Paul's Corner

It was refreshing to read the things you've learned, because they obviously were written from the heart. However, some of them made me sad ~ "loyalty is a great concept that has only served to limit my ability to get ahead." Far better is the man who shows integrity by being loyal than the man whose priority it is to get ahead, so never regret your integrity. Set the bar for the ideals you cherish, even if no one else can measure up. "Remember you have more friends than enemies ~ this is an untruth." I can't dispute this one, because I don't know what you've been through; but this comment also made me sad. I see a bit of a cynic, and I certainly can relate. It's difficult to be an idealist in an unidealistic world. The final life lesson I'll comment on is "Ultimately you are alone in this journey." While you are ultimately responsible for what you do with your journey, it only seems you're alone. God, who promises never to leave you or forsake you, is only a heartbeat away. What a joy that He chose to give you such talent and that you chose to share it with the rest of us.

Nice list Paul! Good morning to you, from half a world away in the mountains of Montana. Here's a few to add:

"We live only to discover beauty. All else is a form of waiting."

"Doubt is a pain too lonely to know that faith is his twin brother."

"And think not you can guide the course of love. For love, if it finds you worthy, will guide your course."

All quotes are some of my favs by Kahlil Gibran.

Paul I'm not sure what brought this post on, it doesn't really sound like you. Your posts are usually full of such positive energy and optimistic statements and this one seems a bit "off". So, I'm just going to stop in and to give you a internet (HUG) and lots of good vibes your way.
Luv,
Tea
xxxoo

I admire your ability to put into words your innermost thoughts and share them with us, Paul. Obviously, a great deal of thought went into this, and I hope that you found what you were looking for.

Be well.
Sally C.

I agree that this post holds a bit more of a cynical tone than we are used to coming from our favorite PM (glad I could make those from Oz smile with my PM reference).

Having been burned a few times in life, I think those that get burned the most are those that trust in the goodness of human nature the most. Does that make us bad? No, it just shows that we have a higher level of hope and optimism than a lot of others.

Maybe one of the statements can read, "never post messages when you're drunk." (I say this with a wink and a smile)

On another note, the Aussie accountants have charged my card for the Food Trail DVD and that means my order will be jetting its way here. I can't wait to see the show and clips of Australia.

I'll keep you posted!

Paul--as I read this it recalls what I went through the past few years with a dance master I worked with frequently. Some tough lessons, there!

It's a fine tightrope on which we balance ourselves through life. Every now and then we find someone's cut the net and we're on our own. Then after we've crossed, another rope appears with new netting, new steps, new lessons, new horizons.

Sending a hug your way!

Melody

Paul, I'm glad you posted (re-posted?) this. I know it was meant over-all to be serious, but I must admit to getting a chuckle out of the ones regarding being drunk. I went through a very rough spell with a close friend who was attached to an alcoholic and we both learned a lot from it. When I read "sadly this advice is hard to follow when you are drunk" all I could see was this alcoholic trying to apologize for something or starting a fight - and all I could do was shake my head and chuckle.

"Be accountable - no one made you do it." I couldn't have said it better. I own up to my mistakes - even the really big, distastrous ones but I have friends who always want to lay the blame elsewhere. Its frustrating to me.

Paul, I hope having posting this you find yourself in a better place. :o)

HELLO PC FRIENDS,

My mother passed away a week ago Monday. She was only 63. I'm too heartbroken to go into alot detail...I do know...that I miss her a whole hell of alot. My mornings are the toughest part of the day.

At some point-I'll try to catch up on the Corner. For right now I'm only absent because I just need to be.

HUGS!
Abeth

We have to just keep on trying.

much love to everyone and peace,

Julie

Abeth--very tough to lose a mother. My heart goes to you.

Melody

Abeth, you and your family have my condolences on your loss.

Abeth, I am so very sorry to hear of your mothers passing. There is nothing I can say that will make you feel any different I can only offer my best wishes to you and your family. I send you my thoughts and love and hope that they may fortify you in the time ahead.

Paul

Abeth,
You don't know me yet. I'm new to the Corner but I just wanted to say that I am truly sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I do know how difficult it is to lose a parent. My father passed 17 years ago and I miss him like crazy. Hang in there, I would say it gets easier but it really doesn't. My solice is that I know in my heart that I will see my father, again, some day, in the mean time I talk to him a lot in my heart.

Peace, Love, and Fish.
Love,
Linda

Abeth, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sally C.

Dear Abeth,
a big hug of comfort to you! May you find a shoulder to cry on when you need it, someone to lean on when you feel you can't go on and may you find joy in life despite of all the sadness. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

Love to you!

Paul, a very interesting collection of lessons and wisdoms. Lots of food for thought!

I was quite surprised that several thought you were cynical in that list.
"Life is going to challenge you, don't take it personally." I like that one. The one about getting hurt being a choice, also is an interesting one, true, sometimes painfully so.

Evelyn

Abeth, I'm sorry that I didn't catch your message sooner I kinda posted without reading the latest entries. I'm sorry about the loss of your mother. I'm sure she must have been a great gift in your life.

take care Abeth,

Julie

Well, this is an interesting site. Who knew that someone attractive and talented could be a philosopher too? You have it all over the American actors, let me tell you. I can't find a brain cell between them all. Nah, maybe that's too harsh. It is nice to see someone using their experience and intellect for good rather than evil. This is my first time coming to this site. I watched Strictly Ballroom this weekend as part of my own little Australian Film Festival (Danny Deckchair and Welcome to Woop Woop were the other films.) I must say....I first saw you in Exit to Eden which I thought was absolutely hilarious, not to mention sexy (that scene....you know the one....dang....) The acting was credible and kept me glued to the screen -- WELL DONE. I wasn't expecting the same from Strickly Ballroom, as the notion of a film about ballroom dancing just wasnt my cup of tea. However, and as much as I hate to admit that I am wrong -- The movie was terrific! And me being American and having only seen you act -- who knew you could dance???? Now that I have investigated a bit, it appears that I may be the only person that didnt know this. And I loved Woop Woop too....funny, funny movie. So, I thought I would leave you a little note to say thank you, and best wishes for continued success. By the way, have you thought about approaching The Food Network here in the states to do a tour of Australian cuisine type of show? I know it would be a huge hit. You should contact them. GOOD LUCK!

Cindy welcome to the site and thank you for your comments. I love the fact that you saw me as an actor first and then someone who could dance! Here in Aus I am seen firstly as a dancer and often not considered in the acting stakes although I have done quite a bit of acting here and in the US and been nominated for awards for my acting - anyway that is life in a small country!

Abeth I am still sending thoughts and hugs and hope you are doing well.

Evelyn, I was surprised too that some poeple saw the list or elements of it as cynical. Then again I wouldnt disagree with them entirely. The list has more to do with life lessons of recent times ie this year and therefore some cynicism may have seeped in!

Abeth, thinking of you, much love..

Okay, PCers, Razzle Dazzle opened in Australia on March 15th, with wonderful reviews...a hit was born!

The critics are bringing up Strictly Ballroom, admitting that it reminds them a bit of that, but RD is very quirky, where SB melted our hearts.

Paul plays himself, and Tara plays the costume designer, Marianne, who hardly speaks, but has a one outstanding part...she SINGS Spandau Ballet's ballad, "Gold".

(Hers was the voice singing "Time After Time" as Fran and Scott danced in front of the Coca Cola sign.)

Razzle Dazzle is going to be a BIG hit, and I'm convinced will make it to the U.S. I saw a video clip from the Daily Telegraph in Australia.

Neither you or Tara were in the clip. It was full of fun, color, and pushy stage mothers and their children!

Congratulations!

Shalom and love,

Grandma Mil

Dear Abeth,

I lost my own mother (suddenly) a year ago. Like you, my heart was broken, thinking I would never again see her smile, hear her voice, feel her touch.

Then one day, I was out with my 10 year old son and he said, “Mom, can we get a drink? I’m parched!” PARCHED!!! A word befitting a proper New England lady (my Mom), not a 10 year old boy! I stared at him dumbfounded for a second, and then I started to laugh (for the first time since my mother died) as a wave of warmth overwhelmed me. There she was – my MOM; in the words of her beloved grandson, and I could feel her laughing with me.

I began to look around my world and realized that I could see, feel and hear her EVERYWHERE, and no place more than in my own mirror.

You have lost your mother, but she hasn’t lost you – and the two of you WILL laugh again – I promise.

With deepest sympathy.

Abeth,

My sympathies to you. I like what Rosie said and wish that for you.

Marian

Millie--did you just pull up the website of the Daily Telegraph to see the clip? Will give it a try.

Paul--when I first saw Strictly Ballroom I initially thought you were an actor with obvious dance background. I didn't know until years later how extensive you were in dance. I felt Tara was more coached for the role. Mind you the first time I saw SB, I snuck back in the theatre for a second round. (By the time it left the Chicago area, many of my friends saw it at least 6 times or better. When it was available to rent, it hardly was in stock--they had to get additional copies to keep up with the demand.)

As to our mothers, we can also see how they touch us through other relatives. My Aunt Mitzi has certain characteristics of my mother that I recognize now, but when I was younger, they were two very different people for being sisters. I also see my mother in my niece, Nina.

My mother will be gone 8 years in August, but she still manages to speak in ways that I know she's thinking of me. The same for my father as well, now gone 25 years--still cannot believe that it's been that long ago. He was fond of squirrels, and would always feed them in our yard, getting a kick out of their antics. Now, if a squirrel comes up to me, it's as though he's saying "hi" from Dad.

Abeth, you will have special moments where your mother will touch your heart.

Good weekend, all!

Melody

Rosie, you are so absolutely right on. For me it is my Dad who died suddenly 10 years ago. And there have been many encounters where I sensed my Dad through other people in my life. One of my colleagues sometimes reminds me of Dad and I've found myself smile through several meetings lately, when there were things he did that so reminded me of Dad, things I hadn't seen or heard since Dad's passing. These gifts are amazing!

And Abeth, if you have the need to talk to your Mum, do it! She does hear you, even though she might not be sitting accross from you talking back to you the way you are used to, she will answer in her own way. You just have to learn a new language!

Hello Friends,

Abeth, first and formost, my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine losing your mother at such a younge age as she was. I have to assume it was not expected. I hope that you find a place in your heart to heal and to always keep her in a good place within you. I hope the sadness doesn't keep you from growing in your life. I know it won't. You always seem to be in such a good place. Keep your mother with you there. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Paul, your post is as true and genuine as you always seem to remain. You have always seemed to have your demoms, just like the rest of us in this world. What I think is so awesome is that this is a forum for you to vent all the wonderful sides that make you who you are and you trust this site and all of us enough to do this. I feel honored to have become a part of all of your lives albeit in a virtual manner.

I opened my little flea market shop almost 2 weeks ago. It gives me great pride to have pulled it off. It looks precious and I am discovering a new found love and respect for items from the past. I have never been a "junk" collector, but I have come across some very precious items. Some are fun and some are very rare. I am having fun bringing these to people who might find joy in them. I'm selling slowly but surely, but each week when I visit the shop and straighten it up and bring new items, I feel like it's my baby,...pride and joy. It's fun!!!

I hope that Spring approaching (in the U.S.) is bringing new energy and excitement to all of you. Is is winter in Australia now Paul. Excuse my lack of knowledge.

P.s. SB is showing on cable here again. I own the movie but watched it anyway last weekend and had such fun! Thanks Paul.

Talk to you all soon! xxoo

Abeth, you have my deepest sympathy. My mother died suddenly when I was 20 (she was 54). She and my father had returned a month earlier from the funeral of one of her sisters. It was a traumatic time. By all means, give yourself plenty of time to grieve. As you do, please know that we'll all give you virtual hugs when you need them. Tell us about your mother when you are up to it.

Ah Paul. Lot's of wisdom here. I too was wondering if something had recently happened to provoke some of these thoughts. Thanks for the reminder to love and accept one's self. So easy to forget about ourselves and the kindness we need as we ride this rollercoaster. And we live in a hyper-critical world where the psychological approach to date has us picking ourselves apart to find the damaged parts. I read today that two professors are working to develop a positive psychology program at a California University. Yeah!!!

I've been gone for a while. Not out of choice. Just very busy. Allan just left tonight for Sydney and his "Puppet Up" shows there and in Melbourne. I have to stay here to run the business, run the house, do my city work, get Jacob off to college visits, etc. Not to say that I haven't done my share of complaining or that things couldn't be better (health and finances could definitely improve); but at least we have an embarrassment of riches in the people we know and love, the opportunities that are out there for us, and the satisfaction of our basic needs. It could be far worse.

So while the cat's away, this mouse will have a little more time to visit ya'll! Have a good weekend!

Love,

Diane

Melody, the website for the Sydney Daily Telegraph is:
www.dailytelegraph.com.au

It's already the Sunday Telegraph, so go into the
archives and click on March 15th, 2007, for the
movie article "Stage Mum from Hell". Then, you'll see where you can get the video clip that I saw.

You'll see in the article that the reporter writes about comparisons to SB.

Shalom and Love,

Grandma Mil

Melody, I left out one important step:

Go into "Entertainment" archives for "Stage Mum From Hell." Both Tara and Paul are mentioned that they have roles, and were in SB together.

As I've been reading through everyone's posts on their losses its brought to surface some feelings I thought I'd moved past. I too had a sudden death in my somewhat immediate family. In August it will be four years since my younger cousin Danny was suddenly taken from us in a small plane crash. Last night I sat here crying while thinking about him - tears of sadness that his life was cut short and also of comfort to remind myself he did not suffer. He died doing what he loved which was flying.

This November will mark the 2 year anniversary of my uncle Dennis' passing of cancer. We had virtually no warning as he was diagnosed with cancer in his lower spine in October, and by November he was gone. We don't know where the cancer came from only that he had to be highly drugged to be kept pain free.

The worst part about both these deaths, and any unexpected death of a loved one, is the inability to say "goodbye" as you would if the death came from a prolonged illness. I still miss both of them more than I ever imagined I would but I know they are both with me. I know they were watching over me that day in January when I had my accident. Even the officer at the scene said someone was watching over me, and he was right they were.

Abeth, and everyone else who has suffered a loss, your loved ones are never farther than your heart. Don't be afraid to suddenly laugh or cry when you think of them because that is how you keep them alive. I thank all of you for reminding me of that. :o) (I need a tissue now...)

Grandma Mil, thank you for the link. I wonder how long the clip will take to download on my slow dial-up connection... eep.

Will all the current talk of loved ones passing, I wonder if I might ask a question of a different nature... besides Paul who is a March baby? I'll start: I am. I was blessed to great another birthday not too long ago (the 7th). I'm one of those Pisces, dratted creative people that we are. ;o) No wonder I cry at the drop of a pin. LOL

please keep posting, paul. you are a wonderful artist. we do not see that much of you in europe, which is a pity. dance is a big thing i our family,but lookig at your many wasy to express yourself is even more inspiring.
we want to see much much more of you. sb is a great movie, as it got us to "find" you. (we are german-italian-americans living in sardinia/italy).
your admirers renata, chiara 12, chelsea 8, floyd 7

Dear Sarah,

Oh, how I know of the heartbreak when one loses a dear one in an accident, particularly a small plane accident.

It will be 33 years March 24th when my "baby" sister, age 36, perished along with her husband and 3 children, ages 12, 10 and 6 in the crash of their private plane while returning home to Indiana from Aspen, Colorado, where they had spent a wonderful week skiing.

The snows were so deep in the Rocky Mountains that the crash site was never found until July, when the snows melted, and the plane was spotted in a canyon, 5 minutes from the airport.

Talk about profiles in courage. My dear mother and father had to endure this at their age (in their 70's) but they gathered up their courage for their remaining years, getting involved in their synagogue near Ellie and me and my older sister.

Every year we who practice Judaism remember our loved ones by lighting a candle each year on the
date of demise, but here we have 5 memorial candles to light at one time each year.

Time has not stood still for the world, but to Ellie and me, it is like yesterday, especially when March 24th rolls around.

It was a terrible time. It was human error on the part of my brother-in-law, and to this day I cannot forgive him. My mother tried to find some solace in the fact that they died together, doing something they enjoyed.

It took me a long time to even fly on large jets after this incident. NEVER go on small planes!

Lately, I had reason to go into our photo album storage place, and found my sister's wedding album. Ellie and I were literally stunned, for one of our twin daughters, Marcia, now 47 years old, is the spitting image of my late sister!

A picture hangs on our photo wall with the 5 of them, at a wedding, 3 months before their fateful trip.

Life has gone on, as it must, but we will always have a special place in our hearts, for we miss them, and the regrets remain even after all these years.

On a happier topic: If you all go to Google and
type in "Tara Morice, Razzle Dazzle", and then go
to the bottom and click on #2, you will find the second entry named: "Bra Boys and Razzle Dazzle"

Click on that and it brings up 2 movies; "Bra Boys" and "Razzle Dazzle". Click on "Watch Video".

"Bra Boys" is first, so have patience, and then
"Razzle Dazzle" comes on, and towards the end we see Tara as a "gothic" costume designer, and Paul as a celebrity dance instructor. Fabulous!

Shalom and love,

Grandma Mil

Dear Grandma Mil,

Your loss broke my heart. To know the plane carrying your family has crashed and to not find it for so many months. Mountains and snow can be so unforgiving.

Danny, despite his young age, was an experienced pilot. He trained fighter pilots to fly private planes, and he knew what he was doing. The day he died he had been training the son of the plane's owner. In the state of FL it is illegal to teach a family member to fly, so Danny accepted the son (who was also a friend) as his student. They were landing at a small, private airstrip in incliment weather when the plane went down. It could not be determined the cause of the crash, so it was declared pilot error. Of the 3 men on board, 2 perished - my cousin and the father/owner. Both these men were seasoned pilots. The son was horribly burned and is now a double amputee. He doesn't remember much, but he remembers his dad telling my cousin "I've got it." I know in my heart, as does my family, that crash was not pilot error.

Grandma Mil, I like the idea of lighting a candle on the date of passing. I usually take a few moments to remember Danny on that day, and now I will light a candle when I do.

I will definitely go check out the photos you mentioned via the google search as well. I haven't seen a recent photo of Tara in quite some time. :o)

All the best to everyone else in PC land.

Paul, there were some points that did sound a bit jaded and that's not like you. I can only imagine what may have happened to cause such a different perspective in your otherwise usual geniune cheerfulness but I'm sure it'll pass and leave you back to your sweet, loving and charming self. There are also points you have made I agree with and that do sound like the Paul I have come to know through this blog. :)
Love, Tea
xxxoo

Hi Paul, I'm just wondering if you would like to come to my Tafe and be a model for me. I'm doing figure sculpture at Tafe and I'm looking for a male celeb to be a model. I'm not asking you to pose naked (not completely) I'm only wanting to do your head and torso. My tafe is in Light sqaure Adelaide. You don't have to do it if you don't feel comfortable. But if do I'll be glad to have you come in. I do figure scuplture on Friday's starting at 10:15am to 4:15pm. Could you please let me know as soon as posible. If you feel that you don't want to do it you can send me some photos of yourself and I'll go from there. Have a think about it and then let me know.
Hugs anf kissess Becky.
P.S It's a lot of fun and you woun't be bored.

Dear Sarah and other PCers:

I had a senior moment. After you click on #2 at the bottom of Google (the result page), go to the THIRD ENTRY, marked "Bra Boys, Razzle Dazzle." Then click on "Watch Video".

Sarah, you won't recognize Tara at first, but I did immediately, the way I did when she played a prostitute for 2 seconds in "Moulin Rouge", all made up in a wig, heavy makeup, etc.

Paul, Razzle Dazzle's soundtrack is available on
CD from Amazon.com. I ordered it, natch, for there are some terrific numbers on it that I recognize, and also because Tara Morice has a bonus track at the end. I guess that's the song
"Gold" that she sings in the movie, made famous by the British group, Spandau's Ballet...I never heard of that group before, but others, much younger than I, have.

You CAN teach an old dog new tricks....

Shalom and love,

Grandma Mil

Becky as I live in Melbourne it will not be possible for me to drop by Adelaide and sit for you. As for pictures I dont think I have anything appropriate for sculpting from - there are plenty of pictures on this site and also if you google me in pictures you will get some unfortunately that is about all there is.

I light a candle every year on the day of my brothers birthday in rememberence of the day he came into this world and for a while lit it brightly.

I did see the promo video for Razzle Dazzle (thanks to our Millie) and I may get the soundtrack myself from Amazon. I'm looking foward to seeing the movie when it comes out on DVD in the U.S. Its great to see Tara playing these interesting characters such as in Moulin Rouge and Razzle Dazzle.

and Paul...you're looking cute these days (I'm sure Andrea agrees **wink**.

all my best to all,

Julie

ps: we remember those who have been a gift in our lives but we also have to continue to allow those other gifts to come into our lives as well.

Thanks, Grandma Mil for showing us how to find "Razzle Dazzle" on the Daily Telegraph website. Somehow I could not get the trailer to play from their website, but I managed going through Yahoo and found the Razzle Dazzle website and watched the trailer there. Paul, I saw you briefly, looks like you were saying hi to the student corps.

I think of my young days in class compared to how competitive schools have become today. I had a subscription to Dance Teacher magazine here in the States, hoping to get some insight on being a better teacher, only to be bombarded by articles and ads on competitions, being competitive, more competitions--sigh!!!! As I teach Flamenco, I was rather glad I'm not part of the current trend of the ballet, gymnastics, hip hop comps.

Prior to my current location, I taught at a community dance school that did the annual Nutcracker, one other classical ballet like Copelia, or Cinderella, and then the annual gala concert where the students showed all that they learned--it was during these productions that some mothers were true stage mothers, and the politics were high. Some roles would go to the student whose mother did this and that for the school, or made the costume for the particular role--a few years before I left, that was curtailed and the students auditioned for principal roles, or were awarded on merit, but even then the mothers were in full force behind the scenes.

(My students usually performed Spanish character dances in these ballets, and being they were teens and adults, I didn't have to deal with the stage moms. Actually, the parents didn't know what to make of Flamenco and what we did, so I was left more on my own.)

It will be interesting to see Razzle Dazzle. I hope it makes it to the US.

Switching to everyone's touching comments on losing family members, lighting candles are very much a part of me in remembering those I've lost. It warms the soul and I feel we're reconnected through the light as the candle burns.

Hello Paul, Cat and the rest,

I just discovered this site and felt compelled to drop a few lines. I am big fan of Paul, and loved "Strictly Ballroom", painfully so much.

Absolutely love to read your postings. The best part of it is that Paul answers to his fans.

Someone made this video and posted onto YouTube
http://youtube.com/watch?v=3P1SP5drjOE
and there are many more if you type "Paul Mercurio" or "Strictly Ballroom". And a lot of good comments, too.

Paul, am I ever so glad that there are unfortunately only a few photo images of you from Google search. You are still within our reach.

But wish you all the best!

Cheers!

Lulu from Boston

Hey Miss Millie!,
Just checked out the Razzle Dazzle clip! Too cute! (Paul, that is). Tara looks as beautiful as ever! Looks like a fun flick!

Abeth, still thinking good thoughts for you and your family.

Paul, you've written down some very thought provoking one liners. I think I like the one about leading and living by example best. I think as parents, providing the example comes with the package...negatives and positives, what we do with them and how we change them and be changed by them....

Hope all is well with you, Paul, and your family, to to all the PC's....Happy Spring!!!

Margie

Hi Paul, I've been looking through all my photos of you to find a perfect pose so I can sculpt you but most of them are from Strictly ballroom,and there's one from Exit to Eden and I really need one of you the way you look now. So I was wondering if you could get your wife to take a photo of you shirtless. Only if that's alright with you. Then could you send it to me. And I'll send you a photo of the finished piece so you and your family can look at it.
Let me know if this is alright or not.
Hugs and smiles.
Becky.

Hello, PCers,
My heart goes out to everyone suffering fresh losses as well as those reliving past losses; my parents have been gone a long time, my dad almost 27 years, and we knew it was happening, and my mom 15 years ago, suddenly.
The only way to never regret what you wished you had said is to say it while you can. My entire family always makes "I love you" the last thing we say, because you never know how many more chances you will get.
I finally saw the Razzle Dazzle clip; it's going on my buy list. Not so much Bra Boys, lol.
hugs and smiles,
deltalady aka Sally

Hi all -
I've been posting for about 2 years now - I think that sounds about right doesn't it Grandma Mill ??
I'm not a pushy weirdo, yes I am involved in the oz acting industry , yes I am now a stage mother ( haven't done eistedford s with my little one yet but ... bring it on !! )
so......... I realised I'm a bit fed up with posting questions to you
Paul and in all that time haven't had a direct response from you !
Even when it was about promoting Food Trail ..
I know caution is needed with blogs and things but basically I'm over it .
I'll read occasionally to see how Follies and Grandma are doing -
also Tea and Abeth
but otherwise so long, been nice chatting with you all.
cheers Amanda from Sydney
( grandma has my email address and anyone is welcome to get it from her if they wish to contact me directly )

I would like to vouch for my special Australian friend, Amanda, and if anyone wants to write to her, I have her email address.

Yes, she is an actress, singer and dancer, and has a beautiful little girl named Cloe, and we have exchanged photos in the past.

Amanda, extraordinary events have happened to Ellie and me here in Florida, wonderful things that I cannot discuss here yet, but will in the future at the right time.

Margie, "Follies 2007" was a big hit, and already I'm thinking about "Follies 2009"...one must be optimistic!

Paul, I ordered the soundtrack for "Razzle Dazzle" for it has some well known selections in it....funny, I ordered it from Amazon.com but it will be shipped from Australia!

Shalom and Love,

Grandma Mil

I've been here about a year as I came toward the end of March 2006 looking up Paul after my students gave me the anniversary version of Strictly Ballroom--they hear me discuss it, especially Scott's "lesson" from Fran's abuelita from time to time. It had been a few years since I researched him and was amazed to see this website and have a chance to interact with him and his fans, even if interacting may mean just reading his and everyone's notes. It's also good to see his other accomplishments, like Food Trail, beyond dance and film.

I especially appreciate the blog he writes himself, because he's not afraid to let his thoughts come through, especially those that are really heartfelt, and it says alot that he shares in that way on the net for the world to see. Compared to other celebrity websites, this really is upright personal.

(And a quick tip of the hat to Cat for an excellent job maintaining all this.)

¡Olé! and a great weekend all!

Melody

G'day all - new invader here! Just wanted to say:

~Hi Paul - I'm one of your newest fans and probably one of your "less worthy" ones since I have yet to have the pleasure of watching Strictly Ballroom or your other endeavours, but I have noticed you for a long time on Dancing with the Stars as a very professional, positive and encouraging judge. I fell into complete admiration of you 2 weeks ago Tuesday when, after Fifi's partner had a shot at you, you handled it incredibly maturely and good-naturedly (unlike certain other judges *cough*ontheothersideofHelen*cough* would have). I've since explored your site, seen a few clips of Strictly Ballroom etc and now am in full fan mode! You are a very talented and engaging writer, and as for your poems - I've never seen an onion described so beautifully in my life! lol. They are truly amazing. Looking forward to seeing you on telly again this Tuesday, though last time you mentioned hotness, sex and the possibility of taking your shirt off too much for my sanity! Keep it up! hee. No response necessary or expected, just wanted to let you know that, like everyone else here, I think you are great and I have found a valuable source of inspiration here from your dedication to your own personal growth and following your dreams. Thank you! Happy birthday for Saturday!

~Speaking of Paul's birthday, this Saturday the 31st of March is also Earth Hour - an environmental event in Sydney that involves turning off the lights between 7:30 and 8:30pm. I've pledged to do it (though I'm in Brisbane) and while I don't want to advertise something external too much on a private site I just thought the PCers might be interested in remembering and celebrating Paul's birthday while doing something to benefit the world. There are lots of great ideas of things to do during this hour on the website, such as picnics by candlelight, stargazing etc, or you could organise your own event in honour of both occasions. I'd love it if my birthday was celebrated in such a meaningful way anyway. Here's the site:
www.earthhour.org
Just a thought. Probably too pushy for a first post, but I like to pass it off as passionate!

Well Amanda that got my attention! I am sure you will have noticed when reading the posts I dont often answer direct questions - occassionally I do but more often dont. I do not mean to be rude in not doing so usually my head and thoughts are in a different space and I generally avoid 'pen pal' type questions as I dont want this site to be of that nature. I didnt respond to your question on the last post as I started a new post that same day and I didnt go back to the old one once this thread was posted.

You can choose to be a part of this forum and enjoy all of what it has to offer or not it shouldnt be dependent on me giving you a personal response every time you post. Ask anyone here and they will tell you that I havent responded to them either.

That said thank you for supporting Food Trail and making an attempt to get Channel Seven to listen to your voice and as I have not seen Razzle Dazzle I do not know if it is appropriate for your children however I suspect it will be fine but perhaps you should ask someone who has seen it.

I may or may not be better at responding to anyones questions I make no promises regarding where my head is at, I certainly dont want to disappoint anyone - I think the first line of this thread is appropriate and could read -
Some times no matter how hard you try people get disappointed, this is their choice.

Not wanting to disappoint you Becky but I wont be asking my wife to take a picture of me shirtless and sending it to you. I am sure there are plenty of good looking torso's walking around S.A that you could use.

Peta - you havent seen SB yet?! That is good to know because I know you wont be disappointed when you do finally get around to seeing it! Welcome to the site.

I've seen Razzle Dazzle and I don't think it would be a problem for kids. I may not be the one to ask cos I'm not the parenting type (and I was introduced to things like Silence of the Lambs at around age 7) but I believe it's rated G anyway. Kids might find it a bit dull though - the humour can be a bit subtle. Though I do know enough about Strictly Ballroom to recognise a couple of the dance moves the little girl pulled in her private lesson with a certain someone!

Thanks for the welcome Paul! I'll make sure I look into Strictly Ballroom. Just not enough of you in Razzle Dazzle to suffice :D

Hi Paul it's ok that you don't want to model for me but I'm just wondering if you could tell me what part of Victoria Mark Wilson lives in. The reason is that he was on my sculpting list too but I don't know if he would be willing to sit for me or not.

HELLO PC FRIENDS,

I've read every post on here and wanted to give a big, big thank you for all the kind words and thoughts with my mother passing.

It's been 3 weeks. Yet, it seems eternity to me.
At times, it's clear and yet a ball of wax.

My husband has been the rock in my life. If anyone has read any way past posts-you would know that I am married to the best man. I'm able to grieve in any manner that I need. He said occupational therapy will help. I chuckled at the recreational therapy he suggested. Now, we're all adults-figure it out!!

I wrote a poem last night. I will post it in another post.

I wish I had more to share but I'm feeling somewhat gray and weepy.

Thank you again to all here.

HUGS,
abeth

EVERY THREAD

I drove today to the cemetary, I was quite pensive, I was quite leary.
Every mile on the way, I was reminded, my mom was in every thread, each and every day.
Every thread of my being, the birds still chirp, the world still singing.
She passed to a world I do not know.
She wanted me to love, she wanted me to grow.
I wake each morning, I then remember, her passing away has left me lonely and somber.
Every thread, I still have and now my children will, too.
Mom, I will never stop thinking about the love I have for you.
With every thread, I am not mad.
Although I will never know the life we could have had.
I cry hot tears, I am sad.
For me to have peace, she wanted me to be glad.
I will now have a life with her living in my every thread.
I will now lay down comfortably in my bed.
I'll wake tomorrow and realize, she can still see me with her spiritual eyes.
My soul will be alive when all is done and all is said.
I'll still have her living in my every thread.

Beautifully said, Abeth. Hang in there--hug to you! :)

Melody

Abeth, its good to hear from you again. Writing is always a good way for me to express whats inside as well, and I can feel your emotion in your poem. Thank you for sharing it.

Welcome to the "newbies". :o)

Abeth, thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us. My brother lives on in my every thread as does all those we love here or departed.

Hi ya paul, I've found a photo of a bust that I did last year of you. It's from a photo that you had on this site back when you were in strictly ballroom. Here's the photo. I hope you like it and I'm sorry if I offended you about the scuplting before. I wasn't trying to make you feel uncomfortable. I hope you can forgive me.
Hugs and smiles.
From Becky.

Hi ya Paul I'm sorry about the photo not comming through, I'm having a little difficulty posting it into your corner. It dosn't seem to be working. Could I send you an email?
Becky.

Abeth, please accept my condolences too and deepest sympathies. And I'm wishing you lots of love and strength right now. I'm sorry I missed your post on this, I was skimming through because the subject matter I find hard to participate in because this is just a little box in my mind to post and it doesn't seem to be the kind of place I need to really express my feelings in these matters, like hugs and tears.... if I were able to give you a hug I would!

Amanda, don't go! You were so sweet to include me in your post. I kind of know how you feel too -- or at least I think I do, that when I come here to post I come here to connect with not just the members of PC and the chickees but to Paul and I certain, he wants to connect with us too which is why we have this wonderful blog. Take care!

Lots of love to you, Amanda and to all PCers chickees
and of course Paul :)
xxxoo
Tea

Becky--if you email it to me, I can put it in comments on the corner. Just take the "nospam" out of my email address.

I see a calender in your future, Paul. Each month would showcase one or two of your insights. Of course, no need to say that images of you would also grace the calendar pages. I'm thinking of something shirtless, perhaps for January? TIC

Silliness aside, I really appeciate you not only sharing your thoughts with us, but taking the time to do so. Sometimes sharing time with someone is more important than conversation. (oops, is this another insight?)

Hey, you forgot a nugget -- no drunk dialing! (Have I gotten into trouble over that one!)

Paul, I am intrigued about your show Food Trail. I live in Berkeley, CA where food is a really big deal -- This is the home of Alice Waters, the mother of the organic movement in restaurants and owner of Chez Panisse, a very expensive restaurant where five course fixed-price dinners run $85 US per person on weekends. Bill Clinton loved this place!

Anyway, a local author Michael Pollan has written a book, the Ominvore's Dilemma. He compares the industrial, organic and sustainable agriculture food supplies to see what exactly ends up on your table.

Basically, he says, know your food. Where it comes from, how long it took to reach your market and how it has been stored. Interesting idea. I used to go to a farmers market in San Rafael to get lettuce mixes from a child's swimming pool. The farmer would help me get the best lettuces. PS, if you were nice to him, he'd add new fluffy leaves without you even having to ask. He was a character. But then again, what does it say about me -- harvesting lettuce mix from a child's blue swimming pool. (Don't even ask me how I got the tomatoes.)

So, perhaps if Food Trail is still running, (we don't get it here (sad face with pout)) you could introduce one selected viewer to parts of his/her personal food supply. For instance, in the past few years there has been an explosion of named beef and poultry here. There are Rosie chickens and Niman Ranch beef. I have always wondered about Rosie and Niman. If I only got to know them on a personal level, I think I would be able to make better food choices, as Mr. Pollan suggests. I think your viewers would feel the same.

Whadayathink? Just running the idea up the flagpole to see what sticks.
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Sorry for the long post.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAUL!!!!!!!!!!!! Best wishes to you on this your 44th birthday.

Thanks for paving the way for those of us not far behind you.

Marian

Paul--

Happy Birthday

Feliz cumpleanos

Sto Lat (Polish for may you have 100 years)

(I dance Flamenco, but my background is actually Polish American! ;) )

Melody

Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday dear Mr. Paul,
Happy Birthday to you!

(I'm singing that in my best Marilyn Monroe voice!)

HUGS!
Abeth

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAUL.

You never cease to amaze me with your wisdom and insite.

It seems that you may be down a little here, but we have all been there at one time or another.

Paul if you are down a little, hang in there, you have bounced back before. It sounds like someone you have felt close to has taken advantage of you or hurt you. You can always blog you feelings here and we will understand.

I have been with you ever since your were in Vancouver, and wrote a poem for your dauthget's 14th birthday. I feel you have become an internet friend.

I hope that the Food Trail continues.

A new season of DWTS is in week three. We have quite a mix. An Olympian speed skater, a woman with an artificial limb, (she is awsome) A basket ball champion, a couple of models, a Miss USA winner, and several entertainers. Like the last season, I think it is going to be very competitive.

Instead of a computer for Christmas, Instead I got a new puppy. Her name is Coco. She and my other dog Cricket get along fine. Like siblings, they do get into fisticufs sometimes.

It's been sometime since I blogged here.

Take care, and love to all.
Marge

Happy Birthday, dear Paul!

I heard from one-in-the know from Australia that
"Razzle Dazzle" is in 5th place in box office receipts. The critics have given it 3 stars! Now
that's terrific for a musical these days!

I ordered the soundtrack from Amazon.com and it arrived yesterday...from Australia!

It is marvelous, with three great dance numbers
among others, one of which I plan to use in my next "Follies".."Can't Stop Dancing"...

Have a wonderful day with your family, today and always!

Shalom and Love,

Grandma Mil