probably saw all our clucking and was scared away. That or he went to go find an axe *gulp* ;)

Posted by: Tea on October 9, 2005 10:17 AMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

I guess that should be "he heard" huh Sheesh....

So whose birthday is it today? Come on, I want to wish someone a happy birthday!

Posted by: Tea on October 9, 2005 11:45 AMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

Tea, if you really want to wish someone a happy birthday, the only person that comes to my mind is, my ex boyfriend's brother :-) His name is Carl ...

What's the point of cooking or baking if you don't make it from scratch? here is the recipe of the apple cake I made, in case any of you are interested. It was very popular on Friday evening and people asked me for the recipe, so I sat down this morning to reconstruct it.

Apfel-Sahne-Kuchen // Apple cream cake

This recipe is for a (German) size spring from that is 26 cm in diameter! So the quantities are too much for an American pie dish and just a bit under an American rectangular-size baking dish (9 x 13 inches).

The crust:
150 g (5.29 oz) flour
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
50 g (1.76 oz) sugar
1 egg yolk
1 pinch salt
100 g (3.52 oz) cold butter

The apple topping:
750 g (1.7 lbs) medium-sized sour apples
2 tablespoons lemon juice

The cream pudding:
750 ml (1 1 /2 pints) fresh heavy cream
3-4 eggs
4-5 tablespoons sugar
1 teaspoon cinnamon (or more depending on your taste)

Method:
1. The crust
a. Mix the flour, baking powder, sugar, egg yolk, salt and butter and knead until all the ingredients are well blended and the dough is slightly sticky and comes away from the bowl. Cover the bowl and put into the fridge for an hour.
b. Preheat your oven to 200 ?C // 390 ?F.
c. Grease your baking dish lightly with butter or cooking spray and then press the pastry evenly into the baking dish, making sure that you create a little rim around the edges so that the apple and cream fillings don’t fall out when you are done. Take a fork and prick the pastry several times and then bake the crust for 15 minutes without any filling on it.

2. Don’t start this until the pastry is ready to come out of the ridge! Peel the apples, cut them into halves and core them. Without breaking the half apple apart, slice it a few times across the top (this is mostly for decorative purposes) but you can also slice the apple and thus get a thicker more even apple layer on the cake. Carefully blend the apples with the lemon juice.

3. Blend the cream, eggs, sugar and cinnamon until it is a VERY smooth liquid mixture.

4. Take the crust out of the oven and place your apple halves or sliced apples onto the cake and then pour the cream mixture evenly on top of the entire cake.

5. Reduce the heat to 175 ?C / 350 ?F and bake for 30 minutes at this temperature. Then reduce the temperature to about 150-135 ? C / 300 – 275 ? F and bake for another 30 minutes. But watch the cake towards the end. When the cream has completely set, your cake is ready. Take out of the oven and cool.

If you feel like it, you could also put some raisins (preferably soaked in rum for an hour) and/ or almond slivers into the apple topping as well.

The crust is a traditional German crust we use for many fruit cakes. You could for example just bake the crust and then put fresh fruit with a glaze on it, e.g. strawberries or peaches or apricots or mangos with kiwi and pineapple and then serve the cake with fresh whipped cream. The crust freezes very well, so you could make several crusts, stick them in the freezer and on a day when unexpected friends stop by for coffee or the urge for cake overcomes you, you thaw it out, put some fresh fruit on it with a glaze or you could put a vanilla pudding on the crust and then add the fruit and you are ready to go.

Posted by: Evelyn on October 10, 2005 12:10 AMfrom IP: 69.24.186.27

Abigail, go ahead and get the chicken cake mold, if you are actually thinking about making it. The decorating could be lots of fun and I WANT PICUTRES of your creative baking! :-)

Posted by: Evelyn on October 10, 2005 12:15 AMfrom IP: 69.24.186.27

Any birthdays in October? I love Libras!

Posted by: Tea on October 10, 2005 03:16 AMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

Dear Grandma Mil,

So sorry to hear you are not feeling well. I bought a house in August moved in on a Friday and school began the following Monday. I've been busy. When I read today about your situation, I wanted you to know I am thinking of you and praying for you. You are much loved. That is so obvious.

Love and Light,

Joan

Posted by: on October 10, 2005 04:24 AMfrom IP: 4.235.96.240

Yes, Tea, I have an October birthday coming up, but not as a libra, as a scorpio :-))))

Posted by: Evelyn on October 10, 2005 04:27 AMfrom IP: 69.24.186.27

Dear Joan,

Congratulations on moving to a new home...always an exciting time, and challenging, what with new schools, new neighboors, etc.

I appreciate your prayers. Everyone on PC has been so supportive that my recovery was hastened by all the love, prayers and concern from all over.

I am back doing my activities in our retirement village, although at a slower pace. It's only a month since I entered the hospital, and I'm very grateful to be where I am!

The hurricane season will be over the end of November. Hope your area was spared.

Shalom and Love,

Gran Mil

Posted by: Grandma Mil on October 10, 2005 06:58 AMfrom IP: 4.231.200.69

OK what date? Tell!

Posted by: Tea on October 10, 2005 08:34 AMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

I have to share my birthday with the Austrian (not Australian) national holiday ... which is a tragedy LOL Enough of a clue?

Posted by: Evelyn on October 10, 2005 12:23 PMfrom IP: 69.24.186.27

Evelyn,

Oh my that recipe sounds absolutely delcious!! I can't wait to try it out.

I really do think I will order that cake mold. I might see If I can find one a little less expensive. I thought it was adorable!

I love what you did on Gran Mil's Follies. Did you do that slide show on your own? How cool that was. You did Gran Mil proud I must say.

Daisywink, you sound like such a fun person. You have a quit wit and a really great sense of humor. You remind me of Mary and Peter with their ballroom antics that I read about. That is what makes this place sooo much fun.!! Such wonderful warm and sensitive people and a sweet dear Gran Mil to help us keep on the straight and narrow. What a gift she is to us all and I hope she is doing much better. I just hope we didn't scare her away with our fun talk of a party at her house. It might not ever happen but it sure is fun just dreaming about it...sighs...

Well good night all,
Abigail happy chickie

Posted by: Abigail on October 10, 2005 12:36 PMfrom IP: 65.184.37.246

Dearest Susan L-K,

I am so glad you agree. Their is so much violence and turmoil in the world today. We may not be able to change the world but we can make our corner a wonderful place for all of those who share a common bond in togetherness, love, and embracing the positive aspects of life rather than the negative. Treat others the way you wish to be treated---as it is a simple rule but perhaps the most forgotten and abused.Perhaps together we can create a recipe for a better world by becoming better people.

Abigail---Yes our party at GranMils is just a fantasy but it would be Glorious !!!

Tea---Oh !!!! You are a Wild sense of humor. I really laughed hard on that one. Laughter is really a cure for so many ailments according to recent scientific findings. And with members like you Peter & Mary we will live forever with your quick wit--- Oh and GranMil with such phrases as a Senior Moment---Why we will all live forever in perfect health.

Speaking of recipes here is a favorite!!

It's Louisiana Soul Food Extraordinaire.

>>>>>>>>>>

Fried Oyster Po' Boys

--1 (1-pound) French bread loaf
--1/4 cup butter or margarine, softened
--24 fresh oysters, shelled and drained
--2 cups cornmeal seasoned with salt and pepper
--Vegetable oil for deep frying
--1/3 cup mayonnaise
--2 1/2 TBS sweet pickle relish
--1 TBS lemon juice
--1/8 tsp hot sauce
--1 cup shredded lettuce
--1 large tomato, thinly sliced

Slice off top third of loaf; hollow out bottom section.
Spread inside surfaces of bread with butter.
Place bread on baking sheet.

Place under broiler, 6 inches from heat for 2 to 3 minutes or until
lightly
browned; set aside.

Toss oysters in cornmeal mix until well coated.
Deep-fry oysters in batches hot oil (375°) until they float to the top
and
are golden brown.
Drain well on paper towels; keep warm.

Stir together mayonnaise, sweet pickle relish, lemon juice and hot
sauce.
Pour over lettuce and stir until coated.
Spread mixture in hollowed-out bread.
Top with tomato slices, oysters, and top half of loaf.

Till later---This is Mother Love signing off
Daisywink Chickie

Posted by: on October 11, 2005 12:10 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Paul, I hope the show goes well tonight.

Hi to all of the nice people on this site.

Gran Millie, I'm glad to hear that your health is improving. You deserve the best of health and best of times.

Mary, I've had to withdraw from my former aspirations. Too many nasty distractions, I'm afraid.

Peter

Posted by: Peter on October 11, 2005 09:26 AMfrom IP: 203.220.147.91

Peter, not to worry. All good things are worth waiting for.

Millie & Paul, I join with Peter in wishing you both well.

Love to all my friends here,
Mary

Posted by: Mary on October 11, 2005 03:22 PMfrom IP: 83.70.255.156

Hi everyone, here's grandma's Dutch chickie from the Netherlands !! Haven't been here for a while, so I have a lot to read and catch up with !

Grandma,
I am glad that you are feeling better !!

Evelyn,
Hang in there !! I'll be thinking of you and by the way, your birthday gifts are on their way !! :))
Wow, I saw your link to the pictures of Follies and decided to take a look at them again. I haven't seen them for a while but WOW, I hardly recognized myself !! OMG !! I have lost almost 80 pounds since February !! Maybe you could put a picture on your website from "before and after" LOL :))

Mary & Michelle,
you two must be really exited to finally get to see each other again soon !!! I wish I could join you two !!

Welcome to all the new chickies !! Daisywink Chickie and Abigail Chickie :)) haha, this just sounds so funny !! hopefully we can all meet each other at Follies 2007 !!

Well, I have to go again, I'll try to get back more often.

love to all
Monika

Posted by: Monika on October 12, 2005 12:56 AMfrom IP: 81.206.125.3

Daisywink Chickie:

Your fried oyster recipe is terrific. I know because in my Italian American household, I prepare these for Christmas Eve but not as Po' Boys. In our tradition we prepare a feast of fish for this holiday. If you like oysters chickies, try this recipe.
Love to all,
Juliet

Posted by: Juliet S. on October 12, 2005 01:06 AMfrom IP: 205.188.116.202

Dearest Juliet S. Dutch Chickie: OH !!! That is indeed a wonderous name and title---makes me feel as though you are royalty. It must be hard wearing those wooden shoes on those chicken feet!!!!LOL Are you actually Dutch? This it my first experience in meeting someone from the Netherlands and you must share more about where you live--PLEASE? This is just so exciting!!!Forgive me for being a little silly but this makes me feel like I'm meeting a Celebrity. Praise The Lord Sister !!

Juliet S---WHAT LIGHT THROUGH YONDER WINDOW BREAKS--Why it's you of COURSE!!!!! How Glorious that you use the same recipe---we already have something in common and our bond shall grow even stronger as time goes on. A Christmas at your house must indeed be a joyous time with loved ones and the food must be the very, very best. Oh what a treasure you are and I give PRAISE that the Dear Lord has put you on this Earth to share in the abundance and glow in what we call life---AMEN !!!! You are a STAR--in the darkest night !!! Share your warm spirt with all around you.

Abigail--You are a warm wind sailing across the ocean finding yourself safe after a long journey---resting under the sun on a pebble a-top a sandy beach----
You seem to have a spirt of fun and are a genuine giving person. We mustcontinue our makings for THE PARTY FOLLIES 2007---and who wants to be in charge of getting personal items and signed photograps of Paul for the silent auction and the proceeds to go to GranMils favorite charity--sounds like a job for Evelyn !!

Heres a joke for everyone:
Joke: Why did the chicken cross the road.
Answer: To get to the other side!!!!!
I think that --that is soooo precious!!!!
PRETTY BIRDS!! PRETTY BIRDS !!
MOTHER LOVE--Daisywink Chickie--signing off

Posted by: on October 12, 2005 05:33 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Hi all you crazy Chickies! Oye! This site is turning into a "Martha Stewart gone wrong" train wreck! If Paul doesn't post a new blog soon, this site's going to implode on us all and we'll be up to our necks in recipes and party plans! LOL

I had a quiet weekend and wish I had one more day to find some new energy. It was supposed to snow here in the Denver area, but just turned out to be rain..so I was holed up watching a few Mercurio films to catch up. I had never seen any. I had JUST seen SB not too long ago for the first time!

So....that was pretty fun.

Today is my Monday and "seeing" all of you makes it so much better!

Hope you're all off to a great week!

Pauuuuul, what the heck are you up to out there????

Posted by: MaryS on October 12, 2005 05:38 AMfrom IP: 192.18.101.5

p.s.

Hi Daisywink Chickie,

I guess it's a tad confusing that there are two of us Mary's clucking out here now. ;)

I'm MaryS...how bout we come up with a new name for me, seeing as I just recently joined all of you lovely people a few weeks ago! I just love chatting with all of you. It's so fun.

I'm game for suggestions....

MaryHadaLittleLamb??
Tooooo long....lol

Posted by: on October 12, 2005 05:43 AMfrom IP: 192.18.101.5

Hello all you Chickies and of Course to Mother Hen!!

I am hoping you are all well today. I am seeing all these new names on here and am as "star struck" by the global community here as Daisywink. I love that. People fom everywhere sharing everything, even recipes....too cool. For now I have to run and get my youngest from school, but wanted to wish you all a happy day. Paul......where ever did you go? Nothing amiss I hope!!! Come back to us soon.

Cheers....Michelle#3

Posted by: Michelle #3 on October 12, 2005 06:03 AMfrom IP: 207.200.116.135

Mary S--or Mary !! Mary !! Quite contrary !! How does your garden grow !!!!
IM'M SO CONFUSED--with all of the chicken pickens and hen pecking, chicken plucking, and Barbie Doll Chickies---Oh !! I'm sorry it's just me looking in the mirror at myself doing all the clucking. You are sooooo right Mary-had-a-little-lamb--If Paul doesn't start a new thread we will all be in a chicken stew??? Tofu Anyone??
Perhaps a new reality show like the Apprentice.
What do you think we could call it Mary???
Mary--as for a new name for you--How about QE2--The cruise ship The Queen Mary?? Being on this site is a little like being on a cruise ship??
Call me crazy??? Abandon ship--Chicken Over-board--Last one in is a rotten egg!!!! Oh Praise the Lord I must be loosing it???? Save me Mary--I'm drowning in my own chicken S--t---well being a Christian I shouldn't say it!!!!!!I better stop before someone gives me the axe---I mean let's talk chicken tenders.

NOW!!Back to our regular scheduled broadcast!
This is your DJ Mother Love signing off and sending sweet dreams to all of you viewers in PC's Postal Land

note: This post has not yet been rated. Viewer discression is advised.

Daisywink Chickie LOL

Posted by: on October 12, 2005 06:22 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Hi Daisywink Chickie !!! you've really made me laugh !!! wooden shoes on chicken feet ?? LOL !!!
Yes, I really am dutch, that explains my bad Enlish.....:-)

love
Dutch chickie

Posted by: Monika on October 12, 2005 06:33 AMfrom IP: 81.206.125.3

Dearest Monika Chickie:

Glory Be !!!! I LOVE wooden shoes!!! We must all get a custom pair to wear for Follies party. I take an extra wide an leave generous holes so that I can get my big claws into them with my nails exposed. I will have custom nails applied to me feet with wonderful artistry. Maybe Peter can have his done in mirror tiles to go with his Disco outfit and all that fast foot--RiverDance foot work in those mirrored wooden shoes will take Broadway by storm. Wooden shoes are perfect to decorate for all of us Martha Stewart followers. Ruby Slipper wooden shoes anyone for Halloween? They can also be hand carved to look like chickens---Oh!! Their I go again and I see someone running this way with an axe--LOL-LOL--LOL

Mother Love--Daisywink Chickie--signing off

Posted by: on October 12, 2005 07:15 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Hi All!

I know I haven't been on in awhile but I wanted to say a quick hello to everyone. There is one thing on my mind this morning.

Did Michelle see Monika and did she travel with Mr. Squeeky?

Grandma Millie I'll give you a ring today.

Peter, hope all is well in Purle Land.

And I wish the best for the gazzillion oldbies and newbies on this blog :)

And best wishes to the Big Kahoona and his lovely family Andrea and the kiddos!


Posted by: Julie on October 12, 2005 09:35 PMfrom IP: 65.10.220.224

Hi Julie,

Yes, Michelle and I met !! I arrived on Friday evening and spent the weekend with grandma and her chickies and then I went on a cruise, the Monday after the Follies.
Well, too bad you could be there that weekend.

love,
Monika

Posted by: on October 12, 2005 11:49 PMfrom IP: 81.206.125.3

Oh, Julie, ofcourse I meant: too bad you could NOT be there that weekend ....oooopppss...sorry... :-))

Posted by: Monika on October 12, 2005 11:54 PMfrom IP: 81.206.125.3

Dearest GranMil
It seems as though it has been an eternity since you last posted. What do you feel about our house party for The Follies and what changes need to be made? Please check in as I am concerned.
Dear, dear club members--to get to know all of you better I have been reading your archives. As I do minister at our church on occassion I sometimes borrow little tid-bits of humor and phrases from other sources. If you see any of your coined phrases show up in my posts--please consider it a compliment--I will keep researching your archives for those little pearls to pass on to my congregation.
A senior moment--now that is a CLASSIC!!!

Warmest regards,
Daisywink Chickie---Mother Love

Posted by: on October 13, 2005 12:12 AMfrom IP: 67.154.156.211

Hi everyone. I've had to go with moderated comments for now. Soon I'll be setting up registration so regular commenters don't have to wait.

Posted by: Cat on October 13, 2005 12:59 AMfrom IP: 208.27.203.128

Hi Julie!

Yes, I met Monika this February in Florida. She's wonderful, by the way!

Squeaky and I are leaving for Ireland in 10 days. I can't wait! I'm so looking forward to seeing Mary and her family, but I'm sorry they'll have to put up with Squeaky and his snarky personality. He's only in it for the Guinness. Figures.

Posted by: Michelle (Chicago) on October 13, 2005 01:59 AMfrom IP: 24.14.241.164

Helloooooo out there.

What a hellish day at work today! Had to visit and see if Paul came back with anything new to inspire me ...but nothing.... :(

I hope this means that all is well with him and he is just too busy. He needs to keep busy! lol. j/k ;) It feels weird that he's not here.

I know we all have a wild old time in here and we really do help keep each other sane (using the term loosly), but afterall, it IS Paul's site and he is the reason we keep coming back, eh? ;)

Well, I guess we'll just have to keep talking amongst ourselves until good old Paul returns!

Goodnight, you princes of Maine. You kings of New England.

Posted by: on October 13, 2005 10:54 AMfrom IP: 192.18.101.5

Hello to all!! I am glad to see our Grand Damme is doing well! Hello to you dearest Grandma Millie. I miss you guys and I do drop in to see how the Corner is going. Michelle be sure to send pics of you and Mr. S. enjoying Ireland. Talk to you all soon.
Love, Inn

Posted by: Inn on October 13, 2005 11:41 AMfrom IP: 24.115.26.221

Dear Paul,
I remember all the days about write to you, but I am always very hurry. I am in Rio de Janeiro studing Samba, Ballroom, Hip Hop in the better schooll of dance in Brasil knowledge "Casa de Dança Carlinhos de Jesus"! Carlinhos de Jesus is a star in brasil and I am very happy in here because this city is wonderfull! I am in here because you help me very much with your dance, your positive words and thoughts. You are very important to me! In this week I will write more to you!
Caroline

Posted by: Caroline on October 13, 2005 10:24 PMfrom IP: 200.165.247.241

Wow. This sure has put a halt to alot of chatting, huh? How sad. What happened? Did someone do something or say something wrong? I posted a hello to all you wonderful people yesterday that still hasn't made it on to the site. I swear, it was PC..meaning, politcally correct. ;)

Maybe Paul couldn't get a word in edgewise and that's why we haven't heard from him in so long? lol

We just miss him and had to carry on without him. Cat, please keep the flow moving if possible. We'll be good, we promise! :)

Posted by: MaryS on October 14, 2005 09:01 AMfrom IP: 192.18.101.5

Hi Mary--

The comment came through anonymously, so I had no idea it was you. I'll approve it now. I've been approving everything from legitimate IDs.

Posted by: Cat on October 14, 2005 11:32 AMfrom IP: 24.21.137.118

Hello PC Friends,

I just wanted to drop a line or two.

My husbasnd and I will be celebrating 13 years of marriage on October 18th. Here's the weird thinking about that: I'm still not used to last name and I can't believe that we were still having babies at 12 1/2 years of marriage-just what were we thinking!!?? He is the best though-always thinking of us and taking care of me and our girls. And, I don't feel like "an old married woman"-for the most part-I feel like we're always new and yet comfortable. For instance-I never knew that his favorite dish was lasagna until about 2 years ago! I could go on and on about what I love about my husband but I can't-there isn't enough room on this board.

CAT-I suspect that your post in red means that someone is saying nasty stuff on here. I can remember we had a few posters in the past who just couldn't behave themselves.

Okay, there's my two lines. Do have a lovely weekend everybody!!

HUGS!
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on October 14, 2005 08:52 PMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Just thought I'd call in and say hello to everyone. Hope you're all doing well.

I am counting the days here to Michelle's visit. I can't wait!! Not quite sure if I am ready for the Squeaky One though, but then - is that humanly possible??

Michelle, I think we should just deposit him in some pub with a repeat order of Guinness and a friendly bartender who will distract him while we make our getaway. What do you reckon?

Hi to Inn & Monika. Good to see you both calling in!

Special hello to Sally. How are you doing?

Evelyn, hope yesterday went well for you.

Abeth, Happy Anniversary! Wishing you and your beloved joy & all good things for the year ahead.

Friday evening tiredness here. I've been flat out today. Speaking of which...

Hello Peter.

Love to Paul & all,
Mary

Posted by: Mary on October 15, 2005 03:15 AMfrom IP: 83.70.243.182

Thanks for bringing me back to life Cat! I appreciate it. lol...now if we could just find Paul and bring him back to life too...

Posted by: MaryS on October 15, 2005 05:56 AMfrom IP: 192.18.101.5

Has anyone figured out Evelyn's birthday yet? I was hoping ya 'all would pipe in and give me the answer to that puzzling mystery. :)

Happpy Birthday to Evelyn whenever it is xxxoooo

Posted by: Tea on October 17, 2005 02:33 AMfrom IP: 67.190.53.44

Tea, the teacher in me is refusing to give you the answer and challenges you to go solve the mystery of my birthday yourself :-) But the teacher in me is also willing to help you succeed. So how about if you go to www.google.com and type in "Austrian National Holiday" and click on "search" and you will get the answer, I promise!!!

Mary, the conference went well (thank god it's over though) Being on the conference organizing committee and presenting at the same conference looks good, but it's also dumb, since you are even more overworked. But my talk went well and was well received by the experts on Don Quixote, which I'm clearly not. Now I get to rewrite the talk into a publishable article. Deadline January 1---I can do this, well I have to do this! And I guess what I'm most proud of is that I made it through the poem I recited at some point during the conference and the 20-minute presentation without starting a coughing fit. As sick as I've been the last two weeks, that was a huge accomplishment! But I'm beginning to recover and actually got good amounts of sleep the last two nights, after getting only 3 - 4 hours for over a week and coughing for about 2 - 3 hours double sets each night, the world feels so much more amazingly better now. :-)

Okay, back to job applications.
Love to all of you,
Evelyn

Posted by: Evelyn on October 17, 2005 09:52 AMfrom IP: 69.24.164.143

Hi all!
i´ve been without posting for lots of months.I´ve been very busy lately.
I just started a postgrade master in Human resources(i got the degree in psychology!!!)and i´m still in Madrid enjoying my time.
I was reading now almost all your posts and i figured out that Grandma Mill was sick!Oh god,i pray to god for you to get very well soon.
You know,guys?even though i´ve been without posting for so long,i never forgot all of you and the nice environment you create in here,it´s so beautiful...I really feel i´d like to meet you all personally because anytime i hear some of you meet so often and so easily...i envy you!.
Thank you for being there,writing and listening the others...
Lots of love from your spanish friend,
Isabel

Posted by: isabel(madrid) on October 18, 2005 12:39 AMfrom IP: 213.0.207.249

That's right!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was Mary that Michelle was going to visit not Monika.

Now that I have it straight I can't wait to here about all the adventures of Squeeky!

Mary I send my best wishes to you and Mary I hope you have a safe trip! It was great meeting you both at the FIF.

Happy birthday Abeth!

Work picked up over the weekend since the hurrican season has died down (one little system still pending). I have aquired my first private client, well I'm doing a trade with a personal trainer. For one massage I get two half hour personal training sessions. I started last week and boy she kicked my butt! I couldn't move for two days. I'm contiplating whether I should strive to be a wonder woman after all or maybe I should consider eating ice cream and start a more serious relationship with my couch.

Otherwise the weather if finally cooling off and Sunday evening I went to Down town Hollywood for the Art and Jazz festival. My husband's collegue from work who's sings Blues was performing with Sally Towns a SInger and piano player from New Orleans who lives now in Fort Lauderdale. It was a great way to celebrate the cooler weather.

Grandma Millie I promise I'll give you a call soon!

Take care everyone,

Posted by: julie on October 18, 2005 04:52 AMfrom IP: 65.2.228.226

Abeth, Happy 13th Anniversary to you and your husband! I am sure that a wonderful celebration is in order (lucky 13th) and that your wonderful family will celebrate with you!

Isabel, it's good to hear from you, and to learn that you are working toward those important degrees. We are proud of you!

I am doing well, thank you, and my health is steadily improving. My doctors are happy with my progress, and soon I will be driving and going back to the ladies' gym where my early morning friends had been asking about me.

Evelyn, I went into Google, and your secret is safe with me! Let the others find out like I had to do...a terrific tool, that Google!

I am counting the days also for Michelle and Mary's reunion! Oh, to be a fly...somewhere between Chicago and Dublin!

Cat,you mentioned that Paul's star is rising.

Has he started that film with Bill Hunter?
(Barry Fife in "Strictly Ballroom".)

If that is Paul's latest endeavor, it is so encouraging that he will be back in the limelight where he belongs with his acting ability!

Shalom and Love,

Grandma Mil

Posted by: GRANDMA MIL on October 18, 2005 05:15 AMfrom IP: 4.231.206.187

Dear Grandma Mill

I am very happy in Rio de Janeiro and I saw a show with a big star in Brasil (Marília Pêra) about Carmem Miranda and I understand very much about her. I will send the photos for you.

Paul, I am doing many things because I still have a dream and I fell this is possible: to know you!
I will give for the dancer Carlinhos de Jesus the film Srictly Ballroom and talk very much about you!
Caroline

Posted by: Caroline on October 18, 2005 07:47 AMfrom IP: 200.165.247.241

Hello PC Friends,

Thanks to those who sent well wishes.

I live in Baltimore and we made the news-nationaly and world. A possible terror threat in two tunnels. And, to top it off, two people under investigation live in my area.

I normally do not discuss religion and politics. But, I will voice my opinion this time. People kill each other over these two issues. And, terrorism is a double edged sword-it's all about religion and politics. Our world was forever changed with 9/11-today was another example. My children will never remember the freedoms that most of us lived with before 9/11.

I'm jumping off of my soapbox now.

Bit of a positive spin though-I have my Christmas shopping done for all 3 girls and stayed way under budget! I know, I know-good for me, right?

HUGS!
Abeth

Posted by: abeth on October 19, 2005 04:41 AMfrom IP: 162.129.236.37

Hello everyone,

This has to be one of the longest streams ever at PC, huh?

We need Paul to start a new subject for us. I wonder what he's up to? Did somebody say he is filming a movie? I hope he's so busy he doesn't know what to do with himself! That would be awesome. I had a quiet weekend. The season of Fall is really upon us here in Colorado. I'll be doing some major raking of leaves this coming weekend. The big joy of my weekend was having a 5 week old baby girl smile at me! She just started smiling a week ago and her daddy is about the only other one that has seen it! It was really something. This is a friend of mine's little Riley. It was so sweet.

Reminded me that we need to try to stay as pure as we can and find joy in simple things each and every day.

Talk to you all soon! Have a great week if I don't visit before it's over.

MaryS

Posted by: MaryS on October 19, 2005 04:57 AMfrom IP: 192.18.101.5
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